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The validity of "Which TMF member would you tickle" threads

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There have been several of these threads going on the TK section in recent memory. As I posted in one, I get kind of skeeved out by them. I would not want to be mentioned in any of those threads because:

1. Anyone who knows me could just ask to play with me at a gathering, no need to broadcast it. Also, if they really know me, they'd know how annoying I'd find this.
2. Anyone who doesn't know me shouldn't broadcast wanting to play anyway.

I really feel like these threads objectify women and single out ones (especially younger women) who post their picture on the forum. This strikes me as masturbatory fodder.

Yeah, some of the threads are non-gender specific. But let's be honest - most of the responses are about women.

What are your thoughts? Have you been called out? How does that make you feel, or how would you feel if you were? Do you post in these threads, and if so, why?
 
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I know how you feel, I hate these threads too, because then it turns into a popularity contest, and someone always feels left out.


I agree with everything you said. Kinda wish they would stop that, its like promoting something that's not good, makes ya feel kinda slimy
 
Just to explore the other point of view, I suppose it might be ok if the person responding to the post is on good terms with the person they list as one of their "person they'd like to tickle". Otherwise, I agree with what you said.
 
sasaxrah said:
What are your thoughts?
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Well, I may be in the minority, but I don't care how many times they are posted or, really, what people say in them. I can dig some people tend to find it a little off-kilter, but on a forum about a sexual fetish, you aren't getting Barney.


sasaxrah said:
Have you been called out? How does that make you feel, or how would you feel if you were?
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I've been called out and don't mind at all. At the worst I don't care, at the most, I'm flattered. It's in my mind for all of two seconds before I just move on to something else. I find the responses can be pretty funny sometimes for people calling others out they know pretty well and enjoy reading the banter that goes with it. I honestly think they are just all in good fun and not meant to be the creepy guy with congested breathing, inhaling and exhaling on the back of your neck.


sasaxrah said:
Do you post in these threads, and if so, why?
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I don't, because I don't relate tickling to a casualness that I can do with any number of people I am not on a very familiar basis with. So I don't actually find myself thinking much about who it would be nice to do that to. I find myself usually thinking how I wish I could meet certain people. But to each their own, and I'm okay with it.
 
sasaxrah said:
What are your thoughts?
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They are as common as the "TMF is a clique" threads.

Have you been called out?
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Yep.


How does that make you feel, or how would you feel if you were?
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I don't really feel any way about it. -- I think that some of the more socially in-ept characters we have seem to think to compare some of us towards the tickling models they are constantly watching and dreaming about.


Do you post in these threads, and if so, why?
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I rarely post in them. The one I last posted in was the newest one we have and I did so because one of the guys who "called me out" made a post that made me laugh. So I acknowledged it.

Some women take those threads as huge compliments, why? I don't know. I guess the desire to want to be sought after reaches a farther net of space instead of something a bit more generalized. So seeing their name might cause them to feel like they are lust-worthy. Even if they scoff and roll their eyes at the gesture.

Although, as Purr said, there is a flattery element there too.

And some guys post in them who have actually played with certain members and are calling them out to be playful and mess around. It's not always one specific "kind" of person who creates/interacts in those threads.

I do agree that in a way it's like a popularity contest, although it constantly amuses me that it's the men mostly complaining about it then the women. Perhaps because some men seek to be desired in that way as well and make it not-so-secret when they run around stomping their feet that, "no-one wanted to tickle me, wahh!"

I don't really think that they're doing extreme amounts of harm or causing issues, and mostly the only time it causes feelings of objectification is when a man who doesn't know the person they are seeking, posts that they'd like to tickle them. There are also aspects to our personality that might differ either slightly or extremely to the handle that we post under, so that also might make people desire what it is they are seeing versus what it is that's really there.
 
I've seen them, and they really don't bother me. If anything I enjoy reading them because it's interesting to see what people say. I've been mentioned a time or two, and it didn't bother me. Like Purr said, at worst I don't care, at best I'm flattered - depends on the person.

I can totally see how it can come across as creepy and some women might be offended being named by someone they don't know, but for me personally :shrug: doesn't make a difference.

Except Sandrock's new thread - I wanna be mentioned in that!!!!
 
i just ignor the crap woman arnt sexual objects they are human and should be treated as so
 
I don't post in them because it's all just a big popularity contest. Besides, no one picks me, so it reminds me of how unpopular I am! *flings everything off the table in anger and rejection*

I do, however, enjoy making parody threads about them, like the one I just started a little while ago. I hope Skippy enjoys her shed. LMAO! *picks up the mess I made while I was pouting*
 
Personally, I hate them.. prior to my absence I wouldn't have cared but honestly, now I do. In fact it was threads like that, that had me having a hard time trying ti convince my husband to let me back. 9 times out of 10 the person how lists my name hardly knows me well enough to do so, if it is a really good friend that's fine.
 
Seeing as how 60% of the internet is porn and 35% of all else is lonely, socially dysfunctional men, you really can't be TOO surprised.

They used to bother me in a white-knight-OMGWTF-female-members-are-people-too type of way, but there comes a point when you realise you've just got to take the rough with the smooth and ignore them. I've never posted in one that I can remember, because I can appreciate how "calling out" someone I'm not on friendly terms with might make them feel uncomfortable, but by the same token Rod Chambers is gay.

Yeah, I couldn't think of a way to finish that thur.
 
They are to say the least a joke. As stated earlier to me this fetish is something to be shared with someone I know personally and am comfortable with and trust and care for. I have engaged in this with one person on this forum and all those requirements were met to the letter. That being said, she's probably the only one who I would want to engage in it with again. Its not a slight but this is something that is my own decision.

These things will happen on this type of forum so you take the good with the bad. Anyone can post anything on here, but the fact of the matter is that nothing will actually happen unless both parties allow it too.
 
sasaxrah said:
What are your thoughts? Have you been called out? How does that make you feel, or how would you feel if you were? Do you post in these threads, and if so, why?
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My thoughts are ...
Well I can't really be too hypocritical here. I have done a tickling video and this is a fetish forum. I don't really mind it .. but at the same time I am a little creeped out ... it's a weird feeling.

I have been called out... and I guess there is nothing wrong with it. I have my picture up. The one thing I found kind of odd as I was going through the latest thread about this topic... is some of the people mentioning my name I didn't even know who they were. I had never even talked to them before.

And I do post in the threads if I have something to say.

I guess overall I'm just indifferent about it. I can see both sides.
 
When all is said and done though, they’re probably better than a “Which TMF Member Would You Not Touch with a Ten Foot Poll” thread. :wowzer:
 
Bohemianne said:
When it comes to threads like such, I sort of miss a lady who is really popular and favorite around here, yet she handles it well without any side effects in it. I like the way guys swarm her. Whenever she gets mentioned, I sincerely feel that it's all play and that no sour grapes is involved...and that lady is Tickleshotel.

The times passed by...

I think threads like that are just done for fun, nothing more. It's just like "Compliment a TMF member" thread. Just words.
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Are you German or Dutch or ROmanian or something?
 
TonyInMyThroat said:
When all is said and done though, they’re probably better than a “Which TMF Member Would You Not Touch with a Ten Foot Poll” thread. :wowzer:
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I'd pay money to see a thread like that...Even if I was mentioned several times.:firedevil:whipcrack::canada:
 
sasaxrah said:
There have been several of these threads going on the TK section in recent memory. As I posted in one, I get kind of skeeved out by them. I would not want to be mentioned in any of those threads because:

1. Anyone who knows me could just ask to play with me at a gathering, no need to broadcast it. Also, if they really know me, they'd know how annoying I'd find this.
2. Anyone who doesn't know me shouldn't broadcast wanting to play anyway.

I really feel like these threads objectify women and single out ones (especially younger women) who post their picture on the forum. This strikes me as masturbatory fodder.

Yeah, some of the threads are non-gender specific. But let's be honest - most of the responses are about women.

What are your thoughts? Have you been called out? How does that make you feel, or how would you feel if you were? Do you post in these threads, and if so, why?
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I agree one hundred percent!
 
Well, on the one hand, I would never call out a person I didn't know because I think the TMF can be a scary enough place for girls with pictures without having something like that happen. But on the other hand, you've got 5 more fingers
 
I think its safe to say that any woman and prob any man would be someone someone wants to tickle
 
Don't read them,don't post in them.I would rather keep such matters private.

Falstaff: 'The better part of valour is discretion; in the which better part I have saved my life.'
 
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