Advice please

[ticklebug101]

Hey kids.
Ok where to start?
I just met this guy over on the TMF, and I'm happy to cyber with him, that's always fine when I'm in the mood. But the topic of dating has come up and to be honest, I'm kind of freaked. I've seen him on webcam and yeah, he's cute, but we just started talking, and as some of y'all may know, my last cyber dating experince sucked pretty bad toward the end. But that
started fast too, I was "dating" the guy five days after we started talking. Yeah, I know it was dumb. So with this new guy, I really dont want to be screwed over again so do I let him down gently?
Opinions please,
thanks,
Bug.

 

[IrishTickle1]

Well it's quite possible that they're members here as well, so possible will read this not they don't, then just tell them what you said here.

If he can't understand that you're not comfortable moving that fast then he isn't worth your time. But the chances are he'll be fine with it.

 

[Frost King]

Well think you should wait alittle while and really get to know him before you rush into dating that way you can decide if you want to date him or not bug i hope this helps.

 

[ticklebug101]

Thanks guys

 

[SilverleafLycan1]

If the possibility of dating is completely out of the question, tell him that.

If not, simply tell him that you'd like to give it more time before getting into anything more serious due to what happened last time you entered a relationship like this.

 

[JackVanderson]

Just let him down gently and tell him that you don't want to rush into anything like that too quickly. If he really is a nice and understanding guy he'll get it and stop pushing the dating issue, but still talk with you. If he doesn't get it and becomes an ass, then you don't need him.

 

[CellarDweller]

Is he actually close enough physically for you to date if you choose to go that route?

 

[ticklebug101]

No CD he's in America, but it's ok, I fixed it now.
Thanks everyone
*Hugs all round*
Bug x

 

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

Oh,I hope everything went well.