I've been going pretty consistently to a fetish munch held every few weeks in the Lakeview neighborhood of Chicago. If you are not familiar with a "munch," it refers to a gathering, usually at an eatery or bar, where those into all sorts of fetishes are welcome to socialize.
I've been asked this before: no one will judge you at these events. It's set up specifically because those persons into the "non-vanilla" scenes or who are NB, trans, etc. need spaces and events where they can socialize with others like them. Just as with the TKLFest, since these gatherings are in a public space, there won't be nude people, chained, roped folks and the like. They are vanilla in looks, but you can talk freely about whatever fetishes you are into. Anyone violating rules and endangering others are forced to leave. Ejection isn't needed very often, but it has been done, as safety is a priority for hosts.
I know I've had guys contact me with interests in being tied and tickled. This is a good way to meet me in a non-judgmental, safe place and discuss future sessions.
I will be headed there tonight. These meetings are organized on Fetlife.com, which I highly recommend to anyone into any fetishes.
https://fetlife.com/events/1214566
I've been asked this before: no one will judge you at these events. It's set up specifically because those persons into the "non-vanilla" scenes or who are NB, trans, etc. need spaces and events where they can socialize with others like them. Just as with the TKLFest, since these gatherings are in a public space, there won't be nude people, chained, roped folks and the like. They are vanilla in looks, but you can talk freely about whatever fetishes you are into. Anyone violating rules and endangering others are forced to leave. Ejection isn't needed very often, but it has been done, as safety is a priority for hosts.
I know I've had guys contact me with interests in being tied and tickled. This is a good way to meet me in a non-judgmental, safe place and discuss future sessions.
I will be headed there tonight. These meetings are organized on Fetlife.com, which I highly recommend to anyone into any fetishes.
https://fetlife.com/events/1214566