Calling all freaks. Need new kinky sex ideas to try with partner.

[Psycho]

I'm trying to come up with new sex ideas to get some more spice back in our sex. I tried google searching this question, but everything I found was obviously written for vannilas. They all suggested ideas that we have been doing forever: bondage, roleplay, spanking, etc. These general level kinky acts are kindof stale to us now, so I thought I would ask here and see what this great community of fellow freaks could come up with. Thanx guys.

Psycho

 

[chicago]

 

[Psycho]

really!?

 

[knicks255]

Erotically remake scenes from the Three Stooges. Seductive eye pokes and "Why I oughta..."'s. You can be Larry, she can be Moe. Find your own Curly, or hire one.

 

[Myriads]

Random ideas are not going to be very effective.

The best place to look for ideas is in yourself and partner. Is there something that you WANT to try you have not? That She wants that has not happened? That's the sort of thing that you are looking for.

Random ideas are like walking into a restaurant and having them hand you something off the menu at random. You may like it, and may have even thought about it, but you also might hate it.

What do YOU want to do?

Myriads

 

[Psycho]

Idk. Honestly i can't think of much that we both would be ok with that we haven't done. lol. Btw haven't spoken to you in years Myriads. Hows it going?

Psycho

 

[Myriads]

Idk. Honestly i can't think of much that we both would be ok with that we haven't done. lol. Btw haven't spoken to you in years Myriads. Hows it going?

Psycho

So you are saying that you've explored all aspects of sexuality with you current partner that you feel fit within her and your hard limits? That you both have no fantasies that you have not sated?

I'm well. Thank you for asking.

Myriads

 

[C.A.B.]

Borrow $10,000 from your partner and never pay it back. They'll never feel more fucked in their life.

 

[Psycho]

LOL. Thats a good one C.A.B., and no when you put it like that I suppose not. I guess I just need to put my thinking cap on.

 

[Jagermeistered]

Have you ever tried to do it with a strap-on dildo? A comedian mentioned that he played around with double penetration with his lady's strap-on, and his dick. I don't know, and that was the first funny kinky thought that popped up in my mind. You could throw in tickling, but that is a cost-benefit analysis. Try it(if you have not tried it), and please educate us.

 

[Psycho]

Holy shit! An actual suggestion. Thanx Jager. That actually does sound like a good idea. i have never done anal (just not really my thing) but if its that strap-on going in there then... If she goes for this I'll let you know how it went.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

Here are my interests and curiosities copied and pasted from Fetlife. Maybe it'll give you some ideas.

Into: anticipation, asphyxiaphilia (receiving), being chased, tackled, and tickled, being dominated by a conservative (giving), being gibbs smacked, being held tightly by the throat, being slammed/pinned to walls, being stepped on, biting (receiving), blood, blood play (receiving), bondage (everything to do with it), bootblacking (giving), breast bondage, breast/nipple torture (receiving), breath play (receiving), bruises (receiving), caging/confinement (receiving), cat-o-nine-tails (receiving), chainmail paddles (receiving), choking (receiving), clover clamps (wearing), collar and lead/leash (wearing), complete immobilization, consensual nonconsent, cote de pablo, crawling on my hands and knees to your feet, cutting, d/d tickling (watching), d/s, demandaflop (giving), discipline (receiving), dog shock collars (wearing), drawing blood (receiving), dripping blood, edge play (receiving), electrotorture (receiving), face slapping (receiving), fear, fire cupping (receiving), fire play, flogging (receiving), forced eye contact (receiving), forced goomba trance (receiving), forced sleep (receiving), fucking marines, gags (wearing), glittery balls, goomba-approved hypno-scenes, hair bondage, hair pulling (receiving), hair pulling induction (receiving), hard bites that feel like nipple clamps (receiving), having wax removed from me with a knife, high risk business negotiations (watching), homeland (watching), human furniture (giving), humiliation (receiving), hypnosis (receiving), intimidation (receiving), kicking ass with krav maga, kneeling, knife play (receiving), laughing at people who say 'dominate' instead of 'dominant', leaving marks, light and sound machines, mark harmon, mental bondage, michael weatherly, mind fucks (receiving), mondynucleosis (giving), needle play (receiving), non consensual tickling (receiving), non-verbal hypnosis, obedience training (receiving), offending liberals by using logic, paddling (receiving), pain (receiving), pinching (receiving), punching (receiving), qwop (watching), remote-control devices (wearing), riding crops (receiving), rope bondage/suspension (everything to do with it), rough sex, sadistic tickling, saran wrap mummification (receiving), service-oriented submission, shibari, sitting on the floor, sleeping in my cage, spanking (receiving), strangulation during sex (receiving), stun guns (receiving), subtle acts of submission in public (giving), sudden fierce and unexpected slaps to the butt or thigh (receiving), team jomanda (everything to do with it), the mixed pleasure of pressure points (receiving), tickle-induced trance (receiving), tickling (receiving), tiva (watching), total power exchange, verbal humiliation and degradation, violet wand (receiving), wartenberg pinwheels, wax (receiving), whips (everything to do with it), whispering softly in a low, menacing voice this close to your ear and making you so hot you can't stand it any longer (receiving).

Curious about: watersports (receiving), accidentally using a cat as a flogger, aesthetic violence (receiving), artistic cutting (receiving), barbed wire flogging (receiving), bed of nails, being a priority, not an option, being spit on, being undressed with the use of a knife, body painting with blood (receiving), branding (receiving), drowning, electrocution (receiving), expensive german hospital restraints, fire flogging (receiving), flesh hooks (wearing), getting fucked by a gun, gun play (receiving), knocked out by chloroform, led nipples (wearing), mommy/girl, needle paddle (receiving), orgasm by vocal command (receiving), paingasm (receiving), predator/prey, scarification (receiving), sensual caning (receiving), slave auction, sutures (receiving), tranquilizer injections (receiving), water bondage (receiving), water torture (receiving), waterboarding (receiving).

 

[ticklishdanny]

Might I suggest, "The Captain"?

 

[Dussicar]

Use a cheese grater.

And nobody told me, so you'll have to figure it out on your own just like I did.

 

[Myriads]

A lot of people are making ha-ha's in the thread, which is disappointing, as you actually asked a serious question. Members should remember that we have a forum for humor, and to keep such there. What they have done here is basically troll the thread, and that is not acceptable. Stop it.

On point, you never really answered my questions above, but you provide the impression that you and your lover are bored with your sex life. I'm not a fan of the school of 'doing stuff just to do new stuff' school of sex. Jumping into pegging is fine if its something you think you'll like, or desire, but just randomly doing stuff because there is a lack of 'the spark' is not a solution that tends to bring results.

The issue you need to look at, is why are you currently both bored?

Your sex life is a reflection of your relationship. It's another aspect where you connect, share, and enjoy each other. It's roll in every relationship varies, but understanding what you and your partner expect from sex is the place where you start to figure out what sort of sex you should be doing.

Getting out a big list and checking things off it is easy to do. But think of it like this: What if you and your partner were just flying to random places around the world every few weeks for a vacation. Japan: Check Mexico: Check Paris: Check and so forth. You'd collect a huge list of destinations, but to what end? It's more about WHY you take a vacation someplace, and what you do with your partner on such trips, rather then the exact specifics of where that matters so much. You go to experience place X with THEM.

Same with sex. You are experiencing it with them. What you are doing is window dressing.

If you are bored with the sex, then you are bored with your partner. And vice versa.

What is it that you are seeking in sex with your partner? Start there.

Myriads

 

[Dussicar]

No. Seriously. Myraids. I actually was expected to employ a cheese grater.

 

[kopfhorer]

A lot of people are making ha-ha's in the thread, which is disappointing, as you actually asked a serious question. Members should remember that we have a forum for humor, and to keep such there. What they have done here is basically troll the thread, and that is not acceptable. Stop it.

On point, you never really answered my questions above, but you provide the impression that you and your lover are bored with your sex life. I'm not a fan of the school of 'doing stuff just to do new stuff' school of sex. Jumping into pegging is fine if its something you think you'll like, or desire, but just randomly doing stuff because there is a lack of 'the spark' is not a solution that tends to bring results.

The issue you need to look at, is why are you currently both bored?

Your sex life is a reflection of your relationship. It's another aspect where you connect, share, and enjoy each other. It's roll in every relationship varies, but understanding what you and your partner expect from sex is the place where you start to figure out what sort of sex you should be doing.

Getting out a big list and checking things off it is easy to do. But think of it like this: What if you and your partner were just flying to random places around the world every few weeks for a vacation. Japan: Check Mexico: Check Paris: Check and so forth. You'd collect a huge list of destinations, but to what end? It's more about WHY you take a vacation someplace, and what you do with your partner on such trips, rather then the exact specifics of where that matters so much. You go to experience place X with THEM.

Same with sex. You are experiencing it with them. What you are doing is window dressing.

If you are bored with the sex, then you are bored with your partner. And vice versa.

What is it that you are seeking in sex with your partner? Start there.

Myriads

This ^

 

[mabus]

What other fetishes do you have, and what one's would you enjoy if you don't have them?

Obviously I think nylons/pantyhose are the greatest invention ever, aside from door locks, caller ID, digital video.....

Footjob, or nylon footjob...but this goes two ways, the thicker, rougher nylons, which you won't enjoy at all, as others have attested to, which is why there are so few nylon footjob videos,
.... or having her wear very soft, sheer toe.....maybe silky? very thin nylons. Then it's 180 degrees in the opposite direction of sheer (pun intended and not) heaven on Earth.
If you asked a genie for 3 wishes and that was your first one.....you wouldn't need the other two wishes!

Try tickling in nylons, or tickling in nylons and costumes, or sex in costumes - she's an evil or good witch and needs you, or you need her, for a sex ritual, or tickle ritual.
She conjures up a pleasure monster or something, and you then tickle her to hysterics.

I've never even paid attention to hand jobs, but when I was married, I got one or two....damn, I see the heavenly wonder in those!

I would love to get one one day with the girl wearing sheer toe suntan colored pantyhose, and either a see through nighty, other costumes, or naked, so I have something to aspire to!!

Don't also forget to get closer away from the bedroom, as Myriads said. Go take walks, have a picnic, get dressed up and see a movie and go eat out. Don't even worry if other people aren't,
tuck the button down shirt in, have her wear stockings and a dress, and just look good. I saw a couple in Walmart today, of all places, a guy and girl, both wearing nice white outfits, screw
Labor Day bullshit fashion rules, she had on a white dress, white heels, suntan colored pantyhose in a world that says that entire outfit is wrong, and he had on a white button down shirt -
both walked arm in arm, and looked better than everyone in that store, (which is pathetically easy, obviously!) and the entire city to boot. They also looked damn happy, and were probably
going home and having a lot of damn good sex, and probably some hotter tickling as well if they have the fetish. Everyone else was going......who cares, they looked creepy! (I saw people sneering at them, but they paid them no heed. Jesus they had nasty people in that store tonight, goddamn! They were probably sneering at me too, ...I had taken a bath before I went and didn't look
strung out on drugs!)

 

[kopfhorer]

In addition to some of the excellent advice being offered here, I think you could do worse than to go on Fetlife.com (membership is free) and take a little time to see what other folks are into (if you haven't already done so).