Thanks for chiming in! I don’t ever want to invalidate your experiences and I’m sorry to hear about all the disappointing encounters you’ve had with non-ticklish women.
If you don’t mind, I would like to offer a more nuanced perspective. I think healthy discourse is good for this forum so don’t take it personally at all. Although keep in mind, most of what people say on this forum is anecdotal and it is for me as well, so take it all with a grain of salt.
I regret not elaborating as much in my original comment, but I think the key phrases that I should’ve alluded to were “CAN be” and “not all the time”.
This is just my experience, but everyone I’ve met who have said that they weren’t ticklish were either never properly tickled OR they were simply “not ticklish in most situations”. But once I dove deeper into the conversations with them, often times they would say that they were ticklish earlier in their lifetime and that they are just “not anymore” currently. Or that they’re only ticklish when a certain individual tickles them, like a sibling or a parent, or a romantic partner. Or when they’re tickled by surprise etc.
I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who was 100% absolutely not ticklish ever in their lifetime. There was always some conditional. And it’s usually that they were ticklish before but built various levels of resistance to it over time. But again, I won’t speak for everyone. This is just my experience.
Overall, I 100% still believe that tickling is circumstantial, relational and psychological. Sometimes it takes a lot of ideal factors to align for certain individuals to just be ever so slightly ticklish. And on the other hand, some people can just be tickle tortured by anyone easily with no conditions needed
Unfortunately for us, what this also means is that we personally won’t always be the best tickler for someone, if at all. As good of a tickler as I believe I am, I acknowledge that I won’t always be able to get someone to react. But I firmly believe that chances are someone else out there could probably do better than me for that specific individual. Unless the individual just doesn’t have that relational capacity with anyone.
So in regard to your friend, do you know if she was ever ticklish before in her childhood? Do you know if she has a romantic partner or a sibling that has ever tickled her? Has anyone tried tickling her post orgasm lol?
Unless she has physical nerve damage, I highly doubt that she’s never felt anything tickle her before in her past. I think all these things are worth asking. Even if it means you can’t effectively tickle her, I would hope you could take solace in the fact that maybe someone else potentially could. Just my opinion.
Haha, I wish. That's a fantasy of mine. So I will say we've only ever been best friends so I have never tried tickling any of her private areas, nor does that really do me much good anyway if those are her tickle spots. I'm not a great tickler, but I'm not a noob, bad tickler either. I can say with close to 99.99% certainty her feet, stomach, sides, underarms, neck, legs, etc are not ticklish. I have tried everything from light to hard tickles to hair brushes and feathers and paint brushes, etc. We used to paint and sign each other's feet when we were in high school as some kind of "best friend project" I came up with to tickle her. No effect.
She's had countless boyfriends try to tickle her and other people as well. As far as she's told me, she has never ever been ticklish. She calls it her superpower because she is physically weaker than the guys. Her words, not mine.
I've never really asked about her ticklishness post-orgasm. I feel like that'd be a weird and uncomfortable thing to ask her and while I am known for having silly/goofy/weird condos and I do playfully tease her a lot, asking her about her ticklishness post orgasm probably isn't a conversation we will ever have.
So I guess technically the evidence is inconclusive until the above conditions are met, but that is something I will never be able to find out or use to my advantage.
As far as the other girls go, one girl from college I do remember tickling her a bit and she was ticklish, but she is a master at turning it off. Sometimes she is ticklish, sometimes she isn't. No matter how hard I tried. The other girl who is the one who got away in my opinion, she told me she wasn't ticklish, then during a text conversation one day admitted to me that she actually is ticklish. However, when trying to tickle her, the reaction was so miniscule that it wasn't even worth it. Def think she overestimated her own ticklishness.
I will 75% agree with you, but going to hold out on my belief that not everyone is in fact ticklish. I would, however, love to see you get your hands on my best friend. I still wish, to this day, I could see one ticklish reaction from her. Def a dream