the only thing i found significantly annoying in girls i have dated is when they dont stand up for themselves. like, it will be some ridiculous BS, and they know its ridiculous, and they still go along with it!
i know i girl who is seriously a really good gal! good grades, super friendly, easy to get along with, very very pretty, nice and cool friends.
but she has a sister that is anti-social, supremely lazy (like, i couldnt even be that lazy if i tried...), cant take a any kind of "crude" joke (but crude for her is quite a vast word, ergo making her not fun to hang out with b/c she gets offended SUPER easy...), and blames any short comings she has on her ADD and gets cut SHIT FUCKIN TONS of slack by her parents and teachers b/c of her ADD. now im not saying that ADD isnt detrimental but the extent they use it too is far beyond the boarders of abuse!
how/why this bothers me: my good lady friend (the cool, pretty, easy to get along with one) is the younger in the house. and she gets stuck with EVERY LAST CHORE POSSIBLE! now im not saying that she shouldnt get chores, but what i am saying is that her sister (the lazy, ADD one.) gets out of doing anything around the house by complaining about doing it like mad, blaming her ADD that she cant hold her attention spam long enough (changing the kitty litter takes epic concentration skillz??).
all that is quite a bother and gets me quite pissed off alone but is more tolerable never the less. but the real kick in the balls is her parents almost totally endorse that shit!! her sister doesnt do shit around the house even after their parents delegate chores! my friend will do all of hers, while her sister sits on her ass on the computer! then, when their parents discover this, they ask MY FRIEND why her sister didnt do her shit! (she encourages her sister to take on the responsibilities given to her as she will be an adult in the real world soon.) then since her sister "didnt and isnt" going to do them, my friend gets stuck with her sisters shit to do!! and her parents are fine with that!!! WTF?!?! SERIOUSLY!!!
now the thing that bothers me enough to almost want to drop all means of tact with her isnt the fact that her sister is a vacuous, lazy, self centered bitch.
isnt the fact that her parents are unfair, untactful, disorderly, bias, and most of all uncaring. (i mean, if you had a kid that was going to be in the real world soon wouldnt you want to prepare them by giving them shit to do around the house so they can get at least a sense of responsibility??? instead of embedding this irresponsible, disreputable attitude?? uncaring indeed.)
but its the fact that my friend doesnt stand up to her sister or parents about how retarded all that shit is! THATS what really pisses me off!
i was at their house once and first hand witnessed it! it was like insta-RAAAAAAAAGE for me! as horrific you think this may be i had to actually physically remove myself from the room to stop myself from saying shit to their mom. i know that sounds pretty bad getting ever so close to telling off a friends mom on their parenting skillz and lack of fairness. im sorry, but im severely allergic to bullshit.
so, in short, girls who dont stand up for themselves against ridiculous shit. XD
(although im unsure if that would be better explained as a mentality rather than a habit... shit, my whole post is off topic... FFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!)
