As the tickling going on, do you feel more, or do you desensitize?

[banana]

My girlfriend is sometimes ticklish. When I tickle her, she usually laugh and sqhirm for a while. But after a while she has less reaction, and finally feels nothing at all 🙁 Occationally, her feeling maintain at the initial level, and will beg me to stop. I really want her to be consistantly ticklish throughout the tickling. But dunno how to do it.

(Usually, I tickle my girlfriend with my fingers on her upperbody, lightly, sometimes slow and sometimes fast, give her a little squeeze every minute, without bondage. She desenitize within about 10 minutes. I did it while we are kissing, maybe the feeling of romantic makes her feel less playful and ticklish)

 

[Camel26]

For me, it depends on so many factors--mood, hormones, sobriety, how turned on I am...experiment with it and see when she's the most ticklish and try to go for it at those times...and most importantly, HAVE FUN!!!!!!!! 🙂

 

[MrTicklee]

I think Camel hit the answer there. It all depends. I myself am usually very ticklish, but there are times that I'm not ticklish at all if I'm not in the right mood. Fortunately, the later is a rare occassion! Just start playing and enjoy the experimentation!

MrTicklee

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

Let's Synchronize Our Sundials.................

Gee, Everyone Knows The Absolutely Most Ticklish Time Is At 9:12 Am On Tuesdays In A Month With An "r" In The Name. Lol! As Camel And Mr Ticklee Have Said, You Need To Play Around With Mood, Toys, Degree Of Exhaustion And The Critical(critickle???) *glenn Miller Orchestra Playing* In The Mood Factor. Of Course All Of The Above Changes Daily. As Camel So Well Said "enjoy". Even A "bad" Tickling Session With Someone You Love Is Still Great.

 

[mytoesrticklish]

Tickling

If my tickler is patient, I am ticklish throughout the experience. I am really too sensitive everywhere on my body for me not to laugh while being tickled. My bf goes from spot to spot, tickling me anywhere and everywhere. It tickles soooooooooooo much!

 

[banana]

Today i had a good time with my girlfriend, I found that usually I tickle her too intense.
It works much better to be slow. When i started, i just give her 1 second of tickle every minute. Then I gradually increase the intensity. At one point, it was just below her limit, she held my shoulder really tight, her body was shaking with a bit of laught while kissing. Then i stayed at that point, she stay like that for about 5 minutes, and finally she laught really loud and jumped away. And I continued to tickle her fast and hard, she was rolling on my bed and finally said she "resign".

 

[steph]

What a cute story! It definitely works MUCH better to be slow, IMHO. Your playtime will last longer and she'll love it more...😉
XOXO

Today i had a good time with my girlfriend, I found that usually I tickle her too intense.
It works much better to be slow. When i started, i just give her 1 second of tickle every minute. Then I gradually increase the intensity. At one point, it was just below her limit, she held my shoulder really tight, her body was shaking with a bit of laught while kissing. Then i stayed at that point, she stay like that for about 5 minutes, and finally she laught really loud and jumped away. And I continued to tickle her fast and hard, she was rolling on my bed and finally said she "resign".

 

[BBWticklee1973]

Well I guess everyone is different. As long as you were doing the lighter tickling that would keep me sensitized, in fact become more ticklish as time went on. It's the harder stuff that desensitizes me, or if the ler doesn't move around alot, then I'll get used to the sensation. I guess I'd just experiment some and see what works best. I'd try different intensities too to keep her guessing, maybe try a blindfold, those seems to help for keeping the lee offguard.

Sandee

 

[Dakota1]

Yep, BBW73--the blindfold is the key! Keeps sensitivity longer and in more places!