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A question for the Closet Ticklers in the room.

Slappy McGee

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yes, I know closets aren't ticklish.... you know what I mean, the people who haven't stood on a hill and shouted their love of tickling to the masses..... those of us who are still "secret" ticklers.

What if....
what if....
what if.... someone you know, lets say someone you know rather well, confronted you about their suspicions about your tickling fetish, not giving any indication as to whether they approved or disapproved?

How would you react?.. just between the two of you? not like in a crowd or anything...

this actually happened to me...sort of... I was giving a good friend of mine a foot massage for like the 300th time, and out of nowhere she said "you like feet, don't you."..... I was quiet for a second, and then I said, yeah, I do, but I'm not really that comfortable with it, so lets keep it between us, ok? She said "OK, there's nothing wrong with that, though." And I said "I know, I'm just not comfortable with it for some reason." and that was pretty much that. I still rub and tickle her feet almost every time we hang out , and it has never been brought up again, and that was probably more than a year ago now.

Just curious how everyone else wold act in such a cnfronted situation.

Slappy McGee

PS, Please don't everyone tell me I should "Go for it" with this girl... we are just friends and are perfectly happy that way. LOL
 
It sounds as if you delt with it very well. You were honest in two ways. You said you did have something for feet (I know not if you are a foot partialist, but you like to tickle feet so you DO have something for them) and you said that you were uncomfortable discussing it. Both true statements that provided the woman with all she needed to know; a fact and a supporting feeling on where you stood on the matter. Clearly she has been satisfied with the answer, and also respects you, as she has not pressed the issue again.

I'd wager that this is a person you could discuss your fetish with more deeply if you chose to. She was comfortable bringing the topic up in the first place, didn't reject you, or belittle you when you answered in the positive, and has respected your limits in discussing the topic for some time. Odds are she will be just as open and understanding if you talk more. People such as this are gems.

My best,
Myriads
 
Actually, I can relate....

My ex girlfriend began to casually mention my interest in her feet about a year into the relationship...she was being careful about not directly confronting me but dropping fairly obvious hints that she had not been totally blind and had noticed. Unfortunatly, being extremely shy, I never even once followed up on it actively (though I did enjoy having access to her quite pretty feet for the rest of the time we were together) and I never confirmed it verbally to her. Good to see you were able to stick it out and say yes right to her face. Congrats 🙂
 
I have to say, I believe that honesty is the best policy. However, you have to wait for the right time to tell her. And sometimes, it is so obvious by the way you act you may not have to verbally say anything.
 
You handled it well. At your age, I probably would have said, "Uh...Er...HEY, LOOK, A FLYING SAUCER!" and when she did, run like hell.

Strelnikov
 
Oops! Sorry, amigo, I figured you for younger. Guess my Alzheimers is acting up again...

Strelnikov
 
thats ok, I haven't been particularly forthcoming with too many particulars about myself thus far, (and i do have a silly sense of humor). Guess it is a way to keep my guard up for a bit, I'm sure over time I'll put that guard down more. Gotta start slow.

anyway... no harm done.

Slappy
 
wow! This topic really interests me. I guess I'm just lucky to be surrounded with people that just like to tickle each other a lot, so there is never an uncomfortable moment. I think it would be more difficult to tell your family about it, no?
 
yikes!!

telling your family.... now there is something I would never want to do.... I don't tell them about my vanilla sexual exploits, let alone my kinkier ones.... that would be completely horrible and unneccessary... although if one were going to, I guess no better place than while everyone is gathered around the thanksgiving turkey....I can picture the conversation now:

"hey mom, will you pass the gravy"

"Sure"

"hey aunt Mildred, will you pass the rolls?"

"ok"

"so how is everything, dear?"

"well, lately me and my girlfriend are having problems. You see, I want to tie her to my bedposts and tickle her until she has a screaming orgasm, but she isn't into it. I wonder why?"

.........dead silence.......


I would love to be a fly on that wall....

I have this nagging fear that if one day I die for no apparent reason, then my family would find my "little stash" of videos, toys, etc. and even though I would be dead, I know I would be embarrassed.

once on some sketch TV comedy show they did a skit where you could pay a company to rush in and get rid of all your drugs and porn if you die so nobody will find it.... that sounds like a good idea to me!!!!

Peace

Slappy McGee
 
Years ago, I endured an in-company course on Supervision 101. One item mentioned was that the supervisor is responsible for going through a newly deceased employee's desk and/or locker to safeguard company property, both physical and intellectual. The instructor also said that sometimes you find out that Good Old Charlie kept his porn stash at work so his wife wouldn't find it. If so, do her a favor and toss it before you gave the rest of his personal stuff to her.

Strelnikov
 
Re: yikes!!

Slappy McGee said:


I have this nagging fear that if one day I die for no apparent reason, then my family would find my "little stash" of videos, toys, etc. and even though I would be dead, I know I would be embarrassed.


Man oh man does THAT bring back memories! LOL On more than one occasion, I've had my "stash" discovered by parents and siblings. It's strange... although I won't always volunteer information about my interest in tickling, (unless it's relative to the discussion we're having), I have this thing where I just flat out refuse to be ashamed or embarassed if people find out or suspect it. They never did confront me about it either... I guess it made the way I acted growing up a little clearer though! hehehe Kinda confirms something DVNC once said about if people suspect you're up to something kinky, and also suspect you'd tell them, they won't even bother to ask! LOL

Oh and Strel
"You handled it well. At your age, I probably would have said, "Uh...Er...HEY, LOOK, A FLYING SAUCER!" and when she did, run like hell."

That's got to be one of the funniest things I've read in awhile! It makes me think back to when I was a kid. If you've read my bio, I mention how I used to tickle girls I had a crush on when I was little... it was just my way of displaying my affection toward them. Well one little gal was walking after school one day, and I thought she was the prettiest thing on legs...plus I'd seen her friend tickle her silly the day before, and figured it was my turn. Well I got behind her, tickled her sides quickly and when she didn't immediately fall to the ground laughing, I panicked and ran accross the schoolyard!! One of my friends thinks this is the funniest story ever... but I CAN'T imagine WHY! *pout* hehehe
 
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