An utter disappointment (true sad story)

[ChallengeMe]

Hi everybody! This is a true story....and doesn't end the way I hoped or you think it would.

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About a month ago my boyfriend of 10 months and I were celebrating my birthday. We had made dinner together and he made me a cake. Delicious food! We finished eating with about 90 minutes to go before we had to leave to see a band.

Naturally we agreed we should use our time wisely and fool around. We were making out and groping eachother and it was super hot.

"So, birthday girl....how do you want to do this? Top? Bottom? 69?" Sometimes I wish he would just throw me down and have his way with me however he wanted to, but that's not him (I've learned) and once again the decision was left to me. Revenge! Time to learn your lesson....Your indecision will backfire....

"Actually...I think we should try something new tonight. We bought those restraints a while ago and haven't used them for their intended purpose..."

Whenever he velcroed me up, he would just go down on me almost right away. You don't need to restrain me for that!!!!! Make me beg, bitch! And when I tried to tickle him, he freaked out and even BROKE one of the foot ties (after this story took place). Jerk...didn't even replace it....

I continued, "So I think that as birthday girl I should get to tie you up and....well, tickle you.....for 22 minutes....you know, since I just turned 22. It just makes sense."

At the very sound of the word 'tickle' his face changed from a smile to confusion and, unfortunately, half disgust.

"Ha ummm no, I don't think so, babe." Awkward silence....not suggesting to return the offer I made him......

"Oh....ok.....then you could try tickling me."

"Why?" I SWEAR TO GOD PEOPLE, HE ASKED ME WHY!!!!

"I don't know, just to spice things up. It could be fun." Duh it'd be fun. I sort of thought most guys wanted to do that to girls. Had I just wasted 10 months on a dude who NEVER thought about it? Shit....

So we made our way back to my bedroom and fooled around some more. Finally I layed back and he velcroed me in place. He straddled me backward and started to tickle my left foot. Even though he had no idea what he was doing, I thought it was awesome.

10 minutes later it was almost starting to get boring. He wasn't exploring. He didn't even go for my other helpless foot. Just used one hand and dragged it up and down. It tickled a good bit and I was laughing hard, but I never felt like I would need to use the safe word (which I made up when we bought the damn things and have never ever had the awesome pleasure of screaming it over and over).

Then it was done. He stopped and got up to check the time and said we should get ready to leave soon. He wasn't even horny after that. I was so mad/embarrassed/blue-balled (if a girl may use the term) that we didn't really talk the rest of the night.

We are still together, but this is definitely something I want him to enjoy. He hates being tickled and I don't think he understands the sexual/sensual side of it. Does anybody have any suggestions what I could do?

 

[Videotkl]

tel him that tickling is for play to you. I told my girl friend and she loves it now more then ever (though she isn't ticklish that often but I get her when she is).that or show him one of those orgasmic tickle vids. that might get his attention. being open though is the best way to go. it is hard at first to tell them trust me but well worth it. Trust me ^-^
ohh to let you know I get tickle now even when I want to just cuddle she does slow tickles *shiver* so bad but sooo good

 

[melanie2]

hmm well when you are tied up...say things like...i'm so ticklish in such and such a place..don't you dare tickle me there..

 

[tyf691]

Dump him and find yourself a tickler. It's obvioius he's not into it and you'll
never be happy with him.

 

[ElFewja]

It seems like you haven't actually talked to him about it, based on his asking why. I would consider doing that before anything else. And if he's bad at it, teach him how to be good.

Also, I'm single. Just a heads up.

If I haven't completely creeped out one person reading my posts, then I have failed as a person.

Etc.

 

[Cosquilludo1]

Oh, welll... what a drag. This guy does not get it at all, which is not that rare. Hint, hint, and hint again if you dont want to talk. Good luck!

 

[Numbah-1]

='( I had a bad weekend, but gol dang that is most tragic indeed.

 

[Ilikepornsohere]

You were being incredibly unrealistic on how you thought things would play out. All I could suggest is you compile the best sources and logic you can for why this is supposed to be good and present them, having consideration that he will not immediately if ever find tickling a foot or whatever erotic. Spell it out that you that you find the idea of the unyielding stimulation and domination aspect of it erotic, this isn't going to be something most people will naturally to to, even when I first started collecting porn of this fetish I had to work my way up.

That's my two cents and all but you're posting in the wrong section unless you figured somebody would get off to your disappointment.