tickling and monogamous relationships...can tickling tempt you...

Many here seem to be in a monogamous relationship in which their significant other is also into tickling. I think for alot of individuals this would be the '' perfect situation''.

For those others where their partners aren`t into tickling, have you ever been tempted to have a session with someone else without your partner knowing. Can the temptation be so strong as to go outside the relationship and possibly risk everything ? I can`t imagine someone actually fessing up a to this , I was more wondering about if the possibility came along would you actually give it serious thought .

Or would you actually go to your partner and explain the situation even though both of you are in serious monogamous relationship; whether that means married, engaged or long term dating

If I were in a monogamous relationship with somebody who wasn't into tickling and didn't want to play with me, (first of all I wouldn't be in that relationship long) I would make it very clear that I'd be playing with other people. That having been said, I don't think I'd go for a private session without letting my S.O. know, unless it was at a gathering. I wouldn't sit there and be like, "You want to session? Sure, just let me call my husband and let him know." No thank you.

I've been honest with my boyfriend about my fetish and the sessions I've had in the past before him. So far we haven't had an opportunity where we could play, but he has playfully tickled me. I know that he's not into it but is open to it.

I've talked to him about me potentially having more sessions. He is all right with it and we both agree on where the lines are. I like both playful and sexual tickling so for future sessions, it'll only be tickling and nothing more. My boyfriend will know where, when, and who I am session-ing with.

See.. Funny this was brought up, cause my fiance' and I had this conversation not long ago. He knows all about this place, and he also knows I REALLY want to attend Nest. We talked about the posibility of me "playing" with other people there, but he's not 100% okay with it.

The reason wasn't what I thought it would be though.. It was because he's well aware that to most people this is a fetish, and therefore can be very sexual to them. He doesn't want me playing with someone that is getting something out of it sexually.

I totally see where he's coming from with this, but I also feel like I may be in a no-win situation as there's no way to be sure the other person isn't thinking that way, Nor is there a way to change his mind. He's stubborn like that!

I know for alot of people on here by reading through various threads, that for some it's not necessarily WHO they session with that becomes the sexual part, but more the act itelf? .. Is this true? , Any advice?

I feel for ya, T... I'm too tired to give a well thought out response right now, but I will 🙂

I have come to the conclusion that I won't be in a romantic relationship with anyone not into tickling. It's too important to me and would eventually end up(as Skip said in her post) Not being in it very long. I'll either find a fellow tickle lover to actually have a relationship with or... I'll be single with lots of tickle buddies all over the globe.. Either way, I'm getting my tickles... eventually that is...