I appreciated your response to "denialntickling" - I am a gay male, age 49 - when I lived in Chicago a few years ago (I live in Texas now), I got together on Sundays with a banker friend of mine (str8 and married) who LOVED to have his feet tickled. His wife had no interest, but he and I had a great time together! So, my point here is don't let these guys give YOU GUYS any shit about wanting to be tickled by other men. Tickling is tickling, and if some form of sexual activity accompanies it, well, to me that doesn't label it as anything more than "a fun, playful time!" Take care, friend - Jeff