Can the Ladies come clean?

[MrFingers]

I think you girls that post here are patient and do put up with a ton of rude comments and come ons but at the same time you are very open. With that being said, I am a very conservative type guy who happens to enjoy tickling cute feet of women, provided they don't mind. But me being "In the closet about my particular like" I often can't help but to grab a glance of a pair of well kept pretty feet. Once or twice I have been caught by the woman and get a look in the eye. Most of the time they seem to be amused and simply smile. I on the other hand turn 5 shades of red, give a nervous smile and go on my merry way. Now my question is to the ladies. How often do you catch guys stealing glances at your feet and legs and does it annoy you. Just so I am clear, I am not a gawker, nor do I gave "Cat Calls" but it is tough not to gave a look at such beauty.

MrFingers

 

[nessonite1]

As long as it's not a real creepy looking dirty-old-man type I would be flattered. No one ever looks at me like that. *sob!*

I wouldn't compare it to the kind of forward, and often rude, comments we hear online. An apreciative glance would always be welcome. 😀

 

[MrFingers]

Now Nessonite, I have seen your pic and your vid clip, I can garuntee, with out any doubt, I would give you a very discrete glance. I have found that those modle type women have claws for feet. It is the moms next door that have the cute & very ticklish feet a regular guy loves. And you most definately fall into that category. So no more sobs, That's an order from a fellow Jerseyan

MrFingers

 

[nessonite1]

Thank you. 😛 It may be an unfair generalization but I've noticed as well that models, celebrities, and otherwise beautiful people you see in print very often have UGLY feet. No idea why.

 

[BBWticklee1973]

Honestly during the summer everyday I catch some guy looking. It doesn't bother me in the least as like Ness said it isn't some slimy guy that's going to make a move on me. I would assume since most of these ladies just smile at you they aren't offended in the least, they probably appreciate the fact that you notice their well taken care of feet. Just my .02.

Sandee

 

[morgandee]

nessonite i am like 1000000 years old with a combover

you have nice fucking feet awoooooo meow meow catcall woowoo

 

[Camel26]

Only on a few rare occasions have I caught men checking out my feet...I'm always flattered, and then my mind runs away with me as to what they'd do if I let them do more than just look...I've had the same thing happen with a few women...

I'm usually looking around a bit myself...I've never had anyone give me any negative feedback, in fact, most women and men just smile at me! So it's all good to me...anytime someone wants to check out my feet, as long as it's just checking them out and nothing more unless I give permission, hey, window shopping is always cool with me!!! 🙂 Excellent topic!!!

 

[Dude'sonfire]

One wierd thing that i've noticed with girls my age (I'm only 19) is that some of them find it *extremely* difficult to even accept a compliment or simple gesture of admiration... I mean they all *say* they want to feel sexy, but when i tell them that they are lol, or if i give them a smile or whatever, they always act distant and behave as though i'm extraordinarily strange. And the wierd thing is, when i say stuff like that to someone y'know 21 +, they're totally cool with it! lol And will usually start flirting with me haha. I mean... Why is that? Is it just a confidence thing? ... strange...

 

[chickles_:)]

Hiya! 😎

I'd definitely have to go with the majority of fem posts here. Genuine admiration that doesn't come across as creepy or overthetop staring -that just makes me feel self conscious- is really flattering and a great boost to the ego. (don't know whether that's how it should be but it is, and, well, i'm not about to change it. :snob: 😛)

Anyway, like Camel26 i'm usually enjoying the sights as well so how can i complain? :tounge: I guess i'd add that the more forward we are in our admiration of whoever, the greater the risk (not certainty) of it being misinterpreted. Does that make sense??
Also, as women, we are constantly reminded that we have to be careful, this is different i think for guys. So sometimes something might set off our cat whiskers even though it's totally inoccuous. I know that doesn't help a lot other than to say, be aware -it's different for us.

To address your question, Dude's, I suspect it's a confidence thing. Teen girls have so little of it, they often haven't got totally used to their bodies which have been gawked at by boys their own age who themselves haven't clued in yet on how to be discreet. It's all rather psychologically complicated. 😕 :tired:
Add to that our society's general aversion to the open acceptance of compliments on anything and well, you get the idea that a teen girl will often find herself on a delightful, if very unmanageable, emotional rollercoaster with your TASTEFUL compliments.

Very sorry for being so long-winded. :redface: :redface:
I hope this helps a little *crosses fingers and toes*


Many blessings,

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

ness: i am sure guys look at you all the time. the hollywood brother think you just do not catch it. Don't put yourself down. The hollywood brother knows is is every man's loss out there that you are married except for your husband who is a very lucky person

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

ness: that was a complement even if it do not sound that good

 

[Dude'sonfire]

..you get the idea that a teen girl will often find herself on a delightful, if very unmanageable, emotional rollercoaster with your TASTEFUL compliments.

lol do i detect sarcasm...?

 

[-Kunoke-]

One wierd thing that i've noticed with girls my age (I'm only 19) is that some of them find it *extremely* difficult to even accept a compliment or simple gesture of admiration... I mean they all *say* they want to feel sexy, but when i tell them that they are lol, or if i give them a smile or whatever, they always act distant and behave as though i'm extraordinarily strange. And the wierd thing is, when i say stuff like that to someone y'know 21 +, they're totally cool with it! lol And will usually start flirting with me haha. I mean... Why is that? Is it just a confidence thing? ... strange...

I'd have to agree with you there. It happened to me all the time in high school as well.

"You look pretty today."

"No...I'm fat and ugly...don't look at me..."

"Wait...what?"

:weird:

 

[nessonite1]

lol thanks HB. If guys are looking at me they are descreet to the point of being highly trained international spies. 😛

 

[-Kunoke-]

I take a look at any good pair of feet I see. Do you think I care if I'm seen? No! I don't give a rats ass! They can look at me weird all they want, and I'll smile inside...possibly outside as well. 😀

I've also seen your clip Ness, and I must say, if I were around, I would certainly be sneaking peeks. 🙂 Your husband is truly a lucky man.

 

[TicklishFeet6]

I like when guys check out my feet

 

[Dussicar]

lol thanks HB. If guys are looking at me they are descreet to the point of being highly trained international spies. 😛

That's the great thing about the net. I can stare at your member pic all I want and you'll never, EVER know! HA HA HA HA H---AH, CRAP!!! I just told!

 

[Melissa666]

Feet sometimes, legs all the time. You have to be flattered by it I mean thats why we ladies wear sandals and mini-skirts! If your that wound up that it would bother you then life must be very difficult. My advice is not to catcall but if you know youre not gonna see the girl again such as a busride or something, to tell her she has nice feet or legs! What have you got to lose? I can tell youre not a perv just by starting this thread. If we rode the bus together and you told me "excuse me but I have to tell you this you have great legs or feet" id be hysterical laughing and would talk to you if you initiated further conversation. Dont be so conservative dude! GO FOR IT!!!

 

[steph]

me too!

For the work I put into them and the amount of $ I spend on pedicures, nail polish, toe rings, anklets, thigh highs and high heels, I've come to EXPECT it~Hee!

I like when guys check out my feet

 

[Kalamos]

As long as it's not a real creepy looking dirty-old-man type I would be flattered. No one ever looks at me like that. *sob!*

* Give Ness a look. And grunts. *

 

[chickles_:)]

Hiya Dude's!

Please, don't worry, i take you as very tasteful. 🙂 no sarcasm intended at all. -truth.

I just meant to agree with what Melissa said, ie the difference between genuine appreciation and catcalls. 😀
Hope that helps. Go ahead and have fun!

Many blessings,

 

[Lucifer1]

I agree with Melissa666 100% and actually do what she posted us men should do. The only thing is walking the fine balance between complimentary and obnoxious but its not as hard as it sounds. Shyness doesnt work anymore man, you got to put on your best for the girls and let em know you care!!!

 

[Dude'sonfire]

lol thanks Chickles, you're ace. See my problem is I can't NOT compliment women, lol. The idea of a totally awesome girl just pouting around, unaware that she is totally awesome, boils my poor brain... It's just wrong!!! haha 😉 Also I'm a fairly vain guy myself, and I know I eat up compliments like a starved hog heh, so i assume other people love to hear it too :happy:

 

[nessonite1]

That's the great thing about the net. I can stare at your member pic all I want and you'll never, EVER know! HA HA HA HA H---AH, CRAP!!! I just told!

COOL I have my very own stalker! 😛

*sses Kalamos and his evil glar*
Ohhhh....two stalkers!

 

[jdtickler]

Ohh i wish i just knew girls like u (all who posted before) cuz always i flatter a girl's feet i get answers like "thanks thats sweet, but why the f were u looking at my feet ???" and stuff like that, and believe me i never said creepy or annoying stuff, and it is always followed by ackward/unconfortable silences .
I dont know if it involves the fact that for some people that has no fetishes, or any kind of attraction or relation with feet more than regular parts of ur body, see feet as someting yucky, ugly and dirty, so they cant just understand why would someone compliment or appreciate such filthy part of the human anatomy.
I also knew a lot of girls who hated their feet, even if they had beautiful and cute ones.
Could this "feet missconception" be the reason why not all women appreciate feet compliments ??

The most difficult situation for me is when i wanna compliment the feet of a girl i really like, cuz i dont know how she's gonna take, dont know if shes gonna think im weird and creepy for staring at her feet.

what u think ??