I'm asking this question because I'm very troubled thanks to some of my female friends. As they say I'm obsessed with tickling as I constantly bring it up in conversations with them, to the point where it annoys them. Now my question is can you be too into something where you annoy someone or make them sick of you in that sense? Or do I just need to get some more compasionate and open-minded friends who won't constantly judge me on liking or wanting to be tickled? Any and all input would be greatly appreciate as I'm feeling really bad as of late thanks to some people.
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can you have a tickling obsession?
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amk714
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You are into tickling, but your friends aren't, so it's only natural they're annoyed when you bring it up. That doesn't mean you're obsessed with it. As for those compassionate and open-minded friends who won't judge you, we're right here for you, stef2dope! 😀
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Its them...
Trust me, its them. I have plenty of friends I've told about this and even talk with about it and they never get annoyed....then again all I hang out with is freaks of nature...most of them see my tickling fetish as being kind of "softcore"......LOL...
Trust me, its them. I have plenty of friends I've told about this and even talk with about it and they never get annoyed....then again all I hang out with is freaks of nature...most of them see my tickling fetish as being kind of "softcore"......LOL...
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There are going to be a lot of people out there that don't understand how someone can be 'into' tickling. However, if they are your true friends, they will show compassion and some degree of understanding about it. They might not get it, but they should at least give you a 'if it makes you happy then go for it' kind of response. That part is on them and if they aren't doing their part, then I say go find some other people to hang out with. I have told several friends of mine about my interest in tickling, and for the most part it has been very well received. They don't fully get it, but they don't put me down for it either.
I will say though, that anyone can get tired of a subject (any subject) if it is brought up continually. Once you 'came out' with your love of tickling and made it known to those that you feel close with, I say then let it drop. If that is all you want to talk about or engage in (and they are not into it) then you are going to be met with frustration on their part. If you get along with these people in every other respect, then you should keep them as friends, but just not expect them to fulfill this portion of your needs.
Believe me, I know it's hard to get those needs met. But you can do it, and with people that are into it as much as you are....us TMFers are living proof! And we will be willing to hear whatever you have to say about the subject (and never get tired of it..lol)
Maggie
I will say though, that anyone can get tired of a subject (any subject) if it is brought up continually. Once you 'came out' with your love of tickling and made it known to those that you feel close with, I say then let it drop. If that is all you want to talk about or engage in (and they are not into it) then you are going to be met with frustration on their part. If you get along with these people in every other respect, then you should keep them as friends, but just not expect them to fulfill this portion of your needs.
Believe me, I know it's hard to get those needs met. But you can do it, and with people that are into it as much as you are....us TMFers are living proof! And we will be willing to hear whatever you have to say about the subject (and never get tired of it..lol)
Maggie
Woah. Wait a sec, here.
If you've got friends that aren't into the topic, and you keep bringing it up around 'em, against their wishes, are you truly surprised that they don't dig this?
Doesn't matter WHAT the topic is.
I agree wit' Maggie, that way. Many of my closest friends know I'm into this, but the topic doesn't come up wit' them, 'cause they're not into this. I don't dig hearin' about waterplay (peeing games) either, but there are folks who REALLY dig that. If a friend dug it, so long as I don't have to hear about such all the time, swell.
Keep in mind that, for some, tickling ain't a positive. Some folks don't dig the sensation. Some folks got tormented as youths. Some don't associate it wit' sexuality. There's a bunch of good reasons why someone wouldn't wanna go there.
If you bring up a topic wit' someone, and they don't wanna talk about it, ask yourself if it's something you NEED to talk about with them. If so, and they won't, you have a problem. If it's not necessary, though, don't go there. There's thousands here you can talk to. THOUSANDS. There's gatherings countrywide, and it's spreading. You can MEET folks to talk to about such. Folks from here even WANT to talk about such.
Gotta respect a friend's boundaries, after all. It's just an awkward situation, man.
My $0.02,
dvnc
If you've got friends that aren't into the topic, and you keep bringing it up around 'em, against their wishes, are you truly surprised that they don't dig this?
Doesn't matter WHAT the topic is.
I agree wit' Maggie, that way. Many of my closest friends know I'm into this, but the topic doesn't come up wit' them, 'cause they're not into this. I don't dig hearin' about waterplay (peeing games) either, but there are folks who REALLY dig that. If a friend dug it, so long as I don't have to hear about such all the time, swell.
Keep in mind that, for some, tickling ain't a positive. Some folks don't dig the sensation. Some folks got tormented as youths. Some don't associate it wit' sexuality. There's a bunch of good reasons why someone wouldn't wanna go there.
If you bring up a topic wit' someone, and they don't wanna talk about it, ask yourself if it's something you NEED to talk about with them. If so, and they won't, you have a problem. If it's not necessary, though, don't go there. There's thousands here you can talk to. THOUSANDS. There's gatherings countrywide, and it's spreading. You can MEET folks to talk to about such. Folks from here even WANT to talk about such.
Gotta respect a friend's boundaries, after all. It's just an awkward situation, man.
My $0.02,
dvnc
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Re: Its them...
Very ture, think of the other fetishes out there....ticklin doesnt seem that bad...😛 😛
Cheshire Cat said:
Very ture, think of the other fetishes out there....ticklin doesnt seem that bad...😛 😛
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Of course you can have a tickling obsession. But if all you talk about is one topic and nothing else, I dont blame your friends for getting annoyed with you.
Youd get bored to if you were limited to only 1 topic to talk about.
Youd get bored to if you were limited to only 1 topic to talk about.
Heck, I agree wit' ya, amk, but the "you're right" comment is gonna make some folks defensive for little reason. A simple "I agree" goes farther without stabbin' the opposition in the posterior, y'know?
After all, Stef2Dope is big enough to be ASKIN' somethin' here. How many have the cheek to step up and do THAT? Witness that there are 5000+ users here, and there ain't 5000+ posts daily. The man's doin' right by askin'. Please consider doin' right by him, and your brethren here, by not turnin' it into a "right/wrong" deal. So many good potential discussions go straight to hell wit' th' whole "right/wrong" deal.
Your friendly neighborhood moderator,
dvnc
After all, Stef2Dope is big enough to be ASKIN' somethin' here. How many have the cheek to step up and do THAT? Witness that there are 5000+ users here, and there ain't 5000+ posts daily. The man's doin' right by askin'. Please consider doin' right by him, and your brethren here, by not turnin' it into a "right/wrong" deal. So many good potential discussions go straight to hell wit' th' whole "right/wrong" deal.
Your friendly neighborhood moderator,
dvnc
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we all get obssive now and again
your friends have done what friends should do, they talked to you about it.
now if they are nasty, then hell with them! just remember that some people are cursed never to know the wonders, and joys of tickling. feel sorry for them, and talk to them about the mundane things they like to talk about.
in the mean time, come talk with us, we're here for you.
steve
your friends have done what friends should do, they talked to you about it.
now if they are nasty, then hell with them! just remember that some people are cursed never to know the wonders, and joys of tickling. feel sorry for them, and talk to them about the mundane things they like to talk about.
in the mean time, come talk with us, we're here for you.
steve
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stef2dope-- If you ask me, these girlfriends of yours need a good tickling.
