A tickle question of sorts..

[melanie2]

TTD has suggested that since i had to utilize my safe word once during a session, it meant i was broken..now i was forced into saying it after the ler hinted over and over..i hadn't even thought about using it..does this mean i was broken? We went on for about three more hours after this, and i never used it again.

 

[maniactickler38]

Yes. you wimped out. you cant take it. :lol

 

[melanie2]

Yes. you wimped out. you cant take it. :lol

o bite me.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Using the safe word means two things and two things only.
1. Emergency... there is a problem...etc.
2. The ticklee wants the session to END.

if anything else, like the cuffs are hurting or there is a cramp or something with the bondage causing pain or other PHYSICAL issue...then a temporary stoppage word is used ...like saying want the issue is...."cramp" "cuff" or whatever word that signifies what the issue is.

A safe word means you want the session to END. STOP and be freed. You are DONE and surrendering, giving up...etc.

ERGO, you used it and you were broken regardless of after the tickler stopped and you had a nice break and wanted it to then continue.
Then you should not have said your safe word. Saying it, meant you wanted to tickling to stop because you couldn't handle any more!

 

[melanie2]

TTD i never once thought of using it until he kept hinting at it..ergo i was not broken..you wuss..hehe

 

[TickledToDeath]

He tickled and continued to tickle...you said he would not stop so you screamed out your safe word......not knowing if he was serious about not stopping thus and ergo, you were made to say your safe word...not "Yellow" which in some circles means you need a temporary stoppage for whatever reason and "RED" which in those same circles, means you are DONE.
UNCLE and RUMPLESTILTSKIN are the better of the standard safe words. There are others. You said it you were broken.
You say it resumed after you were given a break and continued for the rest of the afternoon.....so who finally brought the session to an end...YOU? Or the Tickler?

 

[melanie2]

The tickler did..therefore..ergo..i wonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn lol.

 

[Inverse]

LoL sounds like you had a good time regardless Isa. <3

 

[TickledToDeath]

The tickler did..therefore..ergo..i wonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn lol.

Not quite...because you had already safe worded which means you had already been broken for that session. The fact you continued afterwords is a different story different session.
Nice try though.

 

[melanie2]

Not quite...because you had already safe worded which means you had already been broken for that session. The fact you continued afterwords is a different story different session.
Nice try though.

oooooooooooo i hate you...grr

Inverse it was fun...hugs.

 

[maniactickler38]

Just admit it, you were broken! :lol

 

[makugiggl1]

I think we need to try it again to experiment Is...🙂. How are you doing girl? Been awhile.

 

[Prone_To_Laugh]

A Matter of Degree

There are some lees who utter their safe words during a session as often as they breathe. (One would say it as soon as my feather touched her anywhere.) It gives them a sense of control--however illusory--but doesn't
truly demand a cessation of tickling.
Was Isabeau broken? If she had protested another touch, I'd agree with TTD.
However, her apparent eagerness for more says her use of it was less surrender than coming-up-for-air.
I think she remained a defiant gigglebox, despite her momentary lapse.
It would be a fun challenge to test her resistence more empirically.

 

[melanie2]

There are some lees who utter their safe words during a session as often as they breathe. (One would say it as soon as my feather touched her anywhere.) It gives them a sense of control--however illusory--but doesn't
truly demand a cessation of tickling.
Was Isabeau broken? If she had protested another touch, I'd agree with TTD.
However, her apparent eagerness for more says her use of it was less surrender than coming-up-for-air.
I think she remained a defiant gigglebox, despite her momentary lapse.
It would be a fun challenge to test her resistence more empirically.

ahaaaaaaaaaaaa exactly that..i not only never said it again..i never even considered it..even when i was wearing nylons for a brief time and the tickling was driving me crazy..so there TTD lol

Makeugiggle hiiiiiiiiiii it's been ages..i'm doing great..

p.s. is the theater running slow? it takes forever to get on a thread.

 

[TickledToDeath]

you said your safe word....period. Broken. the second session was a different session and in THAT session you were not but the first one...you said that safe word...you admit you said the safe word and it was indeed said ERGO...broken. done. period.

 

[TKLVR181]

I use my safeword when I need a break all the time...Senshi always asks if he's ok to go on, but he nearly always is....imo it depends on what the LEE wants, not what the ler thinks they want.

~K

 

[JackVanderson]

I use my safeword when I need a break all the time...Senshi always asks if he's ok to go on, but he nearly always is....imo it depends on what the LEE wants, not what the ler thinks they want.

~K

Exactly. When it breaks down to two people who are in agreement with eachother frankly the lee is in far more control then the ler. There's no point in drawing black and white lines as to being "broken" or not. And really does it even matter aslong as both parties involved had fun? It's like politics, all pointless to debate because niether side will EVER come to terms with the other one :3

 

[TKLVR181]

And by the same token if 'not being broken' is a standard for you, then maybe yeah you were broken....correct me if I'm wrong Isa, but it sounds like you're not one of those people. It also sounds like TTD is, correct me if I'm wrong, my friend. Doesn't sound like a matter of whether or not you were broken, just a difference in how people do things---which is what makes TT so great! ^___^

~K