To be honest, it's a lot harder to meet female ticklephiles one-on-one. Yet another motivation for having started gatherings. I got to meet a lot of cool folks, women and men. I married one of 'em.
Don't be disheartened by a lack of response to this post, sir. Try attending a munch, like the one MistressMia just did in New York. I'd recommend Mia to you wholeheartedly. I can also recommend NEST, in Philedelphia, which is yearly, these days, happening in May this year. CAT, in Connecticut, is another recommendable, and I hear good things about Tethers and Feathers, too. The more you try, the more likely you'll find the one, sir!
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