Hi there! I'm also asexual (sex repulsed one). Unfortunately, I'm a lee, but I can switch. But I do hope you will have good luck finding what you are looking for!
Relevant read… hopefully she’s grown over the past 5 years and/or her situation with her parents has changed. I’ll never forget what happened, though, and I really don’t want it to happen to anyone else. On the other hand, I do believe people deserve second chances. Give her a shot. Just be aware of past behavior and the risk involved. Good luck!