Anyone ever.......?

[mrhm53755]

Before you decided that ticklees are supposed to have fun too has anyone ever tickled someone till the started crying? I have talked to several friends that have said that their boyfriend's have tickled them to that point before. If this has ever happened to you I would guess it was early on in your tickling l;ife. It probably involved either a gang situation or one on one with you holding them down and not tied up. I understand the whole 'lee control while tied up with safe words, respecting them, and all that. But hey when holding them down all is fair. They have equal chance to escape!

Eric

 

[TicklingDuo]

Eric...

That presupposes that they are as strong as you(or whatever tickler it may be). I, for one, am dead set against tickling someone against their will or in any negative way.

Just my opinion, though.

Ann

 

[mrhm53755]

I know the whole morals and respect thing with tickling. This thread isn't about that. It is simply a question about one's experiences. Like I said before this probably didn't happen since you have come to understand the whole 'lees must have all the control wanting to be tickled even though restrained. I promise you that many on this board have tickled someone till they cried. Few will probably admit it though for fear of being bashed. I, for one, have tickld a girl till she cried. It was in a gang situation when I was about 15. We were at a party and 4 of us ganged up on this girl and tickled her mercilessly till she started crying. It was only then that we felt sorry for her and stopped tickling.

Eric

 

[mysterytic]

Just my opinion

Tickling someone to tears, implies, either against her will, or to continue after a safe word, etc. To me, that is sadistic and cruel, and goes against everything tickling means to me. To me it has to be a mutually participating event where both are concerned about the comfort, pleasure, and well being of the partner. She is my ticklee and I could not have it any other way.
From the looks of the fantasy stories that are written, I guess that probably makes me weird.

 

[TicklingDuo]

actually...

I tend to use non-consentual tickling in my stories. THere, it can be fun....the unsuspecting victim and all. I'm just against it in RL.

Ann

 

[mysterytic]

Ann, I guess

in real life it loses the effect that fantasy has. In our fantasies there are no consequences, no concern for the victim because the victim never dies, etc. One night I tickled a g/f until she passed out. I was terrified. Without going into all the details, it taught me a big lesson about safe words and what can actually go wrong. Maybe I am like the reformed smoker, Never Again.

 

[TicklingDuo]

I hear that! Maybe that's why I react so strongly when someone brings it up. I've been on the receiving end and it nearly killed my love of tickling for good.

PS - MRHM...please don't see this exchange as an attack. It's simply something we feel strongly about.

Ann

 

[Slappy McGee]

you know.....

it seems to me that someone could be tickled until they cry (brought to tears, so to speak) without necessarily being pushed way past their limits. Some people simply cry and tear more easily than others, and if you can laugh so hard you cry over a joke, that reaction might also come rather easily during tickling for some.

just a thought.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Unless it is REQUESTED by the ticklee to be tickled to that point and or even beyond, then it is NOT a good idea to do so. You are risking that person not allowing you to tickle her/him again. Is it worth it for one extreme scene to end it forever?
I think NOT.

TTD

 

[mrhm53755]

This is like beating a dead horse. Everyone keeps going back to the ticklee having control thing and tickling someone against their will. I agree 100% with not doing that. I am quite sure that almost all of us would not tickle someone to tears at this stage in our tickle life. I was just asking if way back when have you seen or done it. Most of us fantasize about tickling someone that bad. Some even write it into their stories. Just because you recant a version of such an event that you either witnessed or participated in does not mean that you now condone such an act.

Eric

 

[Slappy McGee]

hey eric

if you think thst this topic brings out the political correctness in everyone , try bringing up drug use 🙂

just messing with everyone....

but really,

I think the reason that everyone gets a little conservative and defensive here is because in the past, and on other boards, topics like this have gotten really really crude and disrespectful and out of hand. Everyone here just wants to set a good example, thats all. Also, as said, this can be a sensitive topic for some people. Perhaps it isn't that people are ignoring your request for these types of reccolections, but perhaps those who have such stories are meerly expressing that it makes them uncomfortable to relive those experiences in order to post them. Nobody wants to relive mainful memories. Sometimes you gotta read between the lines here a little, ya know?

peace.

 

[mrhm53755]

Slappy you are right and I do understand where you are coming from. It is perfectly ok if someone doesn't want to recant a "painful" event from the past. I just kept reading that it is non-consentual and abusive. I know it is both of those things and would not do it to someone. But it is interesting to hear about such events that have occured in the past. I guess I am more of a politically incorrect individual than most.

Eric

 

[Myriads]

I have, in a B&D/S&M setting, when given a slave to play with as I wished, by their owner, tickled them until they cried (among other things). Since I'm a sadist, I quite enjoyed the experience. The audience seemed to also. Afterwards, the sub even seemed to indicate that she had enjoyed it on some basic submissive headspace way.

Probably as close to a non-consensual yet still legal experience as one will be able to find.

Myriads

 

[QBWeaver]

I knew I liked you Myriads... Now I know why!

 

[mysterytic]

Sorry mrhm if I misread your initial posting

I had a very frightening experience where my g/f passed out and stopped breathing. Anytime something extreme comes up in conversation, my mind recalls the incident. It is guilt I will carry forever. If I misinterpreted your posting, my appologies.

 

[Krokus]

Sweet!!!

Way To Go Myriads!!!! 😎

 

[dvnc]

Re: Sorry mrhm if I misread your initial posting

I had a very frightening experience where my g/f passed out and stopped breathing. Anytime something extreme comes up in conversation, my mind recalls the incident. It is guilt I will carry forever. If I misinterpreted your posting, my appologies.

Brother, I do sympathize. QBWeaver does that, and the first time she did, the guy and I that were tickling her sides practically swallowed ourselves. Spooks ya. Luckily for us, she's terribly forgiving.

You DO get really good at looking for such responses, after that, though. I can keep Jan conscious now until she's no longer got voice to laugh. Gotta love a play partner who asks to play even AFTER the voice is going. Couldn't do it, mind ya. Somethin' about the whisper of sound where there was a roar before just seemed wrong, somehow. Besides, there's always the NEXT gathering, y'know?

Homeward bound,

dvnc
p.s. I'm wit' Krokus. Go Myriads!

 

[starfires]

I've had an experience somewhat like that, from the other side. When I was around 10 years old, my classmate pounced on me and tickled me until I peed -- 15 minutes or so. I didn't cry in the standard sense of the word, but I definitely had tears in my eyes from laughing so hard.
I was helplessly ticklish back then (*wistful sigh*)... I was lying on my back, he was on top of me, mercilessly tickling my ribs, and all I could do was laugh and laugh, and try to squeeze his fingers with my arms -- didn't even have enough strength to try to tickle him back. At first I didn't want to beg him to stop, as my pride would not allow, and I was sure it would have no effect anyway. By the time I changed my mind, I had no air to spare for conversation: I was so far gone in silent laughter that making any sound at all was quite impossible, let alone uttering an intelligible word. So, I resigned myself to laughing it out until he got bored. Eventually I lost control of my bladder. Some time later I managed to sqeeze out the words "I peed myself"; I still remember feeling moderate surprise at the way my voice sounded while I was quaking with silent laughter -- very high pitch, slow, clear, almost uninterrupted. At that point he let me go.
I didn't like being tickled at the time, yet I didn't resent him for tickling me. I think I blamed it on myself for being so ticklish. Now it's one of my fondest childhood memories. *sigh* what I would give to laugh like that again...

 

[mge99]

I have tickled my wife until she has cried, on several occasions. I think it is important to distinguish between tears of laughter and actual crying. You can get tears from laughing hard at a funny joke but you are not crying. I think a lot of times when people talk about crying associated with tickling, they are referring to tears of laughter, as opposed to really crying. I try to avoid tickling my wife so long that she actually cries, but I sometimes get carried away. Just a few weeks ago I did that and I did feel a little guilty afterwards, but I got over it. Still, I took it a little easier on her the next time.

 

[Krokus]

Not Me

I do not think I could ever tickle someone to tears......I would stop as soon as they started cryin'........that is serious stuff right there......nuff said'!

 

[ForgottenTcklr]

It will most definately ruin future positive tickling sessions with this ticklee.