how do you ask someone to tie & tickle you?

TicklingIsLife · Jul 26, 2001

I know plenty of people who would love to tickle me, but how do I ask them to tie me and tickle me without sounding like am sick and perverted?

Cyber36 · Jul 26, 2001

Like the Nike ad says......"JUST DO IT"

qjakal · Jul 26, 2001

Hmmm..

I usually address this issue from the OPPOSITE side...lol. How about the classic "bet"? "I can get out of any knots you amateurs can tie...etc. etc." Or make a rather silly bet with the loser to be immobilized for an hour at the winners pleasure...that sort of thing. Just be natural and spontaneous, and it shouldn't be a problem. 😉

SlaverTickler · Jul 27, 2001

Simply put

"Excuse me Ma'm would you tie me up and tickle me?" Of course this is most often followed by a slap

TicklingIsLife · Jul 27, 2001

I agree with SlaverTickler.
...There gotta be a polite way of asking someone to do this, I am not asking for sex, you know?

Everlast · Jul 27, 2001

Well....this is compliacted.......

This is a complicated area.....but I'll take a stab at it anyway....

When you ask to do something involving any type of restraint, there needs to be a level of trust between the two or more people that will be involved. It can be a very odd request if the person doesn't know you, and what you're all about. So, I must tell you that, if you choose to go through with this. You need to make sure that you completely trust the person, and you have to ask them in a way that you know will not freak them out.

EXAMPLE

I was invited to a slumber party one time (yeah, a slumber party, I was the only guy there, however, I had known all the girls there for a good three years, so it was cool) and the urge to tickle, well, it was just very overwhelming. So, to make a long story short, I instigated a tickle fight, and I was soon on the recieving end.

LATER THAT EVENING.......

After all of the craziness settled down, the girls decided to go out to the local 7-11 for some food. However, I convinced one of my close friends to stay behind with me, and keep me "company."

Now, I had known this girl for a long time, and she could always read me like a book, so when I asked her if she'd tie me up and tickle me, well, it didn't seem like an odd request to her. So.....you guys can figure out what happened next.......hehehehe.......

END OF EXAMPLE

So, if you wanna get someone to tie you up and tickle you, you need to establish trust and understanding. I can't stress how important that is. Because if this person doesn't understand you, then tie and tickling would seem like a weird request. Once again.....just let it flow man.......let the funk flow (I dunno what that means, I heard it in a 70's cop movie) Later people........

njjen3953 · Jul 28, 2001

Knowing that they want to tickle you is half the problem solved. Have you asked these people yet to tickle you? If so, and you have gotten a positive response, I think that asking to be tied will be as well taken. They are probably wondering, How can I tie him up and not have him think I am sick and perverted? LOL

SlaverTickler · Jul 29, 2001

Plans of my own...

Hay when Sara Ashley's dancing in Toronto again, she said I could tir her up with silk scarves and have at her. I am couting the days, beleave me.

TicklingIsLife · Aug 7, 2001

How would you ask to tickle someone with their shirt off or in a bikini or their bra and panties??

qjakal · Aug 7, 2001

Like this...

Carefully...very carefully.😉

TicklingIsLife · Aug 11, 2001

I do know someone that would give me a quick poke at the ribs every once in a while for th hell of it. Does this mean that that person wouldnt mind tying you down and do that tickling?

TicklingIsLife · Dec 19, 2001

Just poppin' in and refreshing this thread 😀 :angel:

TicklingDuo · Dec 19, 2001

What I did...

After Drew and I had gotten together a few times and had discussed the whole idea of bondage and what we both felt about it, I decided to go for it. So, one day, while he was at the store, I restrained myself. (I had things prepared in advance.) When he returned, he found me cuffed to the futon in my livingroom. No need to ask then! LOL

Ann

TickledToDeath · Dec 19, 2001

TicklingisLife

IF there are already alot of people who whould love to tickle you as you mentioned, the next time you are tickled, fight to get away a bit more and mention in passing, "you'd have to TIE ME DOWN to keep me from getting away"!

You are not really asking for it therefore passing the opportunity to the tickler(s)to bring it up.

Reverse Psychogoly😉 😀

TTD

mpath · Dec 20, 2001

i like TTD's approach

The ol' reverse psychology bit would be my preferred approach... 🙂

The next time your friend tickles you, saying things like, "I'd probably DIE laughing if you ever had me tied up so I couldn't get away" would certainly encourage the devilish tickler to try it some time (or maybe ask YOU if they could try it). Check their reaction/response after you say something like that....
Perhaps follow it with, "but I wouldn't mind" 😉 (or
something to that effect).

Good luck!

TicklingIsLife · Dec 20, 2001

TicklingDuo's idea of tieing yourself up beforehand sounds worse than just asking to be tied up....(sorry TicklingDuo😛)

The reverse psychology thing sounds like a good idea, but then you have to get them to tickle you normally first....🙄 🙄

JAT · Dec 21, 2001

My fiance (before we got married) new how much I loved tickling and being tickled. So, one day when she was tickling me I said "I've always wanted to see how much I could take without being able to stop the tickling". So she said "Lets try". So I said, "It's to easy for me to stop you and it tickles to much for me to sit there and let you, I would need to be restrained somehow... would you ever tie me up and tickle me?". I was to happy to hear her response, "Sure, if you would like that". Boom, the next thing I new she supprised me with rope, etc... man am I glad I asked!

mpath · Dec 21, 2001

cool, JAT!

I think I like your idea best now. It's simple, direct, to-the-point and honest...what more could one ask for? Any friend would
be only too happy to "oblige" in that situation. 🙂

again, great suggestion!

TicklingDuo · Dec 21, 2001

TicklingDuo's idea of tieing yourself up beforehand sounds worse than just asking to be tied up....(sorry TicklingDuo)

LOL...no offense taken, TIL. I think it worked for us because of the fact that we'd discussed it. 😉

Ann

TicklingIsLife · Dec 22, 2001

Direct and right to the point is probably the best way, but theat would depend on how you say, when you say it, the mood he/she is in.

......right?😕 😕

TickledToDeath · Dec 22, 2001

Sometimes you just have to roll them dice. The Chances of rolling a winner is far better than rolling snake eyes. IF you know what I mean?

TTD

TicklingIsLife · Dec 22, 2001

I know what you mean by rolling the dice and taking chances.
Rolling snakes eyes? now you lost me TTD😛 😛 😀

TickledToDeath · Dec 22, 2001

LOL, Rolling snake eyes at any time in dice is a LOOSER big time. Ergo I meant that if snake eyes is rolled , the worst case scenario and fears will be the result of taking the aforementioned chance.

GET IT!!!😛 😛 😛 😉 😀

TTD :firedevil

TicklingIsLife · Dec 25, 2001

Ooooohhhhhhhh...........😛

Gotcha TTD 😀 😎

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