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Am I Normal? (tickling fetish)

darktick

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I am 19 and I'm keep asking myself if I am normal or not because of my tickling fetish... I keep this as a secret from my friends, family because sometimes I'm ashamed of myself... I think that I'm abnormal... I feel weird and I sometimes wanna be like everybody else... (who likes hardcore and stuff) but I find hardcore somehow disgusting... (sometimes... not all the times)... I wanna be enlightened... I don't wanna feel weird... I cannot tell this secret to anybody because I fear that they would think I'm pervert or psycho or whatever... Please help me... I'm in dark rooms with no light...
thanks...
(by the way I'm sorry about my awful english... I hope you understood
 
Screw it. You are who you are. So why try to change yourself? Just to appease a bunch of snooty puritans? Piss on the whole lot 'em, I say! Be who you are without regret, otherwise you're heading toward some major psych problems later.
 
First of all, there are 23,981 other people (both men and women) who are members of this forum, and countless others who are into tickling who are not. That's a lot of people who share this fetish. Second, who out there defines normal?? Normal to you may not be "normal" to someone else, and in that case, I agree with MayDay, screw 'em. Like you, I am not willing to share this part of me with anyone else. The only one who knows is my wife. She doesn't understand it, and probably will never get into it (which is extremely depressing), but that is the way it is. She accepts it as a fetish of mine, and doesn't seem to mind my exploration of it on-line.

Forgive the cliche, but quit trying to be like and please everyone else. How boring would that be if we were all wired the same. Best regards.
 
I totally agree on what dwellington said! As an added note, what are friends for if they wont accept you for who you are? If they can't respect your fetish or would consider you a psycho because of it, they aren't true friends at all. I for one got a foot-fetish with some foot tickling thrown in the mix and after much thought and hesitation I finally came out about it towards several of my friends about one year ago. They simply accepted and respected it. Some were actually really interested, especially the women and were willing to "support" my fetish by showing-off their feet or letting me massage of tickle them to my own free will. That's really sweet of course, but you really need to consider who you can and can't trust about accepting it. Everyone in my personal environment accepted it quite perfectly and as good as no one considered it to be weird or pervert or anything. It's really cool actually about other people knowing about it, seeing as I get a whole lot of good things out of it through my female friends.

Now, this might differ a bit depending on the country or region you live in. I myself live in Holland which in itself is a country with a rather open-minded culture towards such things. Same goes for homoseksuality for example.
 
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Ronn_Dahl said:
Now, this might differ a bit depending on the country or region you live in. I myself live in Holland which in itself is a country with a rather open-minded culture towards such things. Same goes for homoseksuality for example.
I'm from Turkey and in a country like turkey (nobody is open-minden, our leader is trying to make turkey a theocratic country etc.) it will not be seen as normal... I'm sure... Also homosexuality isn't seen normal in turkey... I dunno... I just feel weird... and I sometimes wanna be normal...
 
You are normal. What better way to explore your partner's body than through tickling? Most of the people in the world never stop to think how exciting tickling can be, which is fine; but there are many of us who can enjoy it for the pure fun that it is. You should have fun with your love for tickling too.
 
Alright, actually thought on this a bit. Heres my semi-educated answer:
In the perfect world theres no actuall concept of normal. But then, in the perfect world there wouldn't be violence, hate, and all of that crazy stuff. Clearly this isnt the perfect world. The term normal doesn't necessarily mean that something is right, just that its common. For example, its more common that men are turned on by large breasts on women, so its generally accepted. Tickling isn't generally as popular, hence people find it odd and will *More than likely* try to ignore the problem all together. Its human nature, though, so don't blame or hate anyone for it; absolutely no one thinks with a fully open mind, there will always be some type of prejudice. Not going into human nature though. Back to the subject at hand.
At any rate, no, one here is exactly normal. I believe someone gave a number of 20,000 people on this forum? That, you have to realize, is a very small percentage of people in the united states, let alone the rest of the civilized world. Yes, that number can both be considered only a small percentage of those into tickling, both because of possibly not knowing the site and also people not being very open on the subject of tickling with themselves. But you have to realize that this remains true for everything else, so we really are a minority still.
My personal advice is to just deal with things as they come. Do what you thinks best, and try not to be persuaded by others. Honestly, there are people who hate those that are different than themselves and will do harm to them because of this (look at the KKK, the nazi's, etc.). Not saying don't be open with it; just be careful, and think things through for yourself. Don't necessarily rely on my opinion, or anyone elses, but use it more as a guide, ya know? Something intelligent sounding, like.. 'Only a fool listens fully to the advice of others, not thinking for themselves; and only a fool will completly ignore anothers advice.' Etc.
Kinda hope everyone reads this, listens to it, etc. but eh, its not gonna happen. At any rate, good luck with it ^^.
 
Normal?

I'll make this short and sweet. Yes you are Normal. I am sure a lot of us have gone through the 'am I normal; phase. Just dont worry about it and be glad you have something you can enjoy so much
 
I feel as though I'm in the same boat as you, chief. I would really like to let people I know that I have a fetish towards pretty female feet and tickling them, but how would they look at me after I had told them? This one single thought has kept me from it, and it's like a frickin' prison. But then again, what if I told it to a few of my hot female friends, and they admit a similar liking, and allow me to do what I had only wished to do for years. I may not even know what I am missing, but I don't care what anyone says; it's hard to tell people you like something that they see as wierd or wrong and only hope that they will understand or maybe just not view you any different after the fact............
 
Believe me my friend, I`ve been there, and I came to the conclusion that we are in fact not only normal but also courageous because many people live their entire lives wishing they had the guts not to tell others who they really are or what they secretly love but rather to face themselves and say 'Yes, this is who I am' and live happily by knowing it. Look at it this way, who do we ticklers or ticklees hurt? Don`t be ashamed, join us here and enjoy tickling just like we all do.
 
darktick said:
I am 19 and I'm keep asking myself if I am normal or not because of my tickling fetish... I keep this as a secret from my friends, family because sometimes I'm ashamed of myself... I think that I'm abnormal... I feel weird and I sometimes wanna be like everybody else... (who likes hardcore and stuff) but I find hardcore somehow disgusting... (sometimes... not all the times)... I wanna be enlightened... I don't wanna feel weird... I cannot tell this secret to anybody because I fear that they would think I'm pervert or psycho or whatever... Please help me... I'm in dark rooms with no light...
thanks...
(by the way I'm sorry about my awful english... I hope you understood

Been there, in a way. While I'm not really an expert on fetishes (or this one in particular...my old gf was into it, so there's a long, unnecessarily painful story that goes with how I got here), I know that if you dig deep enough, everyone has their own preferences that one might not consider "normal." Those people you have heard who are into hardcore? I wonder how many of them lurk here or on other sites that contain /truly/ strange things (necrophilia, anyone?).

So, the short answer is, as many people have said, "Yes." You are normal, as far as there is a normal in this world of ours. There are more monstrous tastes to have than tickling (which is a basic human occurence to begin with).
 
I may be new here, but I'm a complete psycho. So if you're a psycho, don't feel bad cuz you're not alone. Lol. If anything, I could probably scare everyone here. and I mean that. 😉

I'm a pervert, AND a psycho, and I have pride in that! Anyway if your friends are true friends, they really wouldn't give a shit. They'd probably call you weird, or make fun of you at first, but then end up not caring because they're your friends. That's what friends do: they rip on eachother. Lol.
 
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SheDevil said:
I may be new here, but I'm a complete psycho. So if you're a psycho, don't feel bad cuz you're not alone. Lol. If anything, I could probably scare everyone here. and I mean that. 😉

I'm a pervert, AND a psycho, and I have pride in that! Anyway if your friends are true friends, they really wouldn't give a shit. They'd probably call you weird, or make fun of you at first, but then end up not caring because they're your friends. That's what friends do: they rip on eachother. Lol.

Oh. Sounds kinky. =P
 
SheDevil said:
Oh yeah! Ever seen a woman in a nun outfit get spanked? Now that's HAWTT 😉

Hahaha...the Second "Cumming."

No offense to our Christian friends (I'm Catholic, myself, strangely enough).
 
It's your happiness that matters

:happy: Hey Darktk,
My particular "fascination" started when I was very young. I started drawing pictures and actually made a little book and showed it to my Mom. She told me it was "sick" so, since she threatened me w/ psychiatric analysis, and kept after me about it, I shoved it down. It popped up again in february 2003, 30 years later!!!!!!I told my Metaphysics teacher, Victoria, about it and she said"That's sooooo sad that you never got to explore your sensuality!!" I've shared it w/ friends who still respect me and my brother, sister-in-law, & 9 year old nephew are a tickling family! I agree that it's wonderful to find something you enjoy alot.........not EVERYONE has to know about it either.Cheers!Tantra
 
Nearly everyone I kind of personally know, have been told about my footfetish over the past year and ALL (yes that's a-l-l) of them have perfectly accepted it. So yeah, some of them thought it was a little weird or strange at least, but they didn't mock me for it or anything. They actually showed compassion for it and most of them even some form of interest (even though none of them are into it themselves). It's really great actually about your female friends knowing about it, because you get to exploit their often beautiful feet perfectly. They let me massage them, tickle them or they would simply show them off to me so I can take pictures for "personal use" later. It's great!! Now I'm not allowed to massage ALL of them because of boyfriends and such but otherwise most of them would simply let me have my way. There are really only a few who consider it a bit too "close" or erotic if you know what I mean, but those are exceptions. And hey, at least you can talk about their feet for quite some time without them wondering what the whole conversation is actually all about.
 
You're normal, I'm normal, all of us here are normal (well, I can't know that for sure now, can I?). I've been viewed as weird by friends who don't share my fetish, yet they go on about how much they love touching women's breasts. Everyone has a fetish. I've got a woman fetish, if you think about it. I LOVE to tickle women! Most of my female friends are happy about that, too! We're not the ones with the problem... it's those "vanillas" out there who think shaking hands with a girl can get her pregnant who have a problem. "Vanilla", if you don't know, is someone who makes no effort to bring pleasure to his/her partner. Just plain, ordinary, drab...sad. Unlike US!!!
 
Sole Man said:
"Vanilla", if you don't know, is someone who makes no effort to bring pleasure to his/her partner. Just plain, ordinary, drab...sad. Unlike US!!!

Yeah! We rock!
 
hey darktick, i'm in the exact same boat as you. i'm 19 and keep my fetish a secret from everyone. noooobody knows about it. and i have some seriously hardcore tickling fetishes too. just remind your self, there are worse people than u. i mean from necropheliacs, to inter-species sex. there are worse people, trust me. if you got this all bottled up inside, unload it in the forums. it helps alot, discussing yur fetishes and such. you remain anonymous and all.
 
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