Cheating Wrong or Right?

[tummynavelboy]

You already know my stance on it. Its Wrong because if you truely loved that Girlfriend/Boyfriend or Husband/Wife then you would stay with them for the rest of your life and love them through the bad and Good times(whoever your partner may be) to the fullest and stay faithful to that person. and not be sneaking around on the side with someother Girl or Guy. i just can not condone Cheating at all in any sense

 

[Meis_113]

What a weird question. Of course it's wrong!!! If you are married, you swore to her/his family and to God that you would love your spouse and no one else in that way. Cheating on them breaks their trust in you. If you are just b/f and g/f, and you like some other person, then just break-up with them. It's a lot better than breaking their heart when they find out you have been cheating.

 

[tummynavelboy]

What a weird question. Of course it's wrong!!! If you are married, you swore to her/his family and to God that you would love your spouse and no one else in that way. Cheating on them breaks their trust in you. If you are just b/f and g/f, and you like some other person, then just break-up with them. It's a lot better than breaking their heart when they find out you have been cheating.

i couldn't agree more. oh and btw no it's not a weird question! its just simple to see what peoples thought are on this subject matter thats all. Feed back is always Good

 

[nessonite1]

No it's not a wholly weird question. There are people who really honestly don't think twice about playing around in secret. And then there are even odder people who don't mind their wives/girlfriends running around with other guys.
Personally I'm a big fan of polygamy 😀

 

[tummynavelboy]

No it's not a wholly weird question. There are people who really honestly don't think twice about playing around in secret. And then there are even odder people who don't mind their wives/girlfriends running around with other guys.
Personally I'm a big fan of polygamy 😀

Why are you a fan of polygamy Nessonite?

 

[nessonite1]

I've always liked the idea of having a harem full of guys at my disposal. 😀

 

[tummynavelboy]

its Wrong Though!

 

[jht]

Hi Nessonite,

May I be one of your harem???😉

 

[Kalamos]

-> BellyButtonsRock

It's wrong by western culture and tradition.
Polygamy isn't immoral PER SE.

There are MANY issues in our culture which aren't really ethic, or moral, but simply traditional taboos.

A couple of centuries ago female vote would have been pure heresy, for example.
In the past kings, popes, rich and influential people warped morality and tradition to their own ends.
Henry VIII seceded england from catholic church over a matter of divorce...

On the other hand... cheating someone we love... inside or outside a fixed relationship, that's probably another matter.

But, still, morality - as history teaches - is quite flexible. We should reflect more on personal feelings than on public morality.


My 2 eurocents.
Reg's.

 

[alf1]

Yes - allright, but can someone please tell me then what means "cheating" or give a close word.
Polygamy is not immoral i agree with the post above. It depends in fact more of your open minding 🙂

 

[tummynavelboy]

polygamy having More then One Partnar or having sex with More then one Partnar is Wrong

a Man and Women should Marry and Date as one. Not Marry a bunch of Wifes or have sex with a bunch of Girls that isn't Your wife. it Goes total against what God Word says and thats what i belive in and fall back on

Sex outside of Marriage is foolish(Proverbs 6:23-35)


i rest my case


Moving on! carrry on people🙂 hehe

 

[nessonite1]

Polygamy is only wrong if it is done against someone's will. For instance if I chose to take on another adult member of my household and my husband said "uhhh...I dont really like this!" Then it would be wrong. However if I brought someone home and said "Can I keep him, huh? huh? huh? please?" and he said "Sure why not? The more the merrier!" then there isn't a thing wrong with it. 😀
I've always liked the idea of having a communal multi-member household. I guess I'm just a hippie at heart. 😛

 

[alf1]

it Goes total against what God Word says and thats what i belive in and fall back on .Sex outside of Marriage is foolish
(Proverbs 6:23-35)

OOOOOOHHHHHH :wooha:
Quite a surprising way of thinking.......i found it "agressive" but it's your choice. And god is ( still 🙄 ) a supposition remember......

 

[Kalamos]

-> BellyButtonsRock

You are quoting a religious text.
And that is just one religion - and one culture. 🙂

Again, story showed religion is - quite often - just a tool.
Something to keep people apart. A tool to give or take power and keep the ruled in line.

I'm not saying that God [god? gods?] is not. I'm saying that trying to desume a higher being's will/thought is quite hard, especially from a century old book - passed through many, many communities, which all had different outlooks and ideas on morality and life.

Besides, the quote says: "foolish". Not wrong.
We have been given free will. To try and sample. And discover if - for us - something is really wrong, just foolish, or maybe not too bad after all.


Clearly, this is MY outlook.
I have a spiritual life and "layman" [there isn't the proper word in english] moral and ethics.
Just I don't go by a book [or the Book] when making choices.
I go by my feelings, by common sense, by experience, and by thought. And sometimes I can do "right", despite all my shortcomings. 🙂


So, take care and... widen you perspectives. 🙂
Reg's.

 

[alf1]

Open minding is THE clue.

 

[Kalamos]

yes, Alf. Being openminded is quite important. 🙂

Open mindedness does not delete beliefs and faith. It just broadens your horizons and helps when religion just clashes with everyday happenings and life.


There are no such things as "unspeakable mysteries". There are just reasons we don't know of yet. 🙂


Reg's!

 

[nessonite1]

I didn't say is would always work! To quote the good book yeah it probably is foolish. Can you imagine having 10 wives with PMS all at the same time??
You'd not only be foolish...but setting yourself up for disaster! 😀

 

[Kalamos]

[PMS is pre-menstrual syndrome, for us english un-speakers... 😀]

Well, now, the trick is setting them up so as to have PMS at different times...

It wouldn't be family life anymore, it'd be a living timetable...

Wife number 4 coming on platform 8, rail 12... Wife # 3 having PMS on rail 11... 😀 😀 😀

 

[tummynavelboy]

ok Cool now let drop this topic hehe and Move on! Tickle on People 😀!!

p.s Kalamos that Religion that i Quoted that Passage from is NOT a religion its a Relationship for all thoses that truely follow(His Son)

anyways no more religious talk please i don't wanna make anybody mad or hate me

Thank you

 

[Kalamos]

Please... All relationships with higher beings regulated by rites and dogmas are called religions.

You can call it anyway you like. Just don't make me change my habits. 😀

 

[nessonite1]

Well, now, the trick is setting them up so as to have PMS at different times...

LOL Kalamos! It's a good thought but I'm afraid it wouldn't work. For whatever reason if women are living together they tend to cycle at the same time. Strange but true. 😀

 

[Kalamos]

They cycle at the same time.
Much like a gatling machine gun...

Just as lethal.

Bah, that was a sexist remark.


Let's say women beat at the pulse of the same clock.
Or, more simply put, hormones work in the same way for all. 😀

Uhm, did I thank you? Don't think so. Thank you. 😀
Why? Well, ask, and I'll tell.


Reg's.

 

[nessonite1]

LOL, okay...What are you thanking me for?

 

[Kalamos]

For your restraining chair pic.
It's given me an idea - and I unknowingly used it in my last pic, when I realized where I had seen that kind of position.

It was your chair. Raised arms and close legs.


Besides, I've noticed I don't have full control on my pics: they have a life on their own! I started doing a completely different pic, but it turned out this way on its own volition!

I tried to stay true to my original idea, but all lines looked wrong when I strayed from the pencil flow.
Go figure.


That's why it takes me so much to do req pics.
I have to wait for the seemingly harmless spark that ignites right inspiration.

It only happens with tk pics... I bet it's because it's not a matter of brain alone, here. 😀 😀 😀


Well, now you know. And the colour version is turning out nice - but it's taking ages! Coloring all the sweat drops on the bare skin is quite taxing...

I could use a drink, and a tickle... 😀

 

[MayDay1]

anyways no more religious talk please i don't wanna make anybody mad or hate me

Just because people have different religious views doesn't mean you can't converse peacefully and not get your collective tempers flared up. As long as nobody screams "Heretic!" what's the big deal?