Recent content by EvenSteven

open to being dominated It is a journey for a man to consider being dominated. Being open to it doesn't come naturally, but with the right handling, it can be a very exciting adventure. Tickling is a very good way to start the adventure. This is something that i know from experience. When...

understanding We cannot always count on the other person in the relationship to have the same fetish that we have, but we can hope for understanding. i started coming here to look for a female Ler, though, because then if a relationship did develop, at least we would have our fetish in common.

viewing i don't get a lot of pleasure watching the guy getting tickled unless i can picture myself in his place. But if the female tickler is really enjoying it, that is another matter. Also, i get a thrill at the sight of female onlookers being turned on by watching.

submissive male Perhaps it is exactly because it is contrary to normal public life where men are traditionally dominant, that it is exciting to be dominated by a woman... in this case through tickling. It is such a thrill to witness the emotion of wickedness when a woman tickles a man...

hooray for the F 'Lers Little Hellion, please don't let the criticisms get to you. i am a straight male lee, and i very much appreciate your posts. It is really fabulous to read comments such as yours and Porcelain Doll's. i haven't found a female Ler in CO, but it does me good to know that...

foreplay Tickling is my favorite foreplay. i can have great sex without it, but i like it better when tickled first. For me, all tickling is sexual.

reaction to our fetish It seems strange to me, but apparently, people who don't have our fetish just think we're kind of wierd. They don't seem to be outraged or appalled at it. The three women in your life could have exploited it, but they didn't really think it was such a deep, dark secret...

Siamese Dream Siamese Dream, i'd say your experience is similar to mine. Tickling always aroused me, even when i was too young to know what arousal was. It made me feel strange and it was scary, but i always enjoyed thinking about it even though i didn't want to openly acknowledge it. i never...

rules are for breaking Being pushed past the limits of what i might have said i'd prefer are the scariest, most exciting part of the event. Only then, can i truly realize what it is to have given up control. A woman should not be reluctant to take me to her domain of pleasure. She should...

minority i see that no one estimated that women far outnumber men in this forum. Ha! What a shock! Okay, then, now that we have established that women are in the minority here, i will request that we all try our best to behave nicely in order to retain those women who are members. i will try.

Venusian Women i wanted to be the 'lee. There was a Three Stooges episode where they rode on a rocket to Venus. When they went outside they were captured by three beautiful savage women who tied them to stakes and tickled their feet. This scene turned ne on like nothing else i had ever seen...

part of the relationship For me and my college gf, the bond of tickling formed after we began our relationship. At first, it was playful teasing when she started tickling me, but it developed into one of the several ways in which she exerted control over me. i loved it.

more erotic than funny From the very first time i had ever seen women tickling men, i became super-turned on and i was only a child. The scene didn't strike me as funny. It was just exciting. Kis, Mimi, Steph and TicklesHotel have it right. Now if only there were a female Ler in Colorado!

me too This is how i feel about it too. It is especially scary when i am in a conversation about tickling and the other person draws the word out of me.

give in and enjoy When i stop trying to physically resist and become totaly relaxed and just give in to being forced to laugh.