A much maligned thought....for Our Fellow Mmebmers

[Journia]

I have thought on this subject for years, and I just decided to pen it, If one of our members were to say, die, how would we know of it without the person's telling us? Well I have hought of a great solution. I have a book of my usernames and passwords for hundreds of different websites and messenger handles. So, I wrote in the book as a note, that when I am pronounced as passed from the realm, someone will log into the different places which I visit and state my death and kindly ask them to not message me or things of that sort, because, hey, I am not going to get it.

Now before someone shouts out, "Hey Are you asking us to put our usernames and passwords on here for all to see?" and starts to flame me, I am not doing anything of the sort, I want recommend to you the procedure which I go through. I just don't like to be left in the rut, trying to message someone who is already deceased in hopes of speaking to them.

Sincerely,
Journia Legaladuc

 

[sole seeker1]

Dear Fallen Angel of Normalcy:

Hmmmmm.......... This is undoubtedly a good solution for you and for many others. Since I have not "come out of the tickling closet" with friends and relatives, this isn't going to work for me. I have no wish for the last thing they learn about me to be that I am among their kinkier acquaintances.

I too have pondered this problem. To date I haven't found a solution that doesn't involve trusting someone within the tickling community with my real life identity. I actually have identified myself to a person or two here and on TMF, but they're no longer active in the community.

My search for an answer to this conundrum must continue. (*sigh*)

sole seeker

BTW - My latin is very rusty. What does your name mean?

 

[Journia]

Actually I haven't come out of the closet with my interests and when I am dead, how are those persons going to affect me after this? I mean, hey, I can't be seen, and they can't touch me, they will touch my body, but not me. Also, if those persons truly love you they will not be swayed by your interests prior to your demise, after all, you were loved by them, I assume, and as such they would love you even if you were as some would call it, a deviant from the norm. So, think about it, it can help you. and also, you don't need to tell anyone.

By the way, I don't know what the meaning of my name means but I think I will look it up. I don't think it is latin.

 

[Camel26]

I thought about it and would tell my ler/fiance to post on my behalf...

She'd understand how important it would be to me to let everyone know where I went...

 

[Janus4385]

I have also thought about this, and my best solution for it is to tell a friend of mine(doesn't really matter which one) to send an e-mail to a member of this community, to a member who I have previously spoken to and has agreed to it of course. Since this person is only going to get an e-mail from someone he doesn't even know, and the person sending the e-mail doesn't know who it is that's receiving it either, then it would be pretty much confidential; and since the receipient is a member of the community he/she can post the news from his/her account

 

[Journia]

Yes. Quite understandable Janus, I however put forth my method as a way for those who have many handles and accounts to hear of this.WHEN i SAY i HAVE HUNDREDS, i MEAN HUNDREDS.

 

[BigNorm]

that sounds like a great idea, heck, i know i've thought about the subject at times. and for me, the only 2 sites i really visit are here and the TMF.

if anyone wants me to be their "obituary poster" i'd be willing to give out certain contact information, just gimme a PM, if you want.

 

[Journia]

Well, it seems that I have started a trend. What a way to re enter myself.

 

[nessonite1]

Hey, never hurts to be prepared. Upon my departure from this world I've already asked my significant other to notify a few people who would, in turn, pass the message along. I'm not really active in any online communities except for this one and the ATF anyway.

 

[DarthGrinn]

Interesting thought... I'll chew on this for a few years before making a decision.

Here's to a happy and fulfilling life to us all 🙂

 

[Journia]

Agreed! *Clinks wineglass in a toast*

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

I've thought about this scenario several times, and being that I'm on several sites theres more people to prep for this sort of thing, so it's more difficult than someone that can have it all done by one person who will post to one online community.

In my case, a network of strangers would have to be created, and I'd have to fimiliarize these strangers with eachother so that when one gets word they all get it, regardless of where they are on the net.

 

[Journia]

Bueno.

 

[BigNorm]

Bueno.

Noches

 

[Journia]

Oy Vey....

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

Also, I don't think any of us should feel bothered as to inform people we did not know. I'd be far more concerned with knowing the people I cared about found out, than some stranger (where it won't matter whether you're gone because it's a dead account or you yourself are dead).

When you look at it that way, the list of people you've got to have someone go through isn't so long.

 

[Journia]

Yes...but for those of us who don't want someone to potentially worry....Ole!