A serious question about my fetish. Please give oppinion

[JaredG]

Hey everyone. I was thinking about how much I am into tickling, and I am starting to become worried that it is getting out of control. I discovered that I had this fetish about 4 years ago. I dont now how it got started, but Ever since then, I have become obseced with tickling, especially underarms. I have never really tickled any women, exept occasionaly when I give them a foot massage, but never their underarms, which is and always has been my favorite place. I have just been too affaraid that they will think I am some kind of weirdo if I told them that it was a big turn on for me. But anyway, while my tickling fetish remains, it has also produced something compleatly new: an overall underarm fetish. Its not just seing them get tickled, but just seing a womans underarms gives me an erection. I honestly think that at this point, seing a womans underarms is more arousing for me than seing any other part of her body. Any time that I see a hot girl, the first thing I think to myself is: "I would love to tickle her underarms. I bet their really smooth and ticklish," and things like that. I feel like my underarm tickling fetich is taking over my life. Are these feeligs normal? Thanks.

 

[crazybob]

That sound like the same type of problem I had. Ecxept mine was a tickling and foot fetish. You know what I did? GO FOR IT!!! Be open about it, have fun, and tickle every chance you get. Yes, some people are going to think you are a freak. It's a good thing if you ask me... there are too many normal people out there anyway. You'd be suprised, though, how many people will just find it interesting and even share some of their own fetishes with you! Go for it... and BE A FREAK!!!

 

[andymac1]

Ditto to crazybob. I have an uncontrollable female foot tickling fetish! I have been honest to girls and in the main they've entertained the possible idea of foot tickling and a minority have tried it! Tell 'em, you may have a nice surprise!

I think if people can't hack a little difference in sexual taste, they are just too narrow-minded or unimaginative - like the 'get yer tits out, luv' or the 'drop ya panties' neandertals!

Stuff 'em I say and have fun!!!

 

[TheDubliner1]

yep go for it. i am still very shy about my tickling fetish and only 2 people in my life know about it, and luckily, one of them is my gf. i was so embarassed to tell her at first, that i could only tell her via aim, because even on the phone or in person, i think i would have hyper ventilated or something, but when i told her... she thought it was really cute and better than some of that other kinky stuff. she even agreed i can tickle her whenever i want, as long as i stopped when she says stop, which she doesn't do very often ;-). go for it and have fun, but be careful who you tell though, not everyone is meant to know everything.

 

[CollegeBoy1]

That sound like the same type of problem I had. Ecxept mine was a tickling and foot fetish. You know what I did? GO FOR IT!!! Be open about it, have fun, and tickle every chance you get. Yes, some people are going to think you are a freak. It's a good thing if you ask me... there are too many normal people out there anyway. You'd be suprised, though, how many people will just find it interesting and even share some of their own fetishes with you! Go for it... and BE A FREAK!!!

Good point here, I once met a girl who was real open about her fetish so in turn I was open with mine and it was a real good night..lol...

 

[jj82277]

and remember, just because someone doesn't share your fetish doesn't make them closed minded, or unimaginative, just different, and that's okay. This site is a perfect example of the fact that their are plenty of people out there who share your particular taste. and i think that the way to maximize tickling is a monogomous tickle partner in your spouse, but that's traditional to some.,

and remember, all success lies on the other side of not worrying about what people think about you. My favorite president was Linclon, and when he was elected, because of his ideas half the country basically QUIT THE UNION, but where would we be today without him, and you will be a lot happier with your ticklish spouse.

 

[cosquillero1]

Hey everyone. I was thinking about how much I am into tickling, and I am starting to become worried that it is getting out of control. I discovered that I had this fetish about 4 years ago. I dont now how it got started, but Ever since then, I have become obseced with tickling, especially underarms. I have never really tickled any women, exept occasionaly when I give them a foot massage, but never their underarms, which is and always has been my favorite place. I have just been too affaraid that they will think I am some kind of weirdo if I told them that it was a big turn on for me. But anyway, while my tickling fetish remains, it has also produced something compleatly new: an overall underarm fetish. Its not just seing them get tickled, but just seing a womans underarms gives me an erection. I honestly think that at this point, seing a womans underarms is more arousing for me than seing any other part of her body. Any time that I see a hot girl, the first thing I think to myself is: "I would love to tickle her underarms. I bet their really smooth and ticklish," and things like that. I feel like my underarm tickling fetich is taking over my life. Are these feeligs normal? Thanks.

I can see that you're really young, because all fetishist did pass for this moment, when we questioned ourself about of it, if it's ok or not, but that happen whe we are really young, when we haven't got enough matureness, but that feeling disappears as we are maturing, so you don't need worry about it, include you'll enjoy that like me. Don't worry, that's part of you like mine is part of me.

 

[MistressValerie1]

Hi, Jared,

There's nothing wrong with thinking that smooth female underarms are sexy. In some Asian countries (like Indonesia), very modest women cover their shoulders and underarms when going out in public because it's considered too sexy to display them. In other places, the female rear end is considered to be very erotic, while in the English-speaking world, most men seem to go ape at the sight of large breasts, lol.

As long as your interest in underarms doesn't impel you to attack female strangers and doesn't prevent you from having a good, well-rounded relationship, it's nothing to worry about 🙂

Happy tickling,

 

[-Kunoke-]

Hey everyone. I was thinking about how much I am into tickling, and I am starting to become worried that it is getting out of control. I discovered that I had this fetish about 4 years ago. I dont now how it got started, but Ever since then, I have become obseced with tickling, especially underarms. I have never really tickled any women, exept occasionaly when I give them a foot massage, but never their underarms, which is and always has been my favorite place. I have just been too affaraid that they will think I am some kind of weirdo if I told them that it was a big turn on for me. But anyway, while my tickling fetish remains, it has also produced something compleatly new: an overall underarm fetish. Its not just seing them get tickled, but just seing a womans underarms gives me an erection. I honestly think that at this point, seing a womans underarms is more arousing for me than seing any other part of her body. Any time that I see a hot girl, the first thing I think to myself is: "I would love to tickle her underarms. I bet their really smooth and ticklish," and things like that. I feel like my underarm tickling fetich is taking over my life. Are these feeligs normal? Thanks.

I feel ya bro....same thing is happening to me with my foot tickling fetish. I think the same things you do when you look at girls too, just with their feet. I've been caught many a time looking at girls' feet as well, and I get really embaressed about it. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if there are dozens of people that suspect my fetish because of it. I'm still trying to work it out in my head, but no matter how hard I try, I can't seem to keep it off my mind. Even after my need is satisfied by tickling my ticklee for an hour or two...it doesn't seem to go away. Instead, I find myself wanting more and more. Once I've passed through this, and gained a little self control, I'll be happier I'm sure. I just hope it happens soon, because like you, I know it isnt a good feeling.

These feelings are normal, and eventually, they will most likely pass. Like cosquillero said, everyone passes the point in their life where they are afraid their fetish is taking over. It's a part of you, you just have to control yourself. Think of it like this. Your fetish is intertwined with your sex drive, so basically, when your fetish takes over, you may find yourself not only pondering the tickling, but maybe just having sex with the girl (or guy, for the girls out there, or maybe girl anyway...but I wont get into that). To get rid of this the fastest, you want to aim for the root of the problem. If this situation describes you (not just tickling but any sexual situations), then what you really want to try and control is your sex drive, and that may let up on your fetish a bit. If not, then the best advice I can offer you is try to think about something else, instead of tickling. When I find myself staring at a girl's feet, I'll try to think about something else I really like, such as...maybe candy, or a game, or you know, anything.

I wish you the best of luck.

 

[andymac1]

Kunoke..I really relate to your first paragraph! Same thing here man!

 

[maxamum_sumthin1]

yep go for it. i am still very shy about my tickling fetish and only 2 people in my life know about it, and luckily, one of them is my gf. i was so embarassed to tell her at first, that i could only tell her via aim, because even on the phone or in person, i think i would have hyper ventilated or something, but when i told her... she thought it was really cute and better than some of that other kinky stuff. she even agreed i can tickle her whenever i want, as long as i stopped when she says stop, which she doesn't do very often ;-). go for it and have fun, but be careful who you tell though, not everyone is meant to know everything.

wow! thats exactly like me!!

anyway, i agree. just try and embrace it, i know this seems diffcult, it did to me at first. But i'd just try and get on with it 🙂 Get in there!

 

[meangry1]

But it's hard to be open.

I know I'm still in the closet. I don't want ANYONE to know about it. I don't even want to break it to a woman I might be interested in. It's just too much, and I don't like the thought of someone thinking less of me because of a quirk.

It's easy to say be open, but for many of us, that just seems like an impossible goal.

 

[-Kunoke-]

I understand how you feel, but, once you let it out, from my experience, it doesnt become much of a huge deal. I felt the same as you, I didn't think I could tell anybody. As if I wasn't already enough of a social outcast, this definately wouldn't help right? Wrong. It wasn't until AFTER I let people know about my fetish that I started getting more friends, to be exact, women. I definatly hadn't been the most popular attractive person around. But lots of girls I met were even attracted to the fact that I had a foot/foot tickling fetish. Those who wern't attracted to it either didn't mind or didn't care one way or the other. Thanks to that though, people can get used to the real me, because tickling is a HUGE part of my life, and now it is even more because there are more oppertunities presented to me.

I know it doesnt feel right, and I know everyone is different and I'm sure not everyone is in the same situation as I was and who knows what could happen...but...what's life if you don't take chances? But then, you have to decide for yourself. Whats more worth it? Bottling it up, or sharing it with the world, possibly finding happiness, or possibly finding unhappiness. Then, if you're going to tell people, and because it sounds as if you want to play it safe, choose VERY CAREFULLY who you are telling. You'll want someone who knows you well and trusts you and who you know and trust.

 

[jj82277]

think and grow rich, page 54. the only question is how do you feel about yourself.

and King Arthuor said unto Lancelot "You can not love people in slices" okay, that was the Sean Conery version, but i think the point is still vlid. whatever quirks you have you should get out in the open, because when you live with a person in marrioage it all comes out. You want to get it all out upfront, so the other person can make an informed decision. lets not forgettt that there are 3 billion women on the planet, if one thinks your wierd, that means there are still a lot out there that might think you are the answer to all their naughty tickle fantasies. I know its hard to be open, but we're men damn it, lets step back up to the plate.

 

[LisVender]

Fighting your fetishism will only make you feel more ashamed. Your wisest option is to shrug your shoulders and accept it, without letting it overtake your life.