A Question for the TIB

[0102030405]

Hello, Mr. TIB.

First, I just want to thank you so much for ALL of the GREAT material you continuously post here at this forum.

I just went to the "5 minutes" site, and viewed ALL 48 pages; along with ALL the models' pics that I could.

You definitely have the BEST looking, most GORGEOUS women out of ALL the tickling sites I have ever visited since '98. You are one seriously lucky man.

My question is this... have you ever had a situation where there was a woman you wanted to tie up and tickle, but she really didn't want to, or was unsure, and you had to somehow convince her to allow you to do it? Were you able to convince her, and if you did, was the experience good for her? (I'm sure it would be for you... lol)

That's MY situation with my wife. She has NO idea how popular this fetish is, or that I have been visiting these sites for so long. She knows I want to tie her up and tickle her all over... and she is SERIOUSLY ticklish. (She's gorgeous too, comparable to some of your models... I'd love to watch a couple of them tickle her... anyway...)But she is unsure and hesitant. I have talked to her, asked her, but we haven't been able to get there yet.

I'm sorry this post is so long, I know you are busy, and yet take time to post all the great links you post...

I wish you more continued success in your tickle-life, you are the man I have dreamed of being. Thank you for any help you can offer me as well.

-Still in the closet, at least locally...

 

[Uktickler]

Hey MeTickleYou

I know you have aimed this question at TIB but I would just like to give you a bit of hope, I tie up and tickle my fiance regularly. But she was not always so willing (she is very ticklish and hates being tickled so to be honest shes not generally that willing but she does let me never the less).

I think its about building trust, Has your wife ever been tied up before? Have you ever tied her up before? If she has had a bad experince with an Ex whereby she had been tied up and left or even hurt in someway etc. All these issues need to be addressed and overcome.

Once she knows you truley love her (and Im assuming she truely loves you) you should be able to get her to try it a little. But you have to be strict with yourself if you have agreed to stop when she says (whatever your stop word is going to be, I suggest you agree it in advance) then you have to stop. This is especially important the first few times you tie and tickle her. You must build trust she really must feel safe when you have her tied up. If she is really scared in any way then she aint gonna let you do it again is she?

I would also suggest keeping you first few 'tied and tickle' sessions quite short. And this bits important make sure after the session (even during if you want) you tell her how much what you just did turned you on. As a generaly rule (and it is only a general rule remember women are people and just like men, women too are all different so you need to read signs listen to what she tells you etc), but as a general rule when a woman loves a man she is often turned on by being able to turn her man on more. So once she realises that you really get turned on by tieing and tickling her at some level it will probably turn her on too. This is key to your success, you must trust her enough to be honest about your fetish (without scaring her so feed it one bit at a time if need be) and she has to trust you enough to let you tie her up and tickle her.

Another thing for you to try, onces you have told her that it turns you on is looking at some tickling images you like. Once she sees a few sites about tickling and or sees part of a video or two she will see that its not such an abnormal thing. Basically the more you can expose her to it the more Normal she will see it as. MagicT has done some boyfriend tickling Girlfriend Videos which are great to use for showing her at first as she gets the idea that it is somthing that other boyfriends and girlfriends / husbands wifes etc do.

Also by sharing your secret with her she will feel that you trust her (this is especially true of she thinks Tickling is a strange fetish) As she will feel extra trusted, you need to make it clear to her what a big secret is. Often having such a secret between couples makes them stronger together. Also having seen you trust her with a secret that big she is more likly to trust you with being tied up (maybe not tickled yet but you would be part the way there and its all one small step at a time).

So my friend Take it slowly and good luck. I do have a few other tips if your interested feel free to drop me and email or PM.

 

[phatteus]

Sorry, TIB, I know this was directed to you, but I feel the need to respond as well:

I understand that no one in this "thread has suggested what I am about to bring up, but I feel that the point was implied... If someone does not want to be tied up and tickled, no one should ever think that they can "convince" someone that this is a good idea. Sensual bondage, so to speak, is something that can only be attained by a trusting couple, or if more people are involved than two, so be it, however the key word is trust. Now the Tickler in Black, I'm sure is a trustworthy induvidual, or else he would not have had the good fortune to have tickled so many lovely women. If the TIB were a creep and harmed anyone while in bondage, his craft would have been shut down long ago, and this is certainly not the case. Quite to the contrary, most of the women in his clips seem to be quite comfortable with the situations in which they are placed.
Now, in the sense of the "at-home ticklers" as the rest of us (or most of us) are, we may have an unwilling partner. Perhaps your wife, girlfriend, fiancee, whomever, may not be willing to be placed in bondage and tickled by you. This in no way means that she does not love you, nor does it mean that she does not trust you. It means that she does not want to be placed in bondage and tickled.
Should I meet a lovely young woman who has a particular fetish with which I am not familiar, I would be happy to do whatever in within my power to indulge that fetish. However, if I am not comfortable with the afoermentioned fetish, then I would have to draw the line. Fecal play comes to mind. As does a smoking fetish, or anything involving blood.
Just as I do not readily endure fouling and bodily pain, many people would much rather not suffer physical restraint and tickling, which is really little more than physical and psychological torture.
Again, to coerce someone into this is not always a good thing. Just like sex, no must ALWAYS mean no, until someone is ready to accept it. If that acceptance never happens, so be it.

 

[BellyTicklerX]

Man, I have been enjoying that guy's work since before he even ran that company, or maybe he was the "shadow" head of the company. Either way, he rocks.