Somehow I have a feeling that you looked at a picture in the Member Pictures forum and think that it is me. I'm the forum Admin, and that is a locked forum, so I make all the posts there. People send in a pic and some text and I put it up. You'll note my name is on every post. So you should check the thread name and see if the object of your attention is open to mail. Good luck.
And trust me, I'm not beautiful.
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