Boston, looking for a female 'ler... Yeah, I know there's folks fitting that bill in that region. Look into NHLee's gathering. Seriously.
Also, NEST could be great for you. A trip to Philly, meet a dozen or more people who live around you. Potentially get tickled in excess if you're remotely considerate to those attending...
Check the gatherings in your region, especially now that it's coming on the easier-driving part of the year. Visit. Get to know 'em.
Have 'em tickle the daylights outta you.