Your Fetish Tolerated/Undernourished

It seems there are plenty of individuals on the forum who are in relationships where they can freely express their fetish related desires with their SO and are completely satisfied with the level of activity in the area, both in the bedroom and out.

I’m wondering if that’s the norm for most members here, or does your SO only tolerate (even aware of) your desires? How many here feel that even if your SO knows, somehow you don’t feel you’re getting everything you need to be satisfied.

My wife is fully aware of my desire to tickle, and even enjoys it most of the time, but she doesn’t share the burning desire to be tickled as a true ‘lee. She is also aware of my desire to participate on tickle related sites, but does not really approve of the activity, and she is completely against any type of tickle related erotica (or any porn for that matter).

So there is some level of frustration on my part, but not enough to cause problems in the relationship. I’m curious who else here is in a similar situation, and to what level, from both the 'lee & 'ler perspective.

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Your Fetish Tolerated/Undernourished
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It seems there are plenty of individuals on the forum who are in relationships where they can freely express their fetish related desires with their SO and are completely satisfied with the level of activity in the area, both in the bedroom and out.

I’m wondering if that’s the norm for most members here, or does your SO only tolerate (even aware of) your desires? How many here feel that even if your SO knows, somehow you don’t feel you’re getting everything you need to be satisfied.

My wife is fully aware of my desire to tickle, and even enjoys it most of the time, but she doesn’t share the burning desire to be tickled as a true ‘lee. She is also aware of my desire to participate on tickle related sites, but does not really approve of the activity, and she is completely against any type of tickle related erotica (or any porn for that matter).

So there is some level of frustration on my part, but not enough to cause problems in the relationship. I’m curious who else here is in a similar situation, and to what level, from both the 'lee & 'ler perspective.
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For me I am very fortunate that I am married to such a very open-minded and such a very understanding and such a caring and loving person my husband ticklebear 2 understands that I have a great love and intense passion for tickling. I am very fortunate also because he greatly loves and he is very passionate also about tickling. We both greatly love tickling. He loves when I tickle him and I love when he tickles me--both him and me are both switches-there are times many times him and me do have quite our share of great tickle fights and tickleathons, not gobs but we do have some -we do share some wonderful times of ticklefests.

I am also very fortunate that my husband is totally comfortable and totally fine with other guys and others tickling me-he really likes and enjoys when I get tickled by other guys and others-he loves that-he loves to watch me wiggle and squirm giggle and laugh and go hysterical when I get tickled whether that be me bound and restrained or me not being restrained and bound. He is a great wonderful sweet guy; I am very fortunate to have him for my husband. I feel very lucky and fortunate we share the passion for tickling.

Though sadly lately not gotten to have as many tickle fights and as many ticklefests as we have in the past; been very busy-attending school to become a nurse and he has a really packed work schedule but other than that-ticklebear 2 (my hubby) and me have a wonderful great loving relationship and a really great marriage. So I am
one of the lucky fortunate ones you would say. I am very
happy this is the case.

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My wife is fully aware of my desire to tickle, and even enjoys it most of the time, but she doesn’t share the burning desire to be tickled as a true ‘lee. She is also aware of my desire to participate on tickle related sites, but does not really approve of the activity, and she is completely against any type of tickle related erotica (or any porn for that matter).

So there is some level of frustration on my part, but not enough to cause problems in the relationship. I’m curious who else here is in a similar situation, and to what level, from both the 'lee & 'ler perspective.

TonyInMyThroat,

I am really sorry to hear that you feel frustrated and feel that you are not having your tickle need met as much as it could be-that really is a tough situation. I hope things get better for you and look up for you soon. It is good that she does love tickling, but sad to hear she doesn't share the burning need and love to be a true lee, that has to be really tough. I am sorry it is a rough time for you; glad and happy though to hear it is not enough to cause you both problems, glad to hear it is nothing that can't be resolved and figured out, that is really good to hear.

Yet I think that the problem of having ones' needs met and satisfied is really not as rare and not common as it seems-because I think that this problem is a very common and a very frequent trouble in relationships and marriages; least it can be if desires and fantasies and sexual needs and emotional needs are not clearly communicated and expressed fully. I am sure many can relate to what you are saying TonyInMyThroat-that is a sad thing to be sure. I commend you for being brave enough to share something like that here-that takes great courage. Not everyone could do that. Like I said I really do hope that things look up and things mend between you and your wife.

Just know that you are not alone; sure there are lots that sadly feel that their kinks, loves, passions, and fetishes are undernourished or not appreciated fully. By the way this was a great thread to create and start so thanks, hopefully it will help many others that feel alone and need someone to be there for them-know that they are not alone and that we can all help each other-after all that is what friends and what TMF is for

Thanks for the replies and support TickleBunny.

Perhaps I wasn’t very clear in the OP, but my relationship hasn’t suffered because my wife doesn’t share our level of passion for tickling. It’s simply one of many aspects of the relationship that make up the whole. I was really looking to see how many other active TMF members are in a similar situation, and what they do to keep the relationship successful.

I’m glad that you and TickleBear also have this to share together, it seems many couples here do the same.

I may create a poll to see if we can get a better breakdown on the subject.