Personally Linda (or Tiffany
😉 😛 ) I would not hold it againgst you and neither will most of the good people of the TMF. I have been around on the net for about 5 or 6 years now.
Before I went on line, I have been around in the tickle community or scene since 1982 or 4(seems like centuries).
In every chat room I have ever been in, and especially here in the TMF, I only say that because I don't go into many if any more chat rooms other than TMF.
In 98.999 percent percent of the time, every single time a female comes into a chat room(moreso if it is a new fem fatale
😉 )she will be literally bombarded and swormed with Private messages.
It is just the way it is. It does NOT make all of them badguys or jerks but yes, believe it or not, there are some out there

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You may or may not get used to it, however you will learn to weed out the jerks or trolls or the overpowering ones'. Most will get the message and move on. Some will learn, apologize for their lack of class and consideration and you all will move on. There are primarily and for definatly majority damn good people in here and out in the community in general.
They ALL mean well but some of the jerks just have a problem with their "delivery".
Some ladies react differently and get sooooooooo overwhelmed that the initlal response is to react,retreat and do the first thing of ramification that comes to mind.
You will develope your way of dealing with it.
Don't let some of the negitave destroy any of the positive. For every positive is 3 times as value per every negitive.
Hope this helps ease your conscience.
TTD