I'm not sure if you'll want to hear this, but I believe I have seen that movie clip and it is a very hot one. It was ellen barkin beginning to kiss her husband and she says that he should tell her she's the most beautiful thing. instead he starts doing her ribs and she lays back, screaming in laughter and warns him that he'll wake the kids. he tickles her some more and they break into some very hot kissing.
that is from an Ellen barkin movie, not sure if it is the one you're thinking of. It seems she is thinking about this in flashback, maybe he had died?