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Ironically, given his immense body of work & wealth he could have been a respected member of this community, if he was honest, and less embarrassed, about his activities. A producer who didn't care whether anything sold, would have been warmly received. Free clips for everyone! Unfortunately, I...

My professional take on his personality was that he was primarily motivated by his unacceptable (to him), sadistic homosexual fetish and overwhelming anger & paranoia & control. Imaginary persecutors were everywhere and had to be instantly annihilated. His favorite weapon was projecting his own...

2 Takeaways from This Experience 1. She is into you. She doesn't do this with 80-year-olds. As you suspected, it was a sublimated sexual urge. 2. Masseurs don't make much money. A steady client can contribute an important income stream for years, not worth jeopardizing over a potential...

It has its place It may not be as intense as other methods, but it may certainly get the job done in environments where you can't use anything else. (playgrounds, schools, parties, etc)

Your encounter has revealed 2 aspects worthy of study: 1. How little both of you know about the physical & psychological perils of play sessions. The many pieces of advice, described herein, should be taken to heart since both of you will, no doubt, be playing again, with someone. (Your girl...

No If it was cheating, the millions of Miss America TV viewers would first have to seek permission before committing adultery with their TV sets. (What a nightmarish Thought-Control World that would be! Very similar to ISIS' Veil-Burqa policy) People need to learn that Thought Policing...

The Cheating Question (Depends on Both Partners' Opinion vs It Automatically Is), at this juncture, appears to fall: 16 -Yes, it is 20 -No, it's not

It's not cheating unless specifically agreed upon beforehand. Arousal has nothing to do with it. If it did, millions of Miss Universe viewers would have to go to confession afterwards unless we henceforth switch to the Burqa Swimsuit Competition. (Oh, I keep forgetting. We watch it for their...

I still vote no. If one partner indulges & then feels guilty, and beats himself up, only to later discover that it was OK with his SO, was that indicative of cheating or of possessing a mile-long, masochistic streak seeking any excuse for self-flagellation.

Many on this forum seem to think this question can be answered by consulting only one of the partners involved. This makes no sense. One partner's opinion, pro or con, is meaningless without the other's point of view. -Sir Sea Spray Sr

I, too, would have to say that any music detracts from the video because it masks the sound somewhat, while adding little. I vote no.

The activity itself IS neither one thing or another. It all depends upon how it's viewed by the parties involved. Some are offended & some regard it as harmless play. The answer can only be found in discussing it with your partner. Perusing people's present, personal prejudices is pointless...

I would have to agree with Desperado Flare on this. The arguments against these YT videos appear to fall into 2 categories. 1. They're dangerous 2. We don't like what the Pervert is thinking. Response: 1a. YT is generally not conducive to predators trolling for victims since people there are...

Meets a Need One expects it would not be the practice of choice in a dungeon setting, but it would most definitely be in a household or school as opposed to branding irons. I would venture to say that it is, in fact, a quite common practice in those environments. (German teachers, for...

Of Course It Was Used It's unreasonable to believe it was never used while implement display & straight, prolonged bondage were recorded (& recommended, such as in Japanese manuals). The advantage, of all these techniques, is a lack of marks & expediency when used on susceptible individuals...

That's what I mean about clarity. Either way, inappropriate anger will repeatedly manifest itself as a problem in one's life until the individual forcefully & deliberately resolves to put the brakes on it. He may not be able to prevent feeling it, since its origins are unconscious, but he can...

All relationships undergo a certain amount of growing pains as individuals uncover unconscious reactions to various stimuli they didn't know they had. Your husband's reaction to the incident was 100% inappropriate. Its only justification would have been if he had clearly expressed his feelings...

You go, dude. Make us proud!

Orientals The term "oriental" is not considered racist when serving a useful function, such as delineating racial differences between Indians and southeastern Asians--all of whom are Asians. Since race is the issue here, the term was not used inappropriately. It is for this reason that the...

Fetish A fetish may also be an excessive, non-sexual fixation for whatever reason. The frequency, as well as the intensity of the response, is at issue here---things the individual may be unwilling to discuss. Observation can take the place of discussion if need be. -SirSeaSpraySr