Yes Abbi3 is correct, hopefully you've been chatting, video chatting with your ler for a while and establishing a good connection beforehand. It always makes for a really good tickling session. Have a great time, let us know how it goes.
I've done hotels in different countries, as JohnJo says later in the afternoon after all of the housekeeping has ended but before the next round of stayers arrive. I've also hired an AirBnB apartment and shared the cost between us. It also means there's no problems if anyone wants to stay...