Hi from a fellow female member of the TMF! I'd love to chat with you whenever, just shoot me a message. Welcome - this is really a great place. I've met some good people through the TMF.
I remember when I first joined the TMF - I know I looked up OP, as there aren't many people in my age range here. I seem to remember he is married or otherwise attached - that would take him off my list of potential lers.