Advice needed - eliciting giggle or laugh reactions

[pole position]

Good news is that I’ve got a gorgeous girlfriend now. Long legs. Sexxxy feet. And ridiculously ticklish. She knows about my fetish and is open to try and working it in. Great.

One thing that’s tough is that she doesn’t laugh or giggle when tickled. Rather she grunts, growls, sounds annoyed but doesn’t giggle. Maybe it cannot be changed - but its not as fun to tickle her with those reactions.

Wondering. Has anyone ever tried methods to more easily giggle in conjunction with tickling? Giggle cannabis gummy? Anything? She's open minded to try something.

Dumbest question of all time!! I know!

Funny thing is I can tickle her all I want during sex with little or no reaction because the ticklishness goes way down during. And of course off the charts ticklish right after orgasm.

And advice only! I don’t need any personal offers from dudes to help! Lol

 

[TheMasterTouch]

It may just be a matter of her feeling comfortable enough to let go. The reactions you describe may have developed as a defense mechanism. If she didn't laugh or giggle when she was tickled in the past, then maybe the tickler wouldn't enjoy it so much and would stop tickling her. Once she gets to know you better, and she realizes she is safe with you, maybe she will be able to let go and laugh when you play with her. The reactions of the women I've dated definitely changed over time, usually for the better.

Hope this helps, and I'm glad you found someone.

 

[robmic]

Do you affectionately tease her when you're tickling her? And light tickles to start with might get some giggles. Save the hard core intense tickling for after she is more comfortable being tickled

 

[Myriads]

Peoples responses to tickling are pretty much a firmed up thing by adulthood.

Some people don't laugh when tickled, they scream, grunt, gasp, go silent, etc. Laughter is the commonest response, but it's not the universal one. Odds are you won't really be able to induce a laughter response if it's not there now.

I'd suggest your best option is a forced orgasm/tickling back and forth pattern. The idea being that the orgasms will eventually erode most of her behavioral cohesion and allow for other hardwired responses to emerge. I'd suggest a toy like the Womanizer Duo, which is one of the air pressure style vibes. It can be used for much longer periods without causing the sensitivity that a friction vibe like a Hitachi will cause with many woman's clits. Add in that the Duo is a direct G-Spot vibrator also, and it's pretty effective at forcing orgasms quickly and effectively. Run a dozen or so of those, and then switch to tickling for a break and see what you can get. If not laughter, then back to the forced orgasms for a while.

You may get laughter eventually, but you'll also get a lot of other amusing sounds and reactions from the unending orgasm streams.

Myriads

 

[quinn65]

Run a dozen or so of those, ...

Welp, there go all my bragging rights for forced orgasm sessioning...

 

[pole position]

It may just be a matter of her feeling comfortable enough to let go. The reactions you describe may have developed as a defense mechanism. If she didn't laugh or giggle when she was tickled in the past, then maybe the tickler wouldn't enjoy it so much and would stop tickling her. Once she gets to know you better, and she realizes she is safe with you, maybe she will be able to let go and laugh when you play with her. The reactions of the women I've dated definitely changed over time, usually for the better.

Hope this helps, and I'm glad you found someone.

She read these suggestions. This is a good one. We are working through this - I'm always very light touch tickling with her - never poking or squeezing because that would drive her insane and definitely produce the unwanted sounds. She likes all the suggestions.

Do you affectionately tease her when you're tickling her? And light tickles to start with might get some giggles. Save the hard core intense tickling for after she is more comfortable being tickled

Yes - this is my technique. But pretty good at this as well, so it tickles her a lot - she needs to get used to it!

Peoples responses to tickling are pretty much a firmed up thing by adulthood.

Some people don't laugh when tickled, they scream, grunt, gasp, go silent, etc. Laughter is the commonest response, but it's not the universal one. Odds are you won't really be able to induce a laughter response if it's not there now.

I'd suggest your best option is a forced orgasm/tickling back and forth pattern. The idea being that the orgasms will eventually erode most of her behavioral cohesion and allow for other hardwired responses to emerge. I'd suggest a toy like the Womanizer Duo, which is one of the air pressure style vibes. It can be used for much longer periods without causing the sensitivity that a friction vibe like a Hitachi will cause with many woman's clits. Add in that the Duo is a direct G-Spot vibrator also, and it's pretty effective at forcing orgasms quickly and effectively. Run a dozen or so of those, and then switch to tickling for a break and see what you can get. If not laughter, then back to the forced orgasms for a while.

You may get laughter eventually, but you'll also get a lot of other amusing sounds and reactions from the unending orgasm streams.

Myriads

Thanks for this suggestion, but it will definitely NOT work! LOL Post-orgasm her level of ticklishness is 10x. Oddly enough when her body is being revved up pre-orgasm, when I tickle her, it does not tickle. But as soon as the orgasm hits, its all over!! Way too ticklish.

BTW - thanks so much for the Womanizer Duo suggestion. I bought it and we tried it. Start to finish, she orgasmed in less than 60 seconds. I think she's a little afraid of that thing now!!!!

Welp, there go all my bragging rights for forced orgasm sessioning...

Quinn - go out and get that toy. Its pretty damn great!