An empty NEST?

[kopfhorer1]

I've not heard anything about this year's NEST, assuming there's going to be one. Usually by now there's been a call for pre-registration. Has this year's NEST been canceled?

 

[AdamN]

Over on the TMF, I have read that NEST 2010 is the first weekend in May. That's April 30, May 1 & May 2 in Philadelphia. Apparently, that's supposed to be its permanent schedule for the event from now on. Also read that there have been technical issues with the registration. I'm sure it will all be sorted out.

 

[His Divine Shadow]

It isn't cancelled. Registration takes time to appear some years (like last year, for instance), but rest assured that it will happen.

 

[the_jimmy_james]

Richard Mulligan's Empty Nest.

 

[kopfhorer1]

Over on the TMF, I have read that NEST 2010 is the first weekend in May. That's April 30, May 1 & May 2 in Philadelphia. Apparently, that's supposed to be its permanent schedule for the event from now on. Also read that there have been technical issues with the registration. I'm sure it will all be sorted out.

Thanks for the info. Won't you (or anyone who knows) please let us know when these issues get straightened out and registration can begin? I missed last year's and I'd like to make this year's NEST if I can!

 

[AdamN]

Thanks for the info. Won't you (or anyone who knows) please let us know when these issues get straightened out and registration can begin? I missed last year's and I'd like to make this year's NEST if I can!

I'd contact LeeAllure if there are any issues. I'm pretty sure she has a profile on here and TMF. 🙂

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

the hollywood brother is sure that the nest event will take place as it is a premeire tickling event and brings in money to the city of philadelphia and surronding areas

 

[LionKing08]

Most of the people that go, never get to play, to many cleaks,so it can be a waste of time and money.Only go to partys where you can have some fun.:cry

 

[dalekfire]

Most of the people that go, never get to play, to many cleaks,so it can be a waste of time and money.Only go to partys where you can have some fun.:cry

I take it you were shunned when you attended a previous NEST? Or is this another gathering?

 

[LionKing08]

no just ask people who were there,a lot a talk about the nest, but for the most part most people standing around hoping to play, but never happening. Save your money, buy a hocker you will have more fun.The nest is not as great as some might think.

 

[dalekfire]

no just ask people who were there,a lot a talk about the nest, but for the most part most people standing around hoping to play, but never happening. Save your money, buy a hocker you will have more fun.The nest is not as great as some might think.

Well, from what I gather, NEST is more about meeting people (particularly the populars of the TMF) than actually getting lots of tickles in. It's become more of a social event than anything else. So unless you're wanting to meet people (or if you already made lots of friends online and want to meet there), NEST probably won't be able to satisfy any tickle urges.

 

[AdamN]

A lot of people try to cut costs by finding a roomie or two to share hotel costs. That is not possible or preferable for all, so it can get pretty expensive if you fly solo. If you're going looking for guaranteed tickle play, you're probably going to be disappointed. Granted, I have not attended NEST. I'm just going by what a number of gathering veterans have told me.

 

[LionKing08]

the troble is, the people running it stick to them selfs and dont try to show a good time to the people came. The nest party is way over rated, people spend alot of money for what just to meet people.A real tickle party is for tickle play, if the people who spent tons of money and get no tickling than whats the use? Oh yes i forgot I got to go to nest.Cost 1500 to 2000, no thanks.

 

[AdamN]

I don't necessarily agree with every negative opinion concerning NEST, but I will say the following. No disrespect intended, because I applaud all efforts to bring fellow ticklephiles together. I just look at this from my point of view. I know a good number of people from the community, but I don't know a one of them that has been begging for a tickle session. So if I make the 2 and a half hour drive to Philly, it's likely only going to be for the hugs and conversation. Which are nice. Don't get me wrong. But I think it is realistic to say that just about everyone who goes would love to engage in at least some play. While the concept of attending used to really appeal to me, these days, I find more opportunities to indulge through events that are very much kink-related and don't cost a dime. I hope everyone that attends NEST has a great time and continue to for many years to come. I just no longer think it's for me.

 

[kopfhorer1]

Well, from what I gather, NEST is more about meeting people (particularly the populars of the TMF) than actually getting lots of tickles in. It's become more of a social event than anything else. So unless you're wanting to meet people (or if you already made lots of friends online and want to meet there), NEST probably won't be able to satisfy any tickle urges.

So, it's more like a very big annual munch?

... I find more opportunities to indulge through events that are very much kink-related and don't cost a dime....

If you'd care to, would you please explain? What kinds of events? (My curiosity has been piqued!)

 

[dalekfire]

So, it's more like a very big annual munch?

Yes and no. There are many instances of tickling there, as well as seminars, organized social events, exibits...lots of stuff, really. But the big emphasis nowadays is on meeting people and the reunion aspect. Think of it as an urbanized camp retreat. Lots of activities, but most people go to have fun and socialize with friends (or in this case, like-minded kinksters).

 

[Dave2112]

It really depends on what you're looking for. If you want to just meet people and "gather", NEST is cool, especially if you're "clique-worthy". If you're looking for play, you're far better off attending a play party or some other kink-related event. The thing about NEST is that while play happens, it's not a play party per se. If that's what you're looking for, you might be better served checking out events on FetLife or something. Something closer to you, less costly, and with people more "into" their kink lifestyles.

You don't have to go to a "tickling gathering" to indulge your fetish at a play party. The more open BDSM parties and events usually have more people who practice their lifestyles. It's just a matter of the difference between open kink events and specific-kink events.

 

[LionKing08]

If people want to spend there money just to meat people ,that is there right, but for me i want to play. When i go to a tickle party, at least i want to see real tickling going on. Laughing, crying , beging, pleading and everyone having a great time. The people that run the nest, think that they are better than everyone else. They think that you should just be glad you got to see them. What joke.

 

[melanie2]

hmm this thread originated by asking a somewhat innocent question regarding when registration for Nest would be this year..from my understanding it is not a tickle session gathering..but a gathering for like minded people, who share an interest in tickling to get together, meet, talk etc..*shrugs*...personally i prefer one on one tickle sessions..but to meet other members from here and the TMF would be fun..i've never had the opportunity to attend Nest, although i was encouraged to...but i couldn't go..i think Nest is what you make of it..for myself i would probably choose to attend with a friend, so that way, you would at least have someone to talk to if you did feel left out..

 

[paracarl44]

Nest registration is open.

Just log onto the TMF website and you will find the entry form.:cool

 

[dalekfire]

...especially if you're "clique-worthy".

I was trying to be nice and politely hint at this...but there, it's out now. :lol

 

[AdamN]

If you'd care to, would you please explain? What kinds of events? (My curiosity has been piqued!)

Sure, I'll try my best. If you have seen the post in this thread where Dave suggests Fetlife-related events, that's what I'm referring to. Frankly, I'd first suggest finding local BDSM groups in or near your area. Then attend a social, and make yourself a regular if you feel comfortable. Trust me, it's not nearly as intimidating as it sounds. I have done this myself, and have since befriended many in the kink community... a number of whom appreciate the tickling fetish. While I am still working on play possibilities, I will say that they seem entirely within reach. Best of luck, should you decide to go that route. 🙂

 

[BellaRisa]

Cliquity Clique Clique 😉

...especially if you're "clique-worthy".

NEST deals with the clique rumors every year, not always but most often from people who've never actually attended the event :cool

I've been attending NEST since 1999, and the emphasis has always been on both socializing and on play; there's plenty of both every year. As a supposed Cliquer I won't waste my time disputing accusations, they'll continue no matter what, but I will mention that for the last several years NEST has had a "NEST Newbian" group for first timers and it's been very successful. We have online chats for several weeks before the event, where we answer many questions and do our best to help people feel more comfortable. We do our best to help folks plan their weekend so they can do everything they'd like to do, and there's usually a mini-party and/or dinner just for new folks on the first night of the event so that they can get to know one another and not feel overwhelmed. On Saturday morning we have a New Person's Orientation where we continue to answer questions and discuss issues like asking someone to play if you're shy, to help people have fun in any way that we can. Those running NEST can't hold your hand and make sure that you play, but there are plenty of opportunities all weekend, especially at the Sunday Main Event which IS a play-party complete with ample play equipment (St. Andrews Crosses, benches and bondage chairs, etc). Every effort is made to make sure no one feels left out; that's one reason the event gets bigger every year, with people coming back year after year after year, despite the yearly nay-saying 😉

Anyone with questions is welcome to PM me here or at the TMF, and there are plenty of other people who actually attend who will also share their experiences. It's difficult to find someone who's not in the Clique though, since once you say anything positive about NEST you're labeled a brainwashed Cliquer by some, ah well...:rolleyes

 

[Camel26]

I'll be there!!! my tickle buddy and I just registered this weekend!!! EEEK!!!! See you there!!!!

 

[the_jimmy_james]

I hope someone there cooks cornmeal mush. Mmm mmm mmm mmm mmm good!

http://southernfood.about.com/cs/cornbread/a/bl30930u.htm