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Coming Out

tickle_fan031

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Okay I've already told quite a few of you already....but would like to share it with you all coz I'm so happy about it now......

Back in June this year I 'Came out' to one of my best mates about my tickle fetish.I said I thought it was fun to be tickled.Her response was just the best as she said....

"I wouldn't worry about it hun,it pounds pretty normal to me.Everyone craves affection and human touch,it's only natural,human nature so to speak.I don't think you're weird or anything."

Since then she's been gettin me on and off,but nothing major-just a few pokes here and there.She's also got my feet a few times as well.

The other night I decided to introduce a very good online tickle mate of mine to her on MSN.The convo went really well.Tickling was the main focal point of the conversation.....surprise surprise.This bit of the convo made me laugh....

tk mate:haha aww, it's too bad I can't get her irl much. Her sides are apparently hella ticklish.*keeps poking at her sides to demonstrate*

my best mate: Lol that they are

Me: gaaaahehe *so embarrassing* Nah theyr not really

my best mate:LOL yeh they are sweetie.and you know it!lol

And the best thing my best mate said after that was "Yeah it's just tickling."

Then I got very brave and sent her a text message (coz she had gone offline by then) and told her that just coz I squirm/pull away doesn't mean I want her to stop and she can get me more if she wants.

She had gone to bed by that stage,so I didn't get a reply from her.We've been textin in the meantime but she hasn't commented on what I said-just been acting normal.

Then on Friday night we were sat in the pub and Anna was in my way- I wanted to get to the bar but she was being a pain and wouldn’t move, then she laughed evilly and stuck out her hands as if she was going to tickle me, then another mate moved her chair so I could get by and as I walked past her she attacked my sides.lol. Then a while later, and several vodkas later I sent her a text saying how much I appreciate her being so cool about my interest blah blah blah-and we were texting each other back and forth for a bit then Emily came and sat next to me and asked "who are you textin?"-not thinking straight-stupid vodka, I said Anna and she was like "what're you saying" and I wouldn’t say and she was like "why cant you tell me?" then she kept asking me but I wouldn’t say. In the meantime I had nicked Anna’s drink and was pratting around and she got my sides and tummy until I gave it her back-which wasn’t long.lol. then Emily was in the loo with bad hiccups and then she kept pestering me about it saying why can't you tell Anna n not me and I was like I'm too embarrassed to say it. Anyway people kept coming in and out and in the end I said "ok fine I'll tell you but I can't say it out loud so I'll write it in a text" and sure enough I wrote it down and she read the message and was like "is that it??" then I text Anna to ask her to come back into the loos and they were both like its nowt to be embarrassed about.I felt like 2 feet tall.But they were both reassurring me that it was nothing to feel bad about.Made me feel so lucky to have such good friends.


So now I've finally got over the paranoia and embarrassment stage and I'm so glad I've shared it with them. :happy:
 
You told me the other night.. but my opinion stays the same. I'm still proud of you for doing it!! Nice one!!

James xx
 
Fenlander said:
You told me the other night.. but my opinion stays the same. I'm still proud of you for doing it!! Nice one!!

James xx

Thanks chuck! 😱 😀
 
That is so awesome that you've got such supportive friends. n_n Congrats on "coming out" and their positive reactions to it. I bet they'll end up tickling you all the time before long. 😛
 
Sammi-chan said:
That is so awesome that you've got such supportive friends. n_n Congrats on "coming out" and their positive reactions to it. I bet they'll end up tickling you all the time before long. 😛

Thankies 😀 Well that's what I'm hoping will happen 😱 😀
 
I wish I had some good friends around here I could be that open with...anyone that knows lives back where I grew up...so there is no one to play with here aside from my ler...and it would be awesome to have someone to talk to about it...

Kudos to you, tickle fan!!! and a special kudos to your mates for being so awesome!!! 😀
 
Camel26 said:
I wish I had some good friends around here I could be that open with...anyone that knows lives back where I grew up...so there is no one to play with here aside from my ler...and it would be awesome to have someone to talk to about it...

Kudos to you, tickle fan!!! and a special kudos to your mates for being so awesome!!! 😀

Aww thankies.Just taking it one step at a time at the mo.I'm seeing her on friday nite again so im sooo looing forward to that.lol.
 
Good on you, although it could back fire, if as Sammi-chan says they start tickling you all the time. You may live to regret it 😉
 
IrishTickle said:
Good on you, although it could back fire, if as Sammi-chan says they start tickling you all the time. You may live to regret it 😉

Nah I don't think it could back fire on me-think it'll be a case of little but often coz I'm not sure whether they will realise how much I want them to continue with them not being into tickling themselves.

Sammi-chan said:
That's backfiring? 😉

Exactly! 😀
 
aucklandtickler said:
I guess it'd be easier to come out to your friends if you're a girl. Being a male you're wary of telling other females because they might think you want sex and tickling is the road by which you'll get it. And you're very wary of telling other males because it just isn't really someone guys talk to each other about. Sometimes I really need a gay friend 😡

Amen to that, brother. We males are so stuck "proving we're not gay"! It gets in the way of so many things and makes life suck a lot more than it has any right to.
 
tickle_fan03 said:
Okay I've already told quite a few of you already....but would like to share it with you all coz I'm so happy about it now......

Sounds fun. Obviously, if she engages you from time to time, she is telling the truth when she says she doesn't think it's weird.
 
aucklandtickler said:
I guess it'd be easier to come out to your friends if you're a girl. Being a male you're wary of telling other females because they might think you want sex and tickling is the road by which you'll get it. And you're very wary of telling other males because it just isn't really someone guys talk to each other about. Sometimes I really need a gay friend 😡

Having gay friends can have a whole other set of complications. Not often, but it can.
 
I came out to a few of my close friends a long while ago, and it didn't change anything. People tend to get worried about things like that, when in reality they might make a bit of fun and then just accept it into their daily life. The majority of the time, if someone's willing to avoid you because of a preference like that then it's more than likely they're not worth your time anyway.

Uhh, anyway, gratz.
 
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