Women are fickle, I'll give you that. It's okay to be curious regarding the tickling stuff, but even if you're polite and nice about asking, you're going to get the same response from girls. Any random guy who sends me PMs asking me about tickling usually is nice and polite. But in the end, that's all they want. They have no interest in who I am, just what I am. and that's all I was trying to say. I think you're a really nice guy with good intentions, you're just doing the same thing as all those "tickle freaks" who do ruin it for good guys like you. Get to know someone before you ask them about ANYTHING tickle related, and you'll probably find that you'll get alot further with women.