I'm new to this forum and for a long time I thought I was weird for having this fetish(foot and tickling). Every encounter I've had with my foot fetish and tickling has been a pleasurable one. I never started out just tickling a girl. I usually introduce my fetish as a massage for her. I'll tickle/massage her so that there is subtle laughter but more moans. You have to be sensitive to her needs. Most women like foot massages so start there. Don't just start tickling her feet flat out. You have to test the waters so you don't freak her out. I've always been able to fulfill my fetishes without losing my girl's interest. Eventually she realizes it's what gets me off and then it eventually became part of our sex life.