an idea to find out if our friends are ticklish without them knowing anything

[saratk]

if there is a friend or coworker that you really wanna find out if they are ticklish, maybe have a different friend who doesn't know them instant message them on aol or something as a perfect stranger and bring up the conversation of tickling and see what they say. a good way to find out where and if they are ticklish before you go in for the kill. i haven't tried this myself i don't know if it is morally wrong yet or not just an idea.

 

[OldEnglish]

That method does work well if you play it right.

I use a variety of that method sometimes to find out the status of some of my friends. I make up a different screen name and IM them and pretend that they are on my Buddy List and then we will inevitably get to talking. From there, I bring up the subject.

I only do that for people if I do not know how they will react if I just went and tried to tickle them. This way, if they tell me to "scram," I have somewhat of an idea that they would not like it. Likewise, if they say that they hate being tickled and they get pissed if anyone tickles them, I stay away. More often than not, though, depending on how you set it up, the person just spills any and all info that they have to you.

Another trick I use is to spill my information, as well, that way the person does not think that they are the only one doing the talking. You can make stuff up or even say what your actual ticklish spots are, since the person does not know that it is you.

Ethically wrong? Maybe. But a hell of a lot of fun, nonetheless🙂

~~OldEnglish

 

[Knox The Hatter]

I guess you can say I'm shit out of luck...there's a girl with the cleaning crew at work who's just F I N E...she's as adorable as you could possibly imagine, has a smile that could light up the entire west coast...but the problem is that she's 1) married, 2) speaks damn little English, 3) status of computer unknown, and 4) if I give her what I have referred to for years as "The Litmus Test" myself, even a harmless index finger jaunt up her sweet sides, she might become frightened, and who the hell knows what can result from it?
Rosa kind of likes me, when she sees me, her face lights up like Times Square on New Years Eve. Much as I wanna let my fingers do the walking, I have to exercise restraint. Much as it hurts...

 

[tickle_prince]

hehe works for me, the good old

"let me think of a silly question to ask u"

then they say ok and then i say

"got one, are you ticklish and if so where"

and it works hehe its not failed me once with girls, tho i only tryed it on a couple. lol but maybe it my luck.

 

[nenezinho]

Why do you need to be so obscure?

So that´s my question, it might work to use a different nick or IM to go and ask a persson things but that just means you have not the corage or the creativity to find a way of pulling that in a normal conversation with that person.

very important: it might be a good idea to be sure if you have trust with someone before tickling them...just to avoid some bad endings. And if you gain trust, than you should be able to criate a way of pulling the subject on conversation.

Ways I use:
I´ve some more or less standard procedures lol
1- when we get to speak of brothers I say I was allone but I was raised with 3 girls and that they were allways getting be in a terrible but fun way.....the girl should be know burning with curiosity to know what those little girls were doing to a little boy lol and then I mention tickling and see the reaction on the girl...if it´s ok then of I go and try and ask if that would also be terrible for them....and maybe they could tell me were....from here is up to you 🙂

2- Sometimes I just start saying to a girl that I´m a pain in the hass for my girl friends....do this with a lot of lol´s and in the right mood and the girl will like to know why are you so boring, then I just mention I´m allways talking and never shut up....and....i love to get a few tickles every now and then 🙂 once again....from now see the reaction and go for it if it seems clear to lift of 🙂

3 and more- don´t want to make an instruction book lol Be yourself, be creative, be a little bold 🙂 What can happen?

A) she finds it weird to listen you speak about tickling: you don´t get to tickle her and if you don´t keep the subject she´ll forget it soon.

B)She find it cool or funny and gets curious about it: she wont forgget what you said, might tease you or just be willing to let you give a few pokes some time

these are general, like 8 and 80, all the values between are possible and actually...the 80 is much better than what I´ve stated 🙂


Conclusion:
Why to make a lie on a thing you would like to share with someone?
What will happen if that persson finds out what you´re doing? Won´t be much worse than if she just discovered you like tickling?
Why to risk a lot more just for the sake of being sure?
It can work, I know it can cause I´ve used it in a situation were I just wasn´t able to speak to that persson and the result?
I found out she had very very ticklish feet, she said it to me.
I found she was not too ticklish on sides and ribs and didn´t mind getting tickled there.
So...i got to tickle her once and a while on feet and ribs but it almost didn´t tickled her....with time, I lost contact with her and never tickled her feet cause I missed the first step:
NEVER GOT HER CONFIDENCE, TRUST AND FRIENDSHIP

Be true! Be criative! Be yourself!
Things will end up working out for the best!

sorry if I got boring lol

 

[TickledToDeath]

I guess you can say I'm shit out of luck...there's a girl with the cleaning crew at work who's just F I N E...she's as adorable as you could possibly imagine, has a smile that could light up the entire west coast...but the problem is that she's 1) married, 2) speaks damn little English, 3) status of computer unknown, and 4) if I give her what I have referred to for years as "The Litmus Test" myself, even a harmless index finger jaunt up her sweet sides, she might become frightened, and who the hell knows what can result from it?
Rosa kind of likes me, when she sees me, her face lights up like Times Square on New Years Eve. Much as I wanna let my fingers do the walking, I have to exercise restraint. Much as it hurts...

Yo bro, you got such a simple IN it is probably easily overlooked and remaining soooo simple you will want to kick yourself!
Ask her how to say, Tickle or are you ticklish etc. In HER language!

TTD

 

[Mitchell]

I've used a method on female pen pals for seven years that has worked very well, even before I joined the TMF. What I will do is to describe being tickled in various situations i.e by family members, a cousin, etc, and then ask if anyone has ever done that to (tickled them) Usually, for the most part, I have been successful doing it this way. On occasion I have had certain pen pals get offended by the question and not write me back. For the most part, except for on a couple of occasions with wilder or more sexually minded pals, I have made the tickling sound innocent, and just wanted to know if they've ever experienced the same tickling I had. I do find that most girls have been tickled by someone, either a friend, brother, parent, family member, etc, and usually are willing to share the information. I try to make it sound like more of an innocent thing than a sex "fetish'. As I said, it's worked so far, as I've gotten over 60 answers in five years through letters from girl pen pals,and one answer from another girl pen pal during a phone conversation. Besides in college or with pen pals, I havent done it much like outside with those I dont know, because Iam afraid of the reaction. I may have posted on here that a male pen pal who got me into talking about tickling, who is now deceased, claimed to me that he asked his female insurance agent straight out during a phone call about insurance by just saying "are you ticklish" and claims she answered by saying "yes very" I have no way of verifying if that was true, but he never lied to me,and knowing him and his boldness, I do believe it. It would seem an odd person to ask about ticklishness, since most wouldnt know an insurance agent so personally to do that. Anyhow this is my experience. I would like to know what all think.

 

[ISUmark]

this is actually incredibly easy to do. ive NEVER had a problem findin out if a girl i like is ticklish or not, its pretty simple. most girls like to act tough, so you playfully get into a conversation about that, and usually the girl says somethin like, "yeah i can beat you up" or wahtever..at that point you say "no way, i can beat up any girl cuz girls all have the same weakness." then naturally they ask, "and whats that?"..which is followed by me sayin, "all girls are ticklish" and from their you will either get a girl who gets nervous and admits it, or a girl that pretends she isnt and tries to convince you otherwise..either way you still get to tickle her. this has proven 100% effective.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Ok ISUmark... LOL 😀 That's what I use on the guys!
(And that method would probably work on me 100% of the time, but hey, I'm different 😛)

I had/have a friend who I am particularly close to. And she was always being an ass, and playing tricks on me, etc. (Course I always do the same things, but she's better than me at it, being as she is a older and has been doing it longer. -- OLD GOAT!)

Well she just made me want to trip her up and tickle the hell out of her but of course I wasn't going to do that for numerous reasons. Well one day she tickled me and that was all it took for me to get her back! She's still an ass! LOL

My point is that it just comes up naturally sometimes. Fortunately for me, it always does if I am patient enough. Sometimes innocent flirting and tickling goes hand and hand. I can't tell you that there is something you can do to make all girls want you to tickle them. And even if you do get a girl to admit that she is ticklish, that doesn't mean she is giving you an invitation to do so. 😉

Sunrise

 

[Knox The Hatter]

"I've used a method on female pen pals for seven years that has worked very well, even before I joined the TMF. What I will do is to describe being tickled in various situations i.e by family members, a cousin, etc, and then ask if anyone has ever done that to (tickled them) Usually, for the most part, I have been successful doing it this way"...

Bravo, Mitch! I used the exact same ploy for many years back in the day! Hypothetical as follows:
"God, I'm tired."
"Why"
"My sister had to wake up five this morning for track, and she couldn't stand that I could sleep in, so she came over and woke me up by tickling me".
"(various reactions)"
"I mean, could you imagine that happen to you?" Or, "Has that ever happened to you?"
Desired reaction: "(blushes) oh, I'm so ticklish!" (50% of attempts)
Common reaction: a quick dismissal of the subject, or a curt reply of "I'm not!"
Last used in 1987, when I realized that it might be more fruitful to come up with something more direct, being that we were adults now, and that at the time I had asked a woman who, upon IMMEDIATE reflection, was completely unacceptable when it came to physical contact ("what the hell am I thinking!") Today, I use my signature. With it, I have gotten fantastic responses, one of the best was one that I asked over the phone, in which the subject momentarily stammered, in fact, I even could hear her blush!
I made that woman my wife.

 

[nenezinho]

So, if you´ve done it so well other times what could be the problem of throwing one or two pokes at that girl on work...guess in the worst possibility you could allways apologize and promisse never doing it again.

A few weeks ago I´ve done myself at tickling this girl(C) that 1-she has a boyfriend; 2-she and her boyfriend are part of my group work for our final work at college so they´re important people who I need and with whom I don´t want to get in trouble.

But yet, things can be done in a playfull way with no harm intended cause tickling doesn´t need to be allways seen as abuse or a sexual thing.

So we were at the college, lunch time, I got my food and went to the table with another girl who leaves for bathroom, the girl(C) I first mentioned above gets to the table to leave her bag and stays there with me just to make me company before someone else arrives....this in spite of my remarks that I´m not scared to be alone and she should go and get her food 🙂
Now when the other girl got back from bathroom plus another girl I told to (C) that she should now get her food and eat something and has she was right at my side facing me I added some pokes on her belly to rush her 🙂 Pokes 1 or 2 were somewhat inconclusive but pokes 3,4 hit the target and made her jump a bit and giggle 🙂
No problem!! We´re still nice friends!! And she seems to be a ticklephile cause latter I´ve seen her tickling her boyfriend more than once 🙂

 

[Ovda]

I asked a question similar to this a while back. Some advice was to ask simple questions like, "What's your favorite color?" Do a question a day then ask "On a scale of 1-10(10 being the highest) how ticklish are you and where?" They answer all the time. I've asked a number of co-workers and friends that question, and I get an answer everytime.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

NO, the worst possibility is that, since I'm a temp, all she has to do is look at me cockeyed and my ass is out there on the pavement faster than shit through a goose. Jobs are somewhat hard to come by here in America right now...
I don't know. Maybe I'll get her on the eve of the end of the assignment...

 

[nenezinho]

good point!

I can see your problem!! I was missing a big par of it but you´ve now made it clear.
It´s hard when our necks are hanging....probably the situation with that girl at college might not have happened if I knew she and her boyfriend where the ones with the power to put me away from de group.
another thing that makes a difference is that probably we in portugal may be a little less paranoid with phisical contact....while in many other aspects the general culture of the country is still close minded guess we still try and see the good side of people rather than the bad one.....but that´s also changing quickly

Well....I don´t want to digress and runnaway from this thread topic!

Just wish you best luck knox!!!
Maybe when you get a new assignment or if you get a nice alternative job to be secure in caso you loose that one....maybe then you can try and see if the lady´s ticklish heheheh good luck fellow!!!

 

[crydun]

Here's what I did:


Since I am a psychology major and we all know that biology can play into psychology, I started general discussions in the lobby of my campus. Since I originally got into tickling(offficially) by medical research on the benefits(medically speaking) of tickling, I would bring these up to the crowd. Like "Did you guys know that laughter reduces stress by 60%?" Do you know what the most uncontrollable type of laughter is for most people?(answer: ticklish laughter, of course) Eventually, people started talking about it with me openly(especially once they started seeing me run a chopstick along the back of my neck) and eventually I started getting the age-old question: "Are you ticklish?" to which I would invariably answer "Very!" That's what I did and eventually, I recruited two people to this forum and it all started with 'small talk"

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Answering my Portuguese friend above: a great opportunity arose last night, but not with the girl we've been talking about. I've made a good friend there, a nice, healthy-boned Jamaican girl who's somewhat taller than me. A few days ago, I ran my fingers up her sides and got a marvelous reaction, well, because I had to, you know? Last night I joined her and some other people outside for a cigarette break, and spur of the moment, she removed her right shoe to show off these hilarious 'Sponge Bob' socks with freestanding eyeballs, a real conversation piece. So, naturally, I reached down, let my fingers do the walking, she jerked back, and gave me a gorgeous smile. Gather ye rosebuds while ye may...
The original girl? I smile at her, she smiles at me. She speaks little English, I speak even less Spanish, apart from hello, are you hungry/sleepy/thirsty, what time is it, etc. I don't know, it just might happen before this assignment ends...
Life's a gas, isn't it?

 

[Knox The Hatter]

update: unfortunately, being around aforementioned big, beautiful Jamaican girl is becoming quite a challenge. I have such an incredible urge to touch her, to caress her shoulders, to run my fingers through her rich hair, to make passionate love to her...and I do not think that she would be unreceptive. Thing is, absolutely nothing good can come from it...only the bad. And, I do believe in my wedding ring and everything that it stands for. The end result might become a terrific primer on how to resist temptation. Because, I'll tell ya, telling Satan to get thee behind me has not been easy. I'm certainly not in love with her. It's 100%, all-American, pure, polyunsaturated Lust.
I repeat: life certainly is a gas, isn't it?

 

[Irish]

I've found a perfect way to see if a girl's feet are ticklish. My girlfriend always get pedicures, which tickle the hell out of her. I'll strike up a conversation with a girl who gets her nails done, and mention my girlfriend. Almost every time, they'll say something like "oh God, me too" and describe how much it tickles them...that workd for me....😀

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Bellringer!

Oh, I have to remember that one! That sounds like a 100% sure thing!