I think I met a lee IRL last night

Sensualswitch10 · May 30, 2016

Last night I was sitting in a bar with a lady friend when this petite blond woman walks in and sits at the opposite end of the bar from us. This is someone my lady friend knows btw. So lady friend says oh, it looked like she was going to sit by us and decided not to. And of course I'm like, I'll go ask her if she wants to come join us. Because I do shit like that.
So I go over, introduce myself, be all charming and whatnot and she comes and sits next to me. And I'm teasing her about why didn't she sit by us in the first place and give her a little pinchy poke in the ribs. Very ticklish and squirmy. Also clearly enjoyed it. So I tickle her a little more, this time with both hands. She's giggling and squirming and not at all trying to prevent me from tickling her. And then with this really big smile she says, thank you, I needed that. It's been a really stressful day. Cue to get her good, right? So I give her a pretty good tickling, lady friend encourages her to tickle me back, complete with a demonstration of where to get me and little blonde lady gives me a little tickle.
Before this turns into a novel, my point is: I think maybe this lady was actually a lee? Or perhaps just someone who didn't mind being tickled by and flirting with a handsome stranger? Just curious if anyone has any thoughts.

brotherted · May 30, 2016

If she did nothing at all to suggest, imply or induce you to do the first tickle of her... I'd score this one more of a girl who wants attention, wanted to flirt with you in particular, and at least doesn't hate being tickled.

If by "'lee" you mean someone who's turned on sexually by being tickled, I don't think that's probable, since the initial tickling was entirely your idea.

CapturedDoll · May 30, 2016

Idk but either way... its nice to hear of someone just ENJOYING tickling and letting it de stress them. YES!!!!!

TKLVR18 · May 30, 2016

Vanillas often see it one of two ways-a total put-off and torturous, and those who find it to be relaxing, fun, and goofy. You seem to have lucked out and found one of the rare latter

~K

The Internet · May 30, 2016

You never know where or when Sensual Switch is going to strike next!

You have to give Switch some points just for scoring such a good tickle (a SERIES of tickles!) after just meeting her! Well-played sir! Let's see, sides, that's 10 points, times three, that's thirty points, an extra fifteen points for boldness and smoothness, and a bonus five points for making her like it, and involving her friend. So that's.....I don't know......ten thousand points? Something like that.....

Congrats, Maestro!! You should teach a seminar!!!

Sensualswitch10 · May 31, 2016

brotherted said:
If by "'lee" you mean someone who's turned on sexually by being tickled, I don't think that's probable, since the initial tickling was entirely your idea.

Yes, I did mean that by "lee". But technically, a lee is anyone on the receiving end of a tickle whether they like it or not.

Sensualswitch10 · May 31, 2016

CapturedDoll said:
Idk but either way... its nice to hear of someone just ENJOYING tickling and letting it de stress them. YES!!!!!

I can say I certainly enjoyed it either way!

Sensualswitch10 · May 31, 2016

The Internet said:
You never know where or when Sensual Switch is going to strike next!

You have to give Switch some points just for scoring such a good tickle (a SERIES of tickles!) after just meeting her! Well-played sir! Let's see, sides, that's 10 points, times three, that's thirty points, an extra fifteen points for boldness and smoothness, and a bonus five points for making her like it, and involving her friend. So that's.....I don't know......ten thousand points? Something like that.....

Congrats, Maestro!! You should teach a seminar!!!

Hahaha I love you man! Thanks for being so supportive!

Sensualswitch10 · May 31, 2016

TKLVR18 said:
Vanillas often see it one of two ways-a total put-off and torturous, and those who find it to be relaxing, fun, and goofy. You seem to have lucked out and found one of the rare latter

~K

I agree, the vanilla (with a swirl) people who enjoy it, despite it not being a kink for them are rare. Not so rare as our fellow ticklephile lees, but rare all the same and I'd say I did luck out either way.

Tenebrae · Jun 1, 2016

TKLVR18 said:
Vanillas often see it one of two ways-a total put-off and torturous, and those who find it to be relaxing, fun, and goofy. You seem to have lucked out and found one of the rare latter

~K

From my dating experience, they are not so rare. It is actually the first category that is sort of on the rare end of the spectrum IMO.

Also, I'd like to add, and once again this is totally from my experience, that you can make a lee from a vanilla girl over time. Sure, one can be born a natural, but it can also be "taught".

Aeveirra · Jun 1, 2016

Well...this was a tad weird. Not in a bad way, just... Different.
Weird because of how the definition of Lee" is implied here.
MOST people, don't like being tickled. Many really hate it, actually.
.... And, obviously we all know that already,

BUT there are a few people who genuinely like it.
And Not always as a fetish or anything.
They just like how it feels, and that it makes them laugh.
Its considered to be "fun", "cute","playful"..; ect.
For people (lees) who have a tickling fetish though, it can feel like the equivalent of sexual play. To me, it's the most sexiest thing in the world

But, I'm willing to bet she was one of those people who likes it in a non-sexual way. Like, Some People go to "tickle spas", for releasing stress, not because they find it arousing.
** Considering she said that it made her feel better after a stressful day, then That's probably exactly what it did for her; and likely, nothing more, other than make her laugh.

If It were me though... My reaction would have been very different.
If you had tickled me just once, even for a second - i would instantly yelp, be blushing noticeably, and smiling.
If you continued, I would giggle and squirm like she did, but i would probably be faintly moaning in-between giggles, especially if you tickled me around my sides / waist, like you did on her.
Afterward, I wouldn't have said "thank you" or anything like that...
( I would have difficultly even speaking because I would be extremely aroused ....)
But I would say.... "Heh....I love being tickled", or "You don't have to stop"..,

Tickling is literally an instant turn-on for me...and it's never "just playful", or used for stress relief. It *always* turns me on.
So, compared to her; i'd consider myself a "Lee", but with a major tickling fetish. Lol
For her.... Shes a Lee, but Probably does not have the same kink as me.
So, I don't think that actually turned her on.

But I'm also not totally sure what you were asking about her.
Did you think she is really into this, in the way you are? Or,
if she just likes it in a fun and playful way, and (not in a sexual-sense) ?
Did you want people's opinion about whether or not she was a "Lee" who is also turned on by being tickled?

Hopefully this response was informative
But I don't know that person, so this just my best guess.

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Again.... I say this was a little "weird" because you were a total stranger to her. I mean, yeah you introduced yourself and were sociable for a few seconds. But you don't know each other. Yet, she actually liked being tickled by you...
Lol, this has happened to me before, where people i had just met have tickled me. regardless if I know the person or not, I am still instantly aroused when I'm tickled. But that's more like an involuntary reaction for me.
I always thought people who were tickled by strangers didn't enjoy it, and often don't laugh from it.

Or..... Maybe..... She thought you were cute,
and she just liked having your hands all over her.... heh, yup!
....That just might be it!! hehe

Sensualswitch10 · Jun 1, 2016

I think the consensus here is most likely correct. She probably enjoyed being tickled because it relieves stress for her. And she probably had a little crush on yours truly. I have an update.
So lady friend came over last night, and among the things we talked about was little blonde ticklish lady from Sunday night. Apparently lady friend ran into her, and little blonde lady brought me up in what sounds like a gushing way. According to lady friend, little blonde lady said that she thought I was a"great guy" (after maybe 20-30 minutes of interaction) and wanted to know if I had a brother! XD
If only I could help her de-stress, like once a week! I bet she'd make a great play partner.

Sensualswitch10 · Jun 1, 2016

Oh, I almost forgot, she said she hadn't laughed like that in a long time.

maniactickler · Jun 1, 2016

You just might have struck gold!

I think I met a lee IRL last night

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