Being a male ticklee...... =o(....

[markymarc]

I know this has been a topic before, but I had to express my frustration with being a male ticklee. I am 28, cute, sweet, and ungodly ticklish all over, but as we all know the majority of tickling is M/F or F/F. And the fact that F/M contains the two minorities in this microcosm makes the odds even less favorable.

I have met a few female ticklers in the area, and it worked well for a while. They seemed to have a blast tickling the hell out of me and some even were aroused. But for one reason or another, I fell out of touch (figuratively and literally). One stopped tickling due to schedule, another moved. So I am left searching again, and don't know what to do. I've tried every medium possible with little success. I don't post a pic for fear of someone I know recognizing me. If a female tickler would just give me a chance, I know they would absolutely adore tickling me, without question. Yes, I am THAT ticklish all over and my many reactions are worth the effort.

Can anyone give me some advice what I need to do? I think I am missing the perspective of the female tickler here. I feel so alone in this search and my desire to be tickle tortured only grows stronger over time. I would never dare reveal this to anyone I know, it just isn't socially acceptable. I know I sound whiny, over emotional, and needy, but hey, I am really sensitive. And I finally realized that this desire is not going to go away. Maybe I am venting my frustration, while also looking for advice. Honestly I am trying to see if anyone else feels this way, because it is a lonely road and doesn't feel very good sometimes.

 

[qjakal]

Help and hope...

We all feel that way at times. As a 'ler I can't appreciate your perspective, but the search for TK playmates is always a cautious and sometimes prolonged process for both sides. There's the Personals Section if you're feeling adventurous...can't speak about the success ratio in there myself, since I've never attempted that route.

You need to learn to weather the "slumps" and enjoy the good times. The wheel always turns, might as well get used to it bud! Good luck, and don't worry...something will sneak up on you eventually....perhaps when you least expect it! That's been my experience in my 5 decades anyway! 😉 Q

 

[TickledToDeath]

mark

There are many of other ticklers out there/here, including Female ticklers! You will find another and or others eventually.
As far as pic posting here in the TMF, that is a NO LOOSE situation.
If someone comes to the TMF, it is NOT by accident! If that person or persons find you and or your pic here it is because they or she is INTO tickling and is looking for tickling! There is NOTHING to fear in that. You cannot stumble accross the TMF looking for swimsuits or feminine hygene products or beauty aids!!!

Damn,, I wish there was a drug for paranoia!!!

Get a grip bro! Be open and be yourself! Stop placing objects in your path. Life may be an obsticle course but you don't need to add hurdles and potholes yourself and make it more difficult!

TTD

 

[bob1968m]

being a male ticklee

I'm a male ticklee as well, and yes, it is difficult. For causal play, I had good success in the BDSM scene when I was living in los angeles, but it took some time to get past the pain players. I didn't meet a regular partner, but while i was involved i was able to get tickled quite often. However, despite my frequent play, i got bored with casual play. I want it to be part of a committed relationship, not with random people i meet at clubs or parties. Finding someone i really liked who was cute, available, and into my kinks is much more difficult than finding casual tickle partners. I now live in NY, and I have yet to meet someone, but haven't been active in the lifestyle due to other concerns.

Anyway, just wanted add my two cents.

Bob