Advice needed: Meeting a professional Dominatrix

[Bondo]

Hey all,

I am meeting with a local professional Mistress for a foot fetish photo shoot in a couple of weeks. I was wondering if anyone could give me some pointers to the etiquitte of how to treat such a woman.

I'm not looking to become her slave, it's strictly photography. But still, I want to know how what and what not to say and how to say it. Obviously, respect is the underlying attitude.

Does anyone have any experience with meeting with a professional Domme? Any pointers and shared experiences would be greatly appreciated.

Bondo =]

 

[MistressValerie1]

The best advice I could give is to act as if it were a mainstream first date. Dress nicely, be neatly groomed, and be polite. Don't grovel or act like a "slave."

The main thing that is different from a first date is that you are paying for her time, so make sure that you communicate exactly what you want, to avoid any misunderstanding and ensure that you get your money's worth.

Have fun! 🙂

 

[Bondo]

Thank you Mistress Valerie. Your advice sounds logical. My brain is too clouded with nervousness and intimidation to see the simple answer.

This meeting is strictly a model/photographer relationship, so I won't be paying money for her time. It's more of a mutual agreement that we both get to add our input to the photo ideas and we both get to use the photos for our websites.

I guess thing I'm most concerned about is how to properly act because I'm not meeting her as if I was a "client" so to speak. The Dungeon scene is somewhere I've never been, so I just want to make sure I know the proper ettiquette.

Bondo =]

 

[Stugots]

Treat her how you would treat any other woman. Be yourself and don't put on any acts!

 

[Thanatos2]

She may be a Mistress, but she's first and foremost a human being. Treat her with courtesy and decency, and since this is for business, maintain a professional attitude.