Understanding the Value and Limits of the Personals Subforum
We hope you will enjoy and make use of the personals subforum as one way to meet people in your area. However, please understand that it is just one way to meet people. Many forum members, and women in particular, are not interested in meeting someone from online that they do not already know very well or that is not already very well known by other people in the community.
As an alternative to the personals section, we suggest that you also visit the General Gatherings subforum. Here you can find out if a munch or gathering is taking place in your area. Even if you are only interested in one on one play, by attending live events, you will make real life friends and contacts. If you are friendly, fun, and respectful, you may find it easier to meet people in the future after they meet you and become known in the community.
In addition, posting in the discussion forums, both about tickling and non-tickling related topics is an excellent way to allow people to get to know you in a more in depth way than can be expressed through a personals post.
Finally, keep in mind that negative posts on the forum, not just in the personals subforum, reveal you to be a negative person, rarely a quality sought by a potential partner. Instead of making negative comments, instead consider reporting questionable posts or comments to a moderator. Stay constructive and on topic, and where it fits your personality, stay positive.
We wish you the very best of luck finding that special tickle partner.
Thank you to Baldadonis for his initial creation of and valuable additions to this note.
We hope you will enjoy and make use of the personals subforum as one way to meet people in your area. However, please understand that it is just one way to meet people. Many forum members, and women in particular, are not interested in meeting someone from online that they do not already know very well or that is not already very well known by other people in the community.
As an alternative to the personals section, we suggest that you also visit the General Gatherings subforum. Here you can find out if a munch or gathering is taking place in your area. Even if you are only interested in one on one play, by attending live events, you will make real life friends and contacts. If you are friendly, fun, and respectful, you may find it easier to meet people in the future after they meet you and become known in the community.
In addition, posting in the discussion forums, both about tickling and non-tickling related topics is an excellent way to allow people to get to know you in a more in depth way than can be expressed through a personals post.
Finally, keep in mind that negative posts on the forum, not just in the personals subforum, reveal you to be a negative person, rarely a quality sought by a potential partner. Instead of making negative comments, instead consider reporting questionable posts or comments to a moderator. Stay constructive and on topic, and where it fits your personality, stay positive.
We wish you the very best of luck finding that special tickle partner.
Thank you to Baldadonis for his initial creation of and valuable additions to this note.
