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TickleCrazy

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ler4life's thread "my dilemma" got me curious. I have had some great tickling experiences which I have been enjoying writing about on TMF. But up until last week I'd never told anyone that I actually have an erotic tickle fetish. I want stories from ticklephiles out there who have come clean with your partner. How did you do it? What prompted you to do it when you did? What was the result, good or bad? (If this thread has already been done, please direct me to it)

Here's my story: I could have kept my fetish a secret forever, but... (1) An e-mail "marketing partner" shared my address with porn spammers but I hadn't done anything to attract it. So with my computer already defiled I could go click around on unseemly sites, cover my tracks and not care about any future porn spam. It was inspiring. I was blown away by the amount and quality of free tickling stories and images. For days I did nothing but read and, well, you know 🙂 (2) Having reached a certain age, I realized that life is short. How sad that I might never physically experience what fuels my inner sexuality! My burning desire and aching need would no longer be squelched. I found myself preoccupied with imagining ways to have a real erotic tickling experience.

At first I felt unable to share this with my husband. In my desperation I considered going outside our marriage. But our relationship is one of love, strength and duration and I would never in reality be unfaithful. So I waited, feeling like a cat in heat, for an opportunity to broach the subject with him. All the mental rehearsing of what I was going to say turned out wasted. I didn't use any of the lines I had planned. There my honey was, napping on the couch wearing only briefs. I sat beside him on the edge of the couch and ran my fingernails lightly over the fabric, behind the bulge and down along his inner thighs, bringing him to attention. Then I lowered the briefs... He awoke to my gentle erotic tickling saying how good it felt.

After he was "done" I told him how I wanted to have a similar experience, only much more intense. He saw how hot I was and joked that I'd been replaced by a "pod person." He wanted to know how long I've wanted this. He was upset to realize that he hadn't been thoroughly satisfying me like he'd thought. He was hurt that I hadn't trusted him. I explained my shame and fear of ridicule and rejection, and apologized that I hadn't been honest all these years. My heart pounded while he processed this for a while. Then he decided that although BD has never ranked high on his list of turn-ons he would try it for me. He really is a great guy.

Well, that first night was unforgettable. He's certainly no top but he's learning what I like. We both have a lot of exploring to do. Now my honey holds the key to what makes me wild. And when I'm wild he reaps the benefits. And that's the way it ought to be. Finally!
 
I told my ex boyfriend, and my friend Justin. It was somewhat scary to say anything, but not that bad, and I never regretted it. My ex was the first person I ever told (except people from the internet), and we were together for a while before I had the nerve to say anything. But he and I always used to have little tickle fights with each other, and he'd tickle me quite a lot, but it was always just a passing, playful thing. I don't know why I didn't tell him sooner, considering how we had already been tickling each other even before I said anything. But anyway, I think one day he snuck up on me, got me and after we were sitting together and I was like "I have to tell you something...I've never told anyone this before. I hope you don't think I'm weird.", and he was like "What?", and I was like "I like that a whole lot more than you realize. It turns me on a lot. Is that totally weird?" He told me no, he didn't think it was weird, he thought it was really cute. Then he was like "It never occurred to me someone would be into that"... and I told him yeah, there are people into it, and to look up "tickling" on the internet sometime and see what happens 😉. He thought it was really interesting and I could discuss it honestly with him. And we shared fantasies, and he even ended up getting somewhat into it himself, though I don't think he ever would have as much as me. But I was just happy he was so accepting, and open-minded. He's still the only guy I was ever in love with.

And Justin, he's my friend from work that I can talk to about pretty much anything. With him it was a lot easier, because he admitted something to me first. I think we were checking out some hot shirtless guy across the street, and he said something about him being barefoot. Of course, this got my attention, so I asked him if he liked feet. He was like "yeah, I have so many fetishes it isn't even funny. But feet is probably the biggest... and armpits. I love feet and armpits. I'm a weirdo", and I was like "No, I don't think it's weird! I'll tell you something weird about me..." hehe..and so now we both can just be totally sick and twisted together in our conversations about guys, since we have the ability to be honest about what we're really thinking. 😉
 
i was honest and up-front

i tickled all my g.f., and dates. it was no different when it was my (future)wifes turn. after a couple of dates where i tickled her silly i said "as you may have noticed, i have a thing for tickling" she said she realized that on our first date.
always be honest, if you can't be honest, you don't have anything.
steve
 
Siamese dream, you are blessed to have a confidante and to have experienced a tickle partner. Areenactor/Steve, you are so right about honesty. I wish I had been more honest with myself and my partners in my younger life.
 
I've tied up and tickled every girlfriend I've ever had. Some were not ticklish, so I stopped there. The majority were extremely ticklish but I never tickled them after the first time because they couldn't stand being tickled. And only one or two actually seemed to enjoy it. One was actually a "one night tickling stand" -- beautiful girl who I met at a business conference. After drinks, the bar closed and she suggested we go back to one of our hotel rooms for the wet bar. We both started kissing and after our shirts were off, discovered that we were both very ticklish. I overpowered her, held her hands over her head, and tickled her armpits and ribs while straddling her waist. But after that, she wouldn't stop tickling me. That was a fantasy come true.

I've been dating someone for a while now who stated from the get-go that she hates being tickled. I almost felt that was enough to not move forward, but she's an amazing woman in every way and I decided to not let this one thing get in the way. Anyway, after a year of intimacy, she asked me if there's "anything that I like" between the sheets and how we need to be "open about what we want". I hemmed and hawed, but eventually just told her. She said although I can't tickle her, she'd be happy to tie me up and tickle me. First time she wasn't very good... but fast forward to 6 months later and she has me begging for mercy. And when my eyes aren't scrunched closed from the tickle torture, I can see she enjoys her work!!

Now, I must admit, as much as I love being tickled, I really miss tickling women. But since I'm in LA, I've made a few trips to Lady Lauras and Passive Arts to satisfy that need.

g_man
 
TickleCrazy, good for you! Congratulations! I love happy endings.

As for me... my girlfriends don't have to be "told," they usually figure it out pretty quick!

🙂
 
TklrJoe, I really wish I had been more like you all those unfulfilled years -- comfortable with my needs enough to let my partner know.
 
a ? for g man 313

you said you tied up every girl friend you had, and tickled them.
did you actually tie them up? how did you get them to go for that?
have you ever tickled a girl that wasn't tied up? i take it you much prefer to tickle a girl tied up, is that accurate?
steve
 
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