25/m/pa...newly single

[Empyrium]

Hello everyone

I've posted in the personals section before, but to no avail. Well, I'm trying it again. I'm not expecting much, hopefully atleast just a new friend or two. I'm newly single, unfortunately? Anyway, a little about myself. I'm born and raised in southern Pennsylvania. I love music, almost any kind, but mostly prefer classic rock and metal. A little bit of hip-hop, country, classical...like I said almost anything. I enjoy movies and reading, anything outside, parties and the bar, and hanging out with my friends and family. Oh yeah, tickling is fun, too =) I prefer being the tickler, but I have no problems being a 'lee, either. Anyhow, if this seems even a little interesting to you, hit me up. Like I said, I'm not expecting much, but it'd be nice to meet a few new people. I'm not so much into m/m, but I don't mind talking to guys. So yeah, feel free to reply on here or my aim name is HomeGrownYC, my e-mail is [email protected].

 

[Empyrium]

Damn...35 views, no replies?

 

[dvnc]

Women are curious and shy, here. Takes a while for one to communicate with a guy they don't know. If you involve in discussions here, or meet folks from here at events, you'll find your possibilities of connecting improve.

I wish you good fortune, and figure you'll find it, here or IRL.

 

[baldadonis]

Women are curious and shy, here. Takes a while for one to communicate with a guy they don't know. If you involve in discussions here, or meet folks from here at events, you'll find your possibilities of connecting improve.

I wish you good fortune, and figure you'll find it, here or IRL.

Very true. I never met a woman off the personals during the time I lurked on the forum (although I was luckier on another site). Now I have about five women confirmed to come to my next munch, none of which have ever attended before. It takes time for women to get to know you and they are usually more comfortable to do that in a safe public group setting than one on one.

Moral of the story, the personals are a very difficult place to meet women when you are not well known in this community. I wish you the best of luck. If you can, go to a munch or gathering sometime and you may find it a much easier way to make contacts.

 

[Empyrium]

dvnc and baldadonis...I appreciate your advice. My girlfriend wasn't big into the tickling scene, nor was she very happy when I eventually tried to show her the forum. I thought she'd be a little more supportive, that wasn't the case, though. Needless to say, I wouldn't have had much luck trying to attend any kind of gathering while I was with her. I do intend to get out and hopefully make some new friends at some kind of TMF event this year. I suppose posting in the personals section is wishful thinking on my part, but you never know. Just to be clear, though, I'm not looking to meet a girl on the forum today and in person tomorrow. Even I'm a little more shy, not to mention more cautious, than that. Friends first =) So again, thanks for the advice.