I keep getting lucky that way, it seems. It's all in the way you go about the whole thing. Generally, hook up with open-minded people, and the rest developes by itself. So far, every girlfriend I had (except for my first one, who was everything BUT openminded) has explored tickling with me. So have a few good friends. All of them knew about my not-so-innocent fascination with tickling, and none of them had a big problem with it. And yes, there was, and still is, also a lot of foot-tickling going on... My love, who is the greatest girl in the world, regularily coaxes me by launching a volley of mocking insults and wriggling her bare soles at me. She knows what that does to me, and uses it in the best way possible... though she often mutters something to the extend of 'digging her own grave again' before she explodes into screams of laughter when I go to town on her soft soles after trapping her in a leg-lock... I wonder what she means by that... 😀