Can I get some advice?

[-Kunoke-]

A friend of mine from Cali is coming up to see me this summer, and truth be told, I'm itching to tickle her. I have told her before of how I have a foot fetish--but she has absolutely no idea of my tickling fetish part of that. She's very understanding and all, and I'm pretty sure she'd be okay with it, knowing her. But I'm not quite sure how to ask her about it. Plus there's always that chance...and I REALLY do not want to screw this chance up, because she has gorgeous feet and she's absolutely through-the-ceiling ticklish. I guess I should really take the advice I've given to people about how to tell someone, but she'll only be around for a week, and I'm afraid there wont be time. Does anyone have any suggestions? Even though this isnt happening for a good few months, it's still great to plan ahead. Especially when it's something like this.

BTW-This girl has no problem whatsoever with my foot fetish. In fact, on occasion, she'll put her webcam up and flex her feet around and such in the cam. So thats why I'm thinking she'll probably be okay with it if I ask her if I could tickle her, but then, I'm uneasy about it. I guess if nothing else sounds good though, I'll just break it to her, even though thats probably not the best idea.

Oh, and before I forget, thanks in advance. 🙂

 

[alchemy1]

Hey man, if she's got no problem with your foot fetish, chances are that she will be cool with the tickling thing too...unless, she simply hates to be tickled. I would find out (in a round about way) how she feels about the subject.

 

[-Kunoke-]

Hey man, if she's got no problem with your foot fetish, chances are that she will be cool with the tickling thing too...unless, she simply hates to be tickled. I would find out (in a round about way) how she feels about the subject.

Thanks. I'll try that too. Direct is not always the best. She'll probably catch on if I start out trying the subject anyway. But that IS what I was thinking. If she has no problem with my foot fetish, then she'd probably be fine with tickling too..BUT that's if she doesnt mind being tickled. Anyway, thanks again.

If anyone else has any input I would greatly appriciate it.
The more ideas I have the better it will be when I'm done figuring out what I'll do. 🙂

 

[jj82277]

for us, tickling someones feet is the equivelant if not greater than kissing someone. is there any romantic feelings between the two of you whatsoever.

 

[-Kunoke-]

for us, tickling someones feet is the equivelant if not greater than kissing someone. is there any romantic feelings between the two of you whatsoever.

Well, I suppose you'd be correct in stating that, BUT, I'm not looking for it to go that far. I like her and all, but we don't have any plans to date one another 😉 Long distance relationships very rarely work anyway, and it costs her a lot of money to come up here, so she can't just do it any old time. (sorry to people who have long distance relationships and are happy with them. they don't ALWAYS fail 😛 they just usually don't work out from what I know)
Besides, I can control myself, so I think it could work out fine. She knows feet turn me on, and she apparently doesn't care, if she's willing to flash her feet around in her webcam at me. 🙄

Who knows what she's feeling. Once she said "You're lucky I've taken a liking to you, or I wouldn't do this!" So...we'll see what happens I guess. 🙂

 

[-Kunoke-]

Ok, new plan.

These are the ideas I've come up with. (in no particular order)

1. Next time she teases me on her webcam with her feet dangling there, I could start up a conversation about my foot fetish, then threaten her with something like "If you keep teasing me like that, I'll tickle the crap outta you when you come over here!" That gets tickling on the subject, and I can see her reaction to that.

2. Work my way into letting her know somehow that tickling feet turns me on. If she feels comfortable knowing that, I can be pretty sure it's ok to ask her.

3. She teases me ALL THE TIME about my foot fetish, always saying things like "When I come over there, I'm never going to wear anything on my feet!" Just to make me shudder. Perhaps..when that time comes, and she starts teasing me right here in my own home..I'll spring on her and start tickling her. Then if she doesnt mind, I wont stop. 😀

4. Tell her flat out. Something like..."You know how I have a foot fetish? Well I have this thing for tickling too. Could I tickle you when you come up here?"

What's everyone think?

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

it appears this senorita loves being able to turn you on with the power of her feet. the hollywood brother is pretty sure she will love the attention you give her feet when you slowly tickle them all night long while having some classic rock like ozzy, ac/dc,poison, lita ford, dee snider, widowmaker, twisted sister, alice cooper, thin lizzy, etc... playing loudly to motavate you to tickle her li9ke only you can tickle her. whoo!

 

[-Kunoke-]

it appears this senorita loves being able to turn you on with the power of her feet. the hollywood brother is pretty sure she will love the attention you give her feet when you slowly tickle them all night long while having some classic rock like ozzy, ac/dc,poison, lita ford, dee snider, widowmaker, twisted sister, alice cooper, thin lizzy, etc... playing loudly to motavate you to tickle her li9ke only you can tickle her. whoo!

Thanks for the motivation HB.

 

[-Kunoke-]

Alright. So tonight I put my plan into action. While chatting on MSN, I got my foot fetish on the subject, and she started talking about how much she was going to tease me when she got over here. With all the courage I could muster, I said "If you tease me too much, I'll just pin you down and tickle you till you cry!" then she replied with something like "oh not that! I'm so ticklish!" I said "well maybe you should be careful how close you get" and she said "nah, teasing you is too much fun, it's worth the risk"

In other words, I'm thinking that's an okay on letting me tickle her. I have no real need to tie her up, as long as she lets me tickle her. 🙂

Thanks for the support and ideas everyone.

I'll give you a great big story on everything that happens when she comes up here! 😀

 

[jj82277]

i quote the great and wise lil boise, "do it big then".

to put aside my logical thought processes, if this girl is a friend of yours that you want to tickle torture, but lives a really long amount of time away, take full advantage. she definately needs to be punished for teasing you like that. I don't speak girl that fluently yet, but after the direct threat of being pinned down and tickled serverly, persisted action implies one of two things, she doesn't believe you, or she doesn't mind
you pick one, either way, go to the hardware store, buy some rope, and play classical music when you do it. the psychological torture is hell on them. and speak really proper.

 

[mart]

Hey, this is a willing and able girl who may not be in love, but at least must be attracted to you, as you are to her. So don't question the whole thing too much, tickle her all you want, but remember that she is a human being and probably just wants a fun human relationship. So don't do anything initially which could ruin that.

On the other hand, if she is ready to go further, jump at the chance, even if it is not a lifetime thing. Not doing so would be to look back later on a missed opportunity with an attractive and willing woman and you will kick yourself.

 

[Cavum]

Like I wrote on the "My 19 year old slaves feet" thread.
If you are open about what you like you get chances all the time.
Im very open about what I like and girls dig it. They don`t go like
"iew thats discusting", but they go "thats so cool/sweet" and they
are very interested about it. To take a example...the girls I know
always do sweet things to me...and sometimes stupid fun jokes. 😛
Like for Christmas I got a pair of pink toesocks with the writing
"Suck my toes". 😛 Stuff like that just put that taugh in you head that
they accept it and it`s no problem. Another girl even took pics of her
feet and sendt to me just to be nice to me. I didn`t even ask for it.
So like I sayd before...be open and don`t be afraid of telling what you
like. It`s hard in the begining, but after some time it becomes natural.
I always been the "silent about my fetish" kind of guy....but since I
started to become open about it.....well.....check out the thread
"My 19 year old slaves feet" on Gallery and you see what I got. 😉
And she`s not even my girlfriend...

Im not even gonna wish you good luck, cause I know it`s nothing
to be afraid of! Have fun! 😉

 

[Quesetal1]

Alright...

There are many ways to go about this, my approach seems to be on the more subtle side (it kind of has to be, im not out about this with anyone yet). If I were put in your situation, here's what I'd do:
The next time you two are on the webcam and she does the foot thing, I'd probably say something to the extent of, "you are such a tease" followed up by a quick "If you keep teasing me like that, you are going to pay for it. Trust me, what I've got in mind is horrible." At that point in the conversation, all of the ladies I have tryed this on were either trying to psych me out by saying "bring it on" and the like, or they are practically salavating, begging to know what this horrible thing is. Then I'd say "Ill tickle you silly." To which they usually reply "OMG, that is horrible!" Then from there, just ask if she's ticklish and after that, you can take it anywhere you want!

Sorry if I went on a bit long, but that's what I'd do in your situation.

EJ

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

to the hollywood brother it sounds as if this girl is madly flirting with you and more importantly will allow you to tickle her. the thing is according to the hollywood brother is you got to go through and actually tickle her. it will take your relationship and playfulness with her to a whole new hollywood brother level

 

[-Kunoke-]

Thank you everyone for your imput. I'm definately going to go through with it, since I'm not stupid. Of course, I'm not going to be too evil about it, if I'm planning on any other "incidents" of the sort. Being open about these sorts of things really does pay off...and I'm truely happy I've been open about it with people now. Oh, and Cavum, I had something sort of like that occur. One of my friends bought 2 pairs of socks. One pair had "Left Foot" and "Right Foot" on them, and another pair had "Tickle me here" on each one. I just about died when she did that 😛

Hey, this is a willing and able girl who may not be in love, but at least must be attracted to you, as you are to her. So don't question the whole thing too much, tickle her all you want, but remember that she is a human being and probably just wants a fun human relationship. So don't do anything initially which could ruin that.

On the other hand, if she is ready to go further, jump at the chance, even if it is not a lifetime thing. Not doing so would be to look back later on a missed opportunity with an attractive and willing woman and you will kick yourself.

Yeah, I get your point. I was planning from the beginning to keep it playful as possible, but if she was willing, to go in for the kill. Who knows what will happen eh? It's better to look back on an awsome playful little tickle fight rather than forcing it, because non-con really isnt my thing. I will keep that in mind when the time comes. It's going to be a really long (almost) three months...

 

[-Kunoke-]

Update again!

We talked a good 2 hours tonight, and I once again brought up the subject of tickling. By now I'm sure she knew I liked it, so what the heck right? Well, I was nervous at first, but I knew if I was just straight with her...it would work.

So, I said

"All right, I'm tired of trying to build up to it, so I'll just tell you straight up. I love tickling, and I'd really like it if I could tickle you."

A loonnnnngggggg silence occured here...

After about 10 minutes (god knows why) she responded with...

"Okay! Have a field day for all I care!"

I said "Really?"

Then she said "Yeah, I don't mind at all!"

(This is all copied straight from MSN, for anyone wondering. I kept the convo open so I could do this)

I proceded to tell her how I thought she had absolutely beautiful feet and I just had to ask her if I could tickle her because I was a tickler..(I pretty much gave her the details of my foot/foot tickling fetish, and I didn't leave much out, just so she knew what she was getting herself into. I mean it's only fair, right?)

After I said this, she told she was very flattered, and said I was really sweet, that kind of stuff. Then she told me she thought is was absolutely adorable that I liked to tickle feet, and that she'd never met anyone like that before. Then she told me again she didn't mind at all, that she'd be happy to. (this part I didn't bother copying and pasting in, cuz I'm tired 😉 )

So it looks now like not only does she not mind if I tickle her, but I can do basically anything I want, judging by her "Have a field day" description. Things are really turning up for me 🙂 Not only that, but she thinks I'm adorable for it! That's ALWAYS a plus right? 😀

Why didn't I think of this in the first place...

Thank you everyone! Now I'll have an unforgettable experience to look forward to! 🙂

I'll be sure to write up a large descriptive story for you guys too. :happy:

 

[nessonite1]

Good for you!! At tempting as it is be careful not to go totally nuts and freak her out 😀 Let her continue to think it's adorable and not pervy. 😛

 

[-Kunoke-]

Good for you!! At tempting as it is be careful not to go totally nuts and freak her out 😀 Let her continue to think it's adorable and not pervy. 😛

Of course 😛

I'm planning on leaving it completely playful unless we agree on something else.

 

[-Kunoke-]

It's always better to know in advance right? Well that's what I decided. I decided it was best if we didn't think about it at the last minute, but rather, got comfortable with what exactally was going to happen, and not have to worry about anything.

So. I set up a convo with her, and I didn't want to sneak my way into it like usual. Maybe not the best idea, but I figured it was safe. So I just got it up straight out.

I'll copy the convo in bit by bit for convienience.

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Me: "(Her name here, keeping it under wraps for privacy concerns), tell me if anything about it bothers you, because it's better not to leave you in the dark... anyway! You DO know what I had in mind when I asked if I could tickle your feet right? It's because in a situation such as that, it isnt good if no one knows whats truely going to happen, and I don't want anything to happen if not everyone knows clearly. (most of this was separated due to MSN's limits, so I pasted it together)"

Her: "I'll just put my feet in your lap, and you can do what you will. The only rule I have is keep it hands only. Other than that, I'm cool."

Me: "So anything I want, as long as I stick to using my hands, correct?"

Her: "Yup."

Me: "Okay, I just thought it'd be nice to clear it up before hand."
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So that's it. It would seem we've decided I can tickle her, in any way I want, as much as I want, as long as I stick to using my hands (darn, no toe sucking I guess! 😉 ). I have also been informed by her that she'll stay still if that's what I want, but I'm sure I can expect her to move a little at least.

Talking further with her on the subject, she said she has absolutely no problem with any of it, and sees it as doing a friend a nice favor. She doesn't mind me talking about it with her, or anything of the sort, so long as I don't just talk to her about that every time I talk to her. I mean, what kind of relationship would that be? Talking about your fetish with your friends and nothing else every time you talked to them or saw them? I'd creep MYSELF out doing that kind of crap. :weird:

So this is how it will be. She has set me no limits to what I can do, besides the fact I can only use my hands. Therefore, I'm going to tickle the crap out of her, and I'm going to have fun doing it. Everyone can expect a story after this occurs, maybe a few, depending on how much it happens. Just don't expect anything more than a big ass amount of tickling. No sex guys, sorry to burst your bubble 😉 But that's life for ya huh? It's fine with me. 😎

To end my post, I once again thank everyone for their help and support. You have given me a great oppertunity, and I'm sure it will be unforgettable. Your reward is my undying gratitude, a story (after it happens), and for that story, I'll be sure to describe everything in unsurpassed detail, down to each sound of her laugh. It'll take me a while to complete, but you'll enjoy it when it's done (you'd better, or else!).

 

[CellarDweller]

Good luck to you buddy! Hope you have fun! 🙂

 

[ticklishcutie39]

Having a webcam myself and have a major foot in addition to love,passion for tickling,being tickled..if she is flexing her feet for you on webcam and teases you knowing you love it,I believe she is craving being tickled too just like a diehard tickle
fanatic🙂
Definitely do keep us updated!