Sablesword
TMF Master
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- Jun 13, 2001
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Is bondage a part of BDSM if it's done without any D/s and SM?
I prefer to see (and read about) inescapable-but-comfortable bondage, with the D/s kept light & fluffy if it's present at all, and the SM even more so - to the point of being left off completely. (Or to the point of being an ironic and fake torment, a la Monty Python's Spanish Inquisition: "Bring out the comfy cushion!")
(Even when it comes to tickling, I prefer pleasure-tickling, or tickling as a faux-torture rather than "Real Tickle TORTURE!!!" inflicted because it's even more agonizing than, e.g. whipping the victim hard enough to raise welts.)
But is it part of BDSM, if the DSM is left off?
I prefer to see (and read about) inescapable-but-comfortable bondage, with the D/s kept light & fluffy if it's present at all, and the SM even more so - to the point of being left off completely. (Or to the point of being an ironic and fake torment, a la Monty Python's Spanish Inquisition: "Bring out the comfy cushion!")
(Even when it comes to tickling, I prefer pleasure-tickling, or tickling as a faux-torture rather than "Real Tickle TORTURE!!!" inflicted because it's even more agonizing than, e.g. whipping the victim hard enough to raise welts.)
But is it part of BDSM, if the DSM is left off?