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Hey, there's lots of threads of late about negative feelings (guilt, embarrassment, shame) about this thing, this "fetish".
It's not the fetish. It's whatever you'd be into, you'd feel bad about it.
We are no different than anybody else, everyone in our culture is oversexed and hung up on whatever it is they're into. Quite frankly, I think you should be PROUD and RELIEVED that you're not into some of this other stuff people are truly cursed with.
Our thing is sanitary. It's tactile and sensual. It's legal. It's lightness of mood and spirit. It's so benign, they can't even believe we find it sexy! Yet it is so in-built to couples' interplay so as to become almost invisible. Everybody kisses and makes out......but not everyone has a kissing fetish, where they're focused on that alone. I wouldn't mind having a kissing fetish. Or a caress-the-hair fetish, I've known a couple of guys who like that. What's wrong with that? I feel our thing is on that level. I mean, we can get our kink going with it, of course, but pretty much my attitude is one of gratitude: "whew....I dodged a bullet. I could be into THAT....instead I'm into THIS."
I'm very snobby about our "fetish", it's the best! Are you kidding me? Endlessly fascinating. Never gets old. No two ticklees are alike. No two ticklings are alike. For a ler, it's like riding a bronco, for a 'lee, like riding a rollercoaster. Sounds like fun to me, sign me up!
I understand people feeling shy about the thing that turns them on. But don't beat yourselves up so much about it! I know this won't be the first or last time this will have all been said. I just thought this time, make a headline out of it.
It's not the fetish. It's whatever you'd be into, you'd feel bad about it.
We are no different than anybody else, everyone in our culture is oversexed and hung up on whatever it is they're into. Quite frankly, I think you should be PROUD and RELIEVED that you're not into some of this other stuff people are truly cursed with.
Our thing is sanitary. It's tactile and sensual. It's legal. It's lightness of mood and spirit. It's so benign, they can't even believe we find it sexy! Yet it is so in-built to couples' interplay so as to become almost invisible. Everybody kisses and makes out......but not everyone has a kissing fetish, where they're focused on that alone. I wouldn't mind having a kissing fetish. Or a caress-the-hair fetish, I've known a couple of guys who like that. What's wrong with that? I feel our thing is on that level. I mean, we can get our kink going with it, of course, but pretty much my attitude is one of gratitude: "whew....I dodged a bullet. I could be into THAT....instead I'm into THIS."
I'm very snobby about our "fetish", it's the best! Are you kidding me? Endlessly fascinating. Never gets old. No two ticklees are alike. No two ticklings are alike. For a ler, it's like riding a bronco, for a 'lee, like riding a rollercoaster. Sounds like fun to me, sign me up!
I understand people feeling shy about the thing that turns them on. But don't beat yourselves up so much about it! I know this won't be the first or last time this will have all been said. I just thought this time, make a headline out of it.