Bondage/Tickling help!

[Stuart]

Hello - i have finally met a girl who loves to be tickled and actually wants me to tie her up and tickle the hellout of her. I am paricularly looking forward to tickling her soft feet and inviting belly. But i need some help. I have tickled women before - even though i had to pay for the privilege but i want to ensure this time i am able to tickle exceptionally well.
Therefore i want you - the wonderful community - to give me some advice. What is the best way to tickle someone with fingers? Are there different techniques for using fingers to tickle the feet, the belly, the underams, the legs, the thighs - etc.?
If so - share your knowledge!
Also i mentioned that she wants me to tie her up. How could i do this. I ideally want to use rope, however, i am inexperienced (hell - i have no experience) and as such i do not want to hurt the poor girl. What bondage techniques do you reccommend. I would love you to tell me of your favourite positions and how these are achieved.
I am thinking of making some stocks as well. My general plan is as follows. Please be good anough to read it and suggest modificaions.

I intend to acqire two sturdy rectangular pieces of wood and some sort of hinge mechanism equipment. I will get my ticklee to mesure the circumference of her ankle and from this determine the diameter of hole required in the stocks. I intend to surround the hold with padding so i will allow for this in my diameter calculation. To one of my pieces of wood i shall use a compass set to the radius of the lees ankle, to measure out two semi circle's that will be cut out to provide entrance for the feet. On the second and identical bit of wood i shall repeat the procedure as performed on the first in such a way that when the two boards are brought together they form a full circle. The boards will be attached to each other by a hinge at the left hand side of the wooden rectanles. Some sort of locking apparatus will be fastened to the opposite right hand side of the wood. This will be my stocks. I will then provide a base for his using additional strips of wood. Is this a good idea?
Has anyone actually made stocks, and if so how?!!
How for must the centre of one cut out cicle be from the other so as to provide optimum comfort for the lee?

Do you know of any other methods of restraint that i could use?

Also i plan to tickle her for up to and over 4 hours ~(she wants this too!). Is this a good idea? How can i ensure that she doen't lose her sensitivity as the time progresses. Are there any nifty ways of enabling one to tickle a girl for four hours whilst maintaing the level of ticklishness of the lee? Perhaps by altrnating between tickling and breaks, or by iterchanging bondage positions / tickling techniques?

Any suggestions would be most welcome. Also - for British and European ticklers - would you be interested in purchasing a two hour video of me ticklng this girl? She has agreed to me making a video and even distributing it to inteested parties - she is an exhibitionist! Of course i would charge about £20-£30 for the two -three hour long tickling extravaganza!

Please e-mail me if you ae interested. The tickling will start next saturday and the video will be availlable for purchase on the following monday.

Phew - you made it! Well done for reading all of this drivel!
From stuart!

e-mail - [email protected]

 

[tcrewme]

Some thoughts...

First Congrats!!! 😀

As to your bondage question...As this is your "first" bondage session I would suggest going slow. By that I mean, maybe you want to put all that effort out, but maybe for your first go, you might want to just try the good old Spread Eagle, or "T" postion on a bed or couch.
Also, don't just tie the ladies hands directly with rope, that will lead to rope burn...OUCH😡
Instead you should consider bondage cuffs with rope tied to them, and the cuffs should be,perferably padded and maybe velcro straps.

And if you do plan to tickle for 4 hours(again congrats), YOU will get tired, so make sure you use a myriad of tickle tools to keep your fingers loose and ready to go.

If you are going to tickle for that long, I suggest baby oil or some type of smooth lotion. The idea is that the oil keeps the sole or whatever body part, soft and the area being tickled will take a longer time to get rough and red.

Just some ideas...Good Luck😎

 

[Stuart]

Ok - so perhaps the above message is a little bit long-winded. Therefore i have condensed it into the nice succinct passage you see below.
In ten days time i will be travelling 200 miles to tie someone up and tickle them. I do not know how to effectiely tie this peson up - can anybody share bondage techniques?
Furthermore can anyone share tickling techniques that are designed to make the ticklee laugh as if she were possessed.
I am making a video of the tickling. So would anyone like to buy it. I should only think this video will be availlable to UK residents and residents of European counrties that use PAL format. It will be in excess of 2 hours long!!
From Stuart.

 

[GuitarPeteTklr]

Follow-Up: Re: Some thoughts...

First Congrats!!! 😀

As to your bondage question...As this is your "first" bondage session I would suggest going slow. By that I mean, maybe you want to put all that effort out, but maybe for your first go, you might want to just try the good old Spread Eagle, or "T" postion on a bed or couch.
Also, don't just tie the ladies hands directly with rope, that will lead to rope burn...OUCH😡
Instead you should consider bondage cuffs with rope tied to them, and the cuffs should be,perferably padded and maybe velcro straps.

And if you do plan to tickle for 4 hours(again congrats), YOU will get tired, so make sure you use a myriad of tickle tools to keep your fingers loose and ready to go.

If you are going to tickle for that long, I suggest baby oil or some type of smooth lotion. The idea is that the oil keeps the sole or whatever body part, soft and the area being tickled will take a longer time to get rough and red.

Just some ideas...Good Luck😎

Thank you, tcrewme, on behalf of Stuart, who may have forgetten himself in all the hoopla of pondering what appears to be his first "mutually consentual" torture tickle. Having tickled side-by-side with tcrewme, I can tell you, Stuart, that he has already given you a wealth of "sound" advice.

Truth is, (and even tcrewme or the others will confirm this), no single approach can be applied "universally" to ensure that there a tickler gets "screaming and begging" results that warrant a repeat performance from your ticklee. Some ticklees want only "light touch tickles" in which case pipe cleaners, feathers, soft strings (to travel between the toesies..hehehe), Q-Tips (to trace the under curve between the toesies and perhaps the navel, if her's is a sensitive one), etc. are the order of the day...

I and my jen prefer to mix "rougher touch" with "softer touch" in our tickling play...like lubing the feet and digging into the soles abit, then using light touch on the sides of her feet, which drives her crazy...blowing "rasberries" into her belly works well...or kneading the top and underside of her thighs...But, alas, all ticklees are NOT like My jen...and variety is the spice of life...so...you will have to experiment with some of these techniques, Stuart...test some light digging into the lower back and sides, that can often bring AMAZING results from MANY ticklees in THIS community (but not ALL of them). Look at your quest to find her most ticklish spots and approaches as a school project on your favorite school subject...but after all the notes have been taken and memorized...ENJOY!

Other recommendations is to negotiate UP FRONT any body parts that require special handling, i.e. areas compromised by old sports injuries, or areas she feels would be "inappropriate" for you to touch...Also consider using a neutral "safeword," such as "red" or "banana," leaving her free to yell all the other standard pleas for mercy as you tickle her. The deal is that you don't stop for ANY of her pleas, unless she specifically says the "safeword." "Safewords" should be honored unconditionally, as part of maintaining your "trust bond" as it is delicate and can be lost easily. You should also be prepared to break for "coughing jags" whether she utters the "safeword" or not. You can always edit that out later, if it breaches both of your pride to show a "breaking" on film...the reality is...you are exchanging ALOT of power and ALOT of trust here...if you betray that by not respecting her limits...she may never feel comfortable extend such a level of trust to you EVER again! Or even extend that to ANY OTHER tickler, for that matter!

One last safety item? COLD WATER! For BOTH of you to drink! As tcrewme was saying, intense tickles wear out both tickler and ticklee, as you will soon learn, firsthand. Remember to release her temporarily from her bonds and help support her upperbody as she has much needed "waterbreaks." Torture tickling can REALLY weaken a body dramatically! Oxygen deprivation from all that laughing can also make one TEMPORARILY loose their sense of balance (equilibrium). Be mindful of these items ANYTIME you release your lee from her bonds! Offer to support her, if she needs to go to the restroom, after releasing her...She MAY not realize just how daunted her faculties are, at that point...And YOU are responsible for putting her in that state, so carry it forward, and you are likely to have an experience BOTH of you will WANT to repeat!

And last but certainly not least! BOTH of you have a BLAST!

Hoping this was helpful.... 😕

*GuitarPeteTklr shreds his way BACK into tickling oblivion*

 

[Stuart]

To tcrewme

Thankyou - your advice seems sound and very appropriat. I particularly thankyo for the baby oil tip. In my eagerness i failed to consider that the area being tickled will ultimaely become reddened and sore. The idea of using padded handcuffs with perhaps velcro straps is also good - i'll have to find myself a pair from somewhere. I have seen these advertised on the internet by a British company - (as the tickling is due to occur in seven days time i would have to purchase such restraints from a British based company). They were made of leather and were very well padded - but also quite expensive - >£60. Could you perhaps suggest cheaper alternative?

To Guitar Pete

You have alerted me to some of the lesser know dangers of tickling. Oxygen deprivation leading to temporary loss of balance etc. was not something i imediately consdered, however, i think i shall look outfor that danger. Just one quick question though - what would you say is the maximum period of time that a lee should be continuously tickled? And your water avice has also been heeded! I'll be sure to keep her watered up! We were perhaps considering partaking of an alcoholic beverage or two (or three or four .... he he he). Is this a good idea? I don;t want her to become dehydrated - but nor do i want her to retain all of her characteristically British stubborn innovations!

Thanks for the advice!
Stuart

 

[GuitarPeteTklr]

To Guitar Pete

...Just one quick question though - what would you say is the maximum period of time that a lee should be continuously tickled?... And your water avice has also been heeded! I'll be sure to keep her watered up! We were perhaps considering partaking of an alcoholic beverage or two (or three or four .... he he he). Is this a good idea? I don;t want her to become dehydrated - but nor do i want her to retain all of her characteristically British stubborn innovations!

Thanks for the advice!
Stuart

The maximum time you should sustain a tickle is probably driven by her stoicism/judgement, which is why I so emphatically recommended you use a "safeword" system. Again, a "safeword" should mean stop (or at least wait for her feedback/direction on how you can fix the "play") unconditionally. And since you are relying on her judgement, and yours, to ensure her safety, introducing alcohol can be a DANGEROUS prospect in a venue of play where TOTAL FOCUS on ALL FACULTIES at ALL TIMES is probably the minimum order of the day. ESPECIALLY for novice ticklephiles, no offense folks! So...I would be VERY SPARING, if not REFRAINING, from alcohol consumption all together...besides, meeting the experience "head on" will probably make it "richer" for both of you in the end! First tickles are kind of like giving a public performance of any kind...sure, there are often some "pre-performance jitters," but once you say your first line, all warmth seems to return to the body and the mind...Then? It can get VERY HOT in the room...so to speak...hehehe

Be safe, Stuart, but, BY ALL MEANS, enjoy!😀

*GuitarPeteTklr shreds his way back into tickling oblivion*

 

[tcrewme]

Yeah what Pete said, with more Gusto...

Umm, if the cuffs are too expensive you can wrap towels around the wrists/ankles, the tie them to the apparatus or bed/couch.

Also,like Pete said, you should take NOTES! Keep the camera rolling but start at one end of her and work your way around...That should take about a half hour or so...Make note of her more sensitive spots and areas that are not quite as ticklish. Then go in for the kill.
Tickle the medium areas most then occationally go for the killer areas. This is important to long tickle sessions. Going from medium to killer in one jump is usually killer AND works well on the screen.

Also here is another point, if she starts to cough, slow down almost to stopping. Gagging is not good!!!
Like Pete said have a safe word, even if you edit it out later...
Here is another important thing if you are going to tickle, stay out of the way, make sure the camera can see your ticklee and your hands, you should try to stay away from "climbing" on top.
UNLESS, you use multiple cameras, and plan on editing majorly, but that requires funds. So just make sure that you are not in the sight line of the tickling.
Anyway, good luck.


Oh, this is important too!!! Make sure your ticklee is having a good time, in spite of herself. If you plan, on ever doing this again, make sure you handle her like fine, ticklish china!!!
Oh and consider some NTSC work, Maybe get in contact with one of our US based tickling companies and work something out...😀 Or not...🙁

 

[robmic]

Stuart's first time tying....

Hi Stuart;
While I don't tie and tickle as much as I used to, I have tied up a lot of gals in my day. As far as how to tie her up safely and securly, without special equipment, this is what I've used in the past that worked reasonably well. First, I use the softest rope that I can find. Usually around 1/4" to 3/8" diameter. Before I tie her wrists and ankles, I wrap them with a soft washcloth folded in half or thirds, then wrap the rope two, three, or four times over that to even out the pressure. The washcloth will take most of the harshness from the rope away. Once all limbs are secured with the rope, then you can secure the other ends to the bed/couch or whatever you are tying her to.I like to stretch her as tight as is comfortable for her to prevent her from squrming too much, but that's just my preference, you can try different ways until you find a way that you like.
One thing I always wanted to try was a padded 'X' frame. With one of those, you could secure her at the ankles, just above the knees, the waist and the arms just above the elbows, and finally, at the wrists. This way, you take most of the strain away from the wrists and ankles, therfore, it shouldn't hurt those areas, and also, make them more secure for teasing!
These are just a few of my suggestions, and I agree with everyone else's ideas, too. Have fun. I'm jealous!😉

 

[P.H. Tickler]

4 hours? lucky you!

As far as feet go, have a pair of warm socks on hand, put them on her when not tickling her feet, because warm feet are much more sensitive.
Have a sports bottle on hand for water breaks ,in case she is thirsty right away and doesn't want to wait to be untied. Also, consider a sports drink as well, like gatorade or powerade.
I strongly suggest changing positions every 1/2 hour, and make sure later positions do not involve standing or balancing on her part. even if the position change is only from on her back to on her belly. Also, any tie that cuts off circulation is too tight, avoid slip knots (lasso style) or any other constricting ties.
One particularly cheap yet effective tying mechanism involves knee-highs and duct tape. Put the knee high over her hand, putting your pinkie on her wrist under the nylon. Wrap the tape loosely around several times, so you can slip your pinkie back out, this keeps it tight enough not to be able to work her hand through, yet loose enough to not restrict circulation. the nylon keeps the tape from sticking to her skin. Don't forget to rip the toe end open so her hands don't get hot. you now have a good set of bracelets/anklets on her. If you wish, you can tape over them with rope in a loop, then she has four "anchor points" that you can vary positions with easier than a full untie-retie situation, this is a perfect setup for spread-eagle on a bed with the use of rope in the 4 corners or even elastic tie down cords thru the loops.
have fun! I don't get to do full ties often, but the nylon/tape thing works well from past experiences😎

 

[Redmage]

Towels/Wraps not necessary.

I've seen a number of people posting about using some sort of wrap on the wrists to protect them from rope in bondage. I wanted to let you all know that this isn't necessary if you use the right knots.

The critical point is not to use any knot or tie that can tighten on itself. The two most common methods that I've seen people try when tying wrists and ankles both lead to this sort of constriction, and that's why so many people have problems with single-limb ties.

The big baddie is what's sometimes called a "cow hitch" or "hitching post hitch." Basically you take a length of rope, double it, wrap it around a limb, and tuck the free ends through the loop. It's a simple, natural sort of knot, and one of the first that most people try when they're just starting out with bondage. The problem is this knot is basically a running noose, and it tightens up something fierce if you pull on it. So it's no good at all for tickling bondage. DON'T USE THIS!

The second most common "bad tie" that I've seen doesn't really have a name, but it should - a very dirty one, for preference. You simply wrap a rope around the limb three or four times then tie a square knot to finish it. This is perhaps even worse than the cow hitch, because it *looks* like it should work, but again if you put tension on the line it tightens around the limb like a python. DON'T USE THIS!

There are many ways to tie non-slip loops that DO work. For a really full discussion of this, check out "The Erotic Bondage Handbook" by Jay Wiseman. For now though I'm only going to talk about two methods that I have personally used for years and that I know for a fact will work if applied correctly. I'll give one method for double-limb ties (like tying both wrists together) and one method for single-limb ties (like for tying wrists and ankles to the bedposts in a spreadeagle), along with web links for each.

DOUBLE-LIMB TIE
This is sometimes called a "wrap and cinch". You can find a very thorough discussion of this bondage technique here: http://www.bedroombondage.com/bondageu/drbondage/basictechniques.html

In a nutshell, you first fold your length of rope in two, then tuck the free ends through the loop and place the whole thing around the two limbs (I know, this sounds like the cow hitch - bear with me 😀 ) Now double back, and place the doubled loop so it falls in the middle of the space between the two limbs (tip: this works better if you have a slight gap between the limbs; you'll see why in a sec). Now wrap the doubled rope a few times around the limbs. Keep it a little loose for right now, because you're going to tighten it all up in the next step. When you have about enough for just one more wrap, tuck the free ends through the doubled loop and split them apart in opposite directions. Wrap the free ends in oppostie directions around the wrapping turns you made in the last step. These are called "cinching turns," and you'll feel the rope tightening up as you do this. Make a couple of cinching turns, and then tie it off with a square knot.

Check out the link - it's got a video clip to show you how to do this.

SINGLE-LIMB TIE
This tie rests on an uncommon knot - the French Bowline. For instructions on how to tie the French Bowline in bondage, see here: http://ms.ha.md.us/~hotpink/knots/bowline/

Pictures can teach this knot better than words, so I won't go into too much detail. But the French Bowline is an extremely secure knot that creates excellent rope "cuffs". I've had hardly any need for leather cuffs since I learned this knot.

GENERAL ROPE/BONDAGE PRINCIPLES:
Softer is usually better, with rope. I almost never buy rope that I can't feel first. Thicker rope is usually better than thinner rope, up to a point: the thicker a rope is the harder it is to tie good knots in it, so find a balance. I usually find 5/16" or 3/8" works best.

Pay attention to the tie-ee's opinions about rope tightness. If it feels too tight to him or her, then it probably is too tight.

If you follow these tips, you probably won't need to use wraps around the limbs. The only time those are generally needed is when you can't afford any rope marks at all. Generally rope marks or "bracelets" go away in a hour or less. But if you can't risk any marks whatsoever then even wraps aren't a perfect assurance. In that case fleece-lined cuffs are the only way to go.

If anyone has questions I'll do my best to answer. In the meantime, happy tying!

Scott

 

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