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A Request To QBWeaver From Helena

Helena

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Hello,

I have only been a member of the TMF for a short time. I have seen several of your posts. The reason that you got my attention is because you seem to have some experience tickling men.

As a ticklee, I don't really get the opportunity to tickle my tickler. I've been trying to figure out how to convince him to give a try to switching roles with me. It occurred to me as I was reading something you wrote that it is possible that it's a pride thing. He is fairly dominant. Maybe he feels silly when I make this request. I am not sure. I hadn't considered that his feelings may be fairly complex. Having my tickler in bondage and discovering that he is horribly ticklish might embarass him. That might be what is blocking him from trying it with me.

Could you give me some ideas about how to get a dominant tickler to switch? Any thoughts or suggestions you could give me would be appreciated. Thank you for reading this.

Helena
 
Hi Helena,

I was just replying to your email to me when I happened upon your post so I'll just reply here if that's ok with you.

There are some men I've played with who are, and always will be, Tops or Dominant in the scene. It could be that they don't want to explore their ticklishness or they might be scared to find out how ticklish they really are. Or it could just be that they really don't want to bottom or take on the sub role. It's really a personal decision on their part if they would be willing to try it. I would imagine that some men really just enjoy being the Dom in the scene and really would not enjoy the sub role.

In any case, I'd recommend you continue talking to him about it and expressing your desire to try switching roles sometime. If he truly protests then I'd let it go. But if he's on the fence about it you might want to make some type of agreement of a limited amount of time that you would switch roles. Maybe a 10 minute scene would be good to start. (BTW - that should NOT include the time it takes for you to tie him down because that takes quite awhile in itself). Try negotiating for a short scene, see how it goes and if he enjoys it and you do too then maybe you have the start of some extended sessions later.

You might also want to start the first scene with just really light tickling. This works well for a couple of reasons. One, you get to let him experience the tickling by easing into it lightly. Second, you get to explore different areas of his body that you should make a mental note of for use later at another session. And third, depending on your relationship with your "ler" this can be quite erotic for you both thus giving you a win/win situation.

So keep on trying. But here's a warning... If you go ahead and tickle him and he's not in bondage... be prepared for retaliation! ok ok... so that might be lots of fun too but just consider yourself warned!

And more than anything else.... have fun with it!

Hugs and Tickles!
Jan
 
I'd also like to hear from some of our other members to see what recommendations they can pass along to Helena. So what do you think gang?
 
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